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Sent to a friend I'm from New York and I just recently graduated high school. I am 17 and a college freshman. Automatically upperclassmen think us freshman girls are gonna get to college and get crazy. I have partied alittle and I have met alot of guys but when they talk to me, because I talk proper, the first question they ask me is if I'm a virgin, and why I haven't lost it yet. The truth is I'm afraid to have sex because of the pain involved. Am I weird or just normal? I have had a couple oppurtunities but have always backed down. I'm a beautiful girl I\'ve been told, and I look like I've had many partners, but I'm naive and I don't want to be taken advantage of by some guy who thinks he can come still my innocence. Is there a way to point out a good one, without interrogating him, and scaring him off.Rating:4.50
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- there are no sure fire ways to point out a good one as you say, but here are some basic ideas that will hopefully lead you to some promising prospects.
he should be respectful of you and your ideas.
you should feel good about yourself when you are with him. if you find yourself doubting whether or not you are good enough for him or fly enough, then he is probably not the GOOD ONE for you. you should not have to change your personality or beliefs to be with this person, just be yourself.trust me when i say that when the time is right you will know it. don't worry about what people think, because that is something that you will never be able to control. you have your whole life to live and living life is more than just having sex. living life is about making good sound decisions and calculating the risks that come in life. but whatever you do wrap it up!!! - I have the all time best idea, honey..and I'm a 25 year old guy. Just tell any guy that you're with or anyone who asks you that you're NOT a virgin, I think you'll be surprised at the difference it makes in the way guys see you, and maybe then can sex come more easily for you..if at all. Its your life, and your business, I was a 23 year old virgin...and no loser either.
- Dude, there is no rush!
- Don't stress little mama.. being a virgin is something to be proud of. My girl lost her virginity at 21 (to me of course!) and I am damn proud of her...
- dont stress youre time will come im in love im with the obne i wanna loose it too but im not gonna give i up that fats weveb been together for 2months almost 3 we dated ebfore but not long we talked for a year we was bestfriends an now we still are but were dating he knows im a virgin an yes he respects that he loves me hes the best boyfriend ever i love him so much i trust him hes my everything so when the time comes it comes but dont let no one take advantage of you when the time comes it comes whatever happends happends.. but dont let no one pressure you im 16 years old an most of my friends have had sex but me but thats okay im waiting for the right person who loves me for me an respects me an i found him but when my time comes it comes!
- take your time you have your whole life to have sex. if you don't want it now, then do it with someone later
- Seventeen year old virgin. K sexi mami. Keep holding it.I am eighteen and I lost mine at sixteen.I regret it because it was so wack.It wasn't like we all expect it to be. I had a terrible experience..Depending on your tightness of ur vagina, it may or may not hurt.
Also you are beautiful..don't be beautiful because someone says ur beautiful.be beautiful because u feel beautiful..signin tp