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Sent to a friend I would really like some advice as to why i do what i do, i am married and have been cheating on my husband with the pastor of my church who is also married, i have tried to ignore my pastor\\\'s advances and cut it off but i sometimes feel obligated to do it,not to mention i am also attracted to him, i know it is wrong and have tried to walk the other way many times, but he call me and sometimes approaches me at church, i don\\\'t want to go to hell, i have prayed and fasted about this and i know i have to make a chose but why is it so hard to resist this man and walk away, please help me understandRating:5.00
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- you don't have to walk away from this man, you both can walked together- straight to hell. what is it to understand you are just flat foot wrong and that is what it is. got it, now you just keep on walking.
- I wonder how your pastor can stand up and preach after being such a hypocrite.
- You wont go to hell because you walk away from him. He's blind leaading another blind fool (you). I mean that with tough love sis. Don't let him use his position to keep you in his gripps and feeling guilty. Those Catholic priests that rape young boys and girls made their victims feel guilty if they resisted them. by the way, your pastor is a demon!!!
- Your pastor is a demon!!!! you need to get him out of your life before he starts blocking your blessings. by they way, you're probably not the only one....go take an HIV/AIDS exam like yesterday. Good luck sis.
- Now you know I am not judging you or your pastor but you should have some shame.. to be straight forward it appears you are going to church to commit adultry (saying it very nicely) instead of hearing and learning about God's word. Who in the heck in their right mind anyway ..especially you ..can even sit in a church of God listening to a Man who call himself a Man of God having Sex with your happy getting your freak on Ass, how can you even listen to him .. oh i get it .. he preaching about .. what you are will be doing in Bed.. ? OH well Satan is just as busy .. well my advice is to get yourself together find you are real church and not a orgie temple .. if he doing you .. who else do you believe he is doing and don't say no one .. and if you out there doing another man . who is your husband out there doing and it's peeps like you wonder and complain about HIV .. get a grip keep those panties up or put some on .. and step to God right ..
- Here is som real good advice... Get a book called surving an affair most christian bookstore will get it for you ... Ask God for forgivenss and Turn from you ways... maybe got a different church. The temptation is so great because the fall will be greater.
- this is going to blow up literally... i advise you to leave thy church and seek counseling... as for thy pastor he shall have to answer to the man above... never nice to play around with the lords name, as this is sinning at it's worse...
( Admin ) - you are a ho, u should be on the streets selling yourself on sundays than in church..you would make more money too.
- hmmmm, i know where you are at. i know that my pastor's wife wants to be with someone else. our pastor is the dearest sweetest most gentle man, and i feel sorry for him, because i am in the same boat without a hubby who's interested in me.
it's not like he's intentionally looking for someone else............he's just lonely and locked into this marriage cuz god says so. he keeps trying, and honestly, i hate seeing the man try so hard, when i know she's into someone else. it's all so sad. and i don't think we can judge any one else's situations. only god can see our hearts, and know our weaknesses, and hear our cries. - UMMMMM DIS IS EXACTLY WHY I DONT LIKE TO GO TO CHURCH.PEOPLE IN THE DAMN CHURCH HOUSE IS FAKE AS HELL.YOU SUPPOSE TO PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH.DONT TELL ME NOT TO HAVE SEX BEFORE A MARRIAGE OR HAVE AN AFFAIR WHEN THE PASTORS DIRTY ASS IS DOING THE SAME THING.THAT SOME DAMN BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- give up religion and enjoy the sex. Sinfully sinless sex is the best.
- and what's up with the admin? Did he write the bible? New English Motha Fuka
- HYPOCRACY AT IT'S BEST
- These situations occur when people are led by their emotions, it's far more than just lust. It's lonliness, attraction, and selfishness... and the only thing that matters is how "I feel", "I am lonely", "I don't feel needed or wanted in my marriage." I,I,I,...this is a dangerous thing...we must not be led by our emotions and when we stop thinking of others we are in trouble as well. Christians can't afford to become selfish. God forgives adultery so ask for his forgiveness, but don't travel that road again. Your pastor needed your prayers not your body. Seek another church...and how were you able to sit in the congregation and not feel like the worst person in the world? A conscience is a good thing.
- I wont judge you, but you know it's wrong and it's not the way the church is supposed to function. The thing is, this happens all over the place. It's not just you having this trouble. There are women that are going through this and they know it's wrong but they do it. The problem is the fact that he gets up in front of the congregation and condemn such things. His punishment from God is coming and it will be much greater than yours.
- i disagree with so may of the above comments slagging off churches because of this lady's issue. I go to a fantastic Elim Pentecostal Church and we are not perfect, but we are certainly a church of people that really love and obey God to the best of our ability. At the end of the day if you are a TRUE, committed, all-the-way Christian then you couldn't commit adultery in your consicence. If you are a Christian it is a lifestyle and God is number 1 - therefore you couldn't hurt Him by doing that. You are clearly back sliding - if you ever gave your heart to Jesus, and the same goes for your pastor. Sorry but that's what the Bible tells me! And I'm not judging, that's not my job. But I'm saying it how it is. If you love God you couldn't do that. We all make mistakes and sin, but there is deliberate sin and undeliberate sin. This is deliberate sin. BUT not all churches are like this. REAL churches go for God all the way and God moves amazingingly through them, for them and with them. They're the REAL churches. Lady, get soem help and give your heart to Jesus and WALK AWAY FROM THIS PASTOR! He too needs to walk away and get himself sorted with God! Harsh words but I say it how it is - which is what the Bible tells me to do.
- From what I hear, it is the religiously educated that should embrace someone like you, in her time of need, however, as usual, the church going folk cast judgement when it is their GOD who should judge, not them.
- NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO JUDGE YOU OR HIM. THE PEOPLE ABOVE WHO DO, ARE THE TRUE HYPOCRITES. CALLING THEMSELVES PEOPLE OF GOD BUT LOOKING DOWN ON YOU WHEN YOU ARE ONLY HUMAN AND NEED THEIR LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING. YOU, NOT THEM, ARE THE PERSON GOD/JESUS WOULD CHOSE TO STAND BY AND LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY. AS FOR YOUR PASTOR, HE IS HUMAN TOO. A MAN WHO PUTS HIS CONGREGATION'S NEEDS ABOVE HIS OWN, WHO LISTENS AND ABSORBS THE WOES AND COMPLAINTS OF HYPOCRITES LIKE THOSE ABOVE, YET IS ALLOWED NO SUCH OUTLET FOR HIMSELF. IT IS A FACT THAT 80% OF PASTORS LEAVE THE PROFESSION EARLY DUE TO EMOTIONAL BURN OUT FROM DEALING WITH THE LIKES OF THOSE ABOVE, AND IF HE IS NOT FINDING ANY COMPASSION OR NURTURING AT HOME WITH HIS WIFE (WHO IS ALSO ONLY HUMAN) IT IS UNDERSTANDABLE THAT HE MAY FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WHO OFFERS HIM THOSE THINGS WHICH HE ALWAYS DENIES HIMSELF.