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Sent to a friend Ok so I was with dude since highschool and then the closer we got the more i saw and heard who he really was. He lied, cheated, everything you can name basically he did it. So we finally broke up a few months ago, and i hear from my friends that he got a baby.Mind you we were together for 4 almost 5 years.Me and his sister are really close and so we're hanging out at MY apartment and our friends tell us to come over to their house because they want to tell us something. So we go over there and they tell us that my (now ex) boyfriend has a baby.And both of us are like "yeh right" . So they call the baby's mother , her mother,and the baby to come over. THE CHIC LIVES IN MY APARTMENT COMPLEX. and this baby is 5 MONTHS OLD! so he got her pregnant while were together and had just found out about the baby a couple of months before our break-up.His own sister didnt even know and was very upset that he never said anything.The shit truely killed me inside, I mean I'm looking at HIS baby boy. Not to mention that the girl is a sloppy hoodrat mess and has done nothing for herself.I wanted to scream , but then i realized that everything happens for a reason.I've talked to him since then , and even brought up the situation, and he didnt have much to say. Its like he didnt give a fuck at all. i think hes just happy to have the son he always wanted, but he didnt show any remorse or let alone apologize for anything. I guess he doesn't owe it to me. but can someone help me out here? I mean everytime I think about him and her , or his baby, I get this strong feeling mixed with sadness and hate and anger. I just cant help how i feel. His sister wont claim the baby is her nephew until he gets tested because the girl gets around, alot.but my ex claims the baby and drops off money for him and everything. I can see he is happy, but is it wrong for me to not be happy for him? Once again I know I may sound immature, but what would ya'll do? How can I contain my feelings when i think about the situation? we're not together so it's not my problem but im tired of walking around feeling bitter.Rating:0.00
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- at least you recognize that you have a problem with your feelings. but did you know that these feeling are normal, when you have been hurt and betrayed. but know that just because these feelings are normal that does not mean you are free to act upon them. do not focus on your ex and his new family, focus on moving forward in your life and live it. the best revenge ( if that is the case here) is to live well. do not bare ill will towards the baby for he is helpless and blameless. the baby is the only innocent one in this situation. the baby's moma did what she did as a consenting adult with your consenting adult boyfriend. the bottom line they did what they did because THEY WANTED TO DO IT! THE BOTTOM LINE IS THIS YOUR FEELINGS ARE NOT YOUR FAULT BUT IT IS YOUR PROBLEM. IT'S YOUR PROBLEM BECAUSE YOU HAVE ALLOWED IT TO BE. CHANGE YOU MIND AND CHANGE YOUR WORLD. LET IT GO GIRLFRIEND. TIME WILL TAKE CARE OF IT, IF YOU WILL ONLY LET GO. THERE IS TRULY SOMEONE OUT THERE BETTER SUITED FOR YOU, THAN THIS CHEATING SCOUNDREL. LEARN AND LIVE AND DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN. LEARN , LIVE AND LOVE THAT IS LIFE!!!!!!!