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Sent to a friend I am a divorcee, and i would one day like to remarry. but i refuse to marry a man that does not work, drinks heavily or that does not have ambition. i have had friends to tell me that since i am older, i should just be glad to have a man, working or not. i just refuse to settle. i also don\'t want to date a married man. what are my options if any besides staying single?Rating:3.00
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- Well, you know what you want and now all you have to do is wait for him to come along.
In my opinion, if a so-called-friend gave, not only a, discouraging, but insulting comment, such as that, I wouldn’t consider them a friend. There are lots of older women who have boyfriends or husbands, who are, not perfect, yet, good men. Who wants someone who has nothing to offer BUTT sex. You can’t take sex to the electric, gas, mortgage, GMC or any other company that expects to be paid EVERY month. And once the newness of sex, wears off... you don’t even have that. Options? Let’s just say, patience is a virtue and to me, it’s worth much more than a wet butt and a few weeks of living in ignorant bliss, that so many women live in. Accepting the role of sole provider for worthless men that demean them with their dysfunctional mentality that, all I gotta do is, SEX her DAMN GOOD, then I’m in. It is up to us(women) to put a stop to it, because we control what happens to us. Young and old, because worthless men don’t care about what age or color a sucker is, they just care about how many FREE licks they can get. Setting standards and sticking to them is a great start. No I wouldn't lower your standard, just be sure you don’t make them impossible to meet. God bless and be happy.
Just a few encouraging words(I hope) from a sister with standards and peace of mind
- And very encouraging words they are, thank you sister for letting me know that I am not alone in my thinking. A made up mind is a peaceful mind. My mind is made up.
- SIS,
I TOTALLY AGREE! I am a single male in my late 30s, retired from the military and make great money and I to will not settle. I do not want a gold digger or a lazy woman that thinks looks and a big butt gets you free room and board. So I understand where you stand, but understand this please, we are not all sorry! Some of us are tag, because of someone else shortcomming. No do not settle, but also do not stop believing that so good men are out here looking for a good woman. Because I believe that beside every great man, there is a great woman.....