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Sent to a friend[1314] Pregnant by my sisters ex.
I have been in a relationship for the last few months with my sisters ex-boyfriend. Him and I have always been good friends. When my family and I dissolved all communication, he helped me with everything. We became extremely close and kind of fell into a relationship. My sister (or mother) and I have not spoken in months because of all the shit she has done to me. Over the years, she has stole hundreds of dollars from me and I have forgiven her each time. She has lived with me rent free and I have completely provided for her. Recently I found out that I am pregnant and even though I have no want to mend a relationship with her, I still feel bad. Part of me wants to keep the baby and I know that right now I am not on good terms with my family, but I don\'t want them to hate me. Even more the father is not financially stable...I have a good job. I have a child already. Him and I talked about him being a stay-at-home dad. I am totally confused all the way around.Rating:3.00
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- Okay sis. I understand you are having problems with your family we all do; on the other hand you have to look at the BIGGER picture, you are anticipating having a child with a man that is not stable. That should be your priority, family is forever and yes they might look at this situation like you are trying to get back at her in some way shape or form, but you cant worry about that GOD will work that out, you need to worry about two kids and basically financially handling everything. I personally believe in 50/50 you work i work we both handle family life and careers, thats how i see it. Dont strees yourself girl, you will make sense of this and you will figure out what you want to do, God Bless and best of luck with everything especially your family :D
- If you can afford to support a family and a family is what the two of you plan to be...by all means have the baby. A child is a blessing. And as long as he can be a responsible stay at home father and can fully take care of home, like a stay at home mom would, we live in 2006 and a 2 parent family is best. It really doesn't matter who the bread winner is.
- A nigga shouldn't come between u & your family. That is very nasty of u. Think about it, y did your sister & her ex break up? Don't u think the same thing will happen to u? But think about this, is he worth u & your sister love for one another to fall apart. U shouldn't have ever thought about crossing that line.
- you most definitely crossed the line. but the line you crossed will one day cross you. it's called Karma. what you give will most definitely come back to you sooner than you might think. it's too late to be confused, when earlier you were convinced it was ok to sleep with your sister's boyfriend. Hmm!
- Actually...he broke up with her because she doesn't want to do anything with her life. No school...no work...nothing. She lives from pillow to post, wherever she can stay a while for free...and as soon as anyone gets to talking about her doing something for her self or paying rent she moves on to the next. Literally...state to state...city to city. And if you read the paragraph thoroughly...it states that my relationship with her fell apart because her being a theif and a liar. It had nothing what-so-ever to do with him. This occured after the fact. But thanks for your opinion!