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Sent to a friend Just found out that my dad, really isn't my dad. This has completely destroyed me. What's next?-Sad-
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- I'm sorry for your news. I would probably seek out for your biological father. Still keep in mind that your father that took care of you all this time may have been to scared on how to brake the news. Atleast you now can say you have two fathers...once you find your biologic one. Some of us don't have one father. It's nice that a man wanted to take care of you tha knew you wasn't his. God loves you.
- I am sorry to hear about that. But there is a huge shining light here. At least you had a father figure who took good care and loved you. So, you are still doing well.
Good luck. - hey your really blessed to have a father figure and to be adopted. i have/had neither. going through foster care trying to find someone to adopt me is like going through hell. sometime's i move 5 times within a half a year if thats not a load the i dont know what is . if you do find your father dont forget the one who took you in make sure you still show him love cauz he was there for u you feelz me. take care and god bless
A parent does NOT have to be biologically responsible for your being here or feeling that you are LOVED.
Has this man taken care of you like he was your father? Has he been there for you when you needed him most? Has he NEVER made you feel that he DIDN'T want to be bothered with you?
If you answered "Yes" to those questions then he IS your father!
~ SL ~
- Don't be sad SAD, you have been blessed to have a man in your life that CHOSE to be a father to you. What's next should be giving yourself some time to allow this to sink in and then being thankful for the father you did have. If this man loved you, cared for you and raised you as his own then that is a great credit to his charactre and a testimony to the strength of what is really possible for you. Discuss with both your mother and father the your questions about your biological father and sit as a family when making the decision as to what is next. You were blessed to have had a man that was willing to step up and be a father even if he is not the man that shares your DNA. Remember it takes more than blood to make a family. Take some time to count your blessings you have many. You are loved.
~ NM ~ - It takes a special man to take care of another man's child. Be thankful God blessed you with a wonderful father. My mom was adopted and when I found out It hurt a lot of folks but nothing has changed we all love one another. Just because his blood does not run through you does not make you any less loved or any less a part of his life. HE loves you for who you are. DO the same. Love does not come and should not come with a label such as "dad"
- It takes a real man to raise a child that is not his. It's one thing to take care of a child that's yours, but to take on the responsilbity of someone elses child is superior. That said because you really don't have to. I am married to a man who wants to adopt my daughter, who's real father hasn't been a part of her life(by choice) for almost 4 years now. I thank god that he blessed me with a good father for my child and that I didn't have to deal with a dead beat daddy for my daughter. Don't be angry. Love and respect your adopted dad. If you want to et to know your real father- just understand that it might not be everything you think it's going to be.
- you'll be ok hun, theres always someone worse off than you in this life.
- IAM SORT OF IN THE SAME SITUATION,IAM A MOM MY DAUGHTER BE 17 YEARS OLD,SHE THINKS MY FIRST HUSBAND IS HER DAD,MY FIRST HUSBAND PASSED,AND SHE STILL THINKS THAT HER DAD,HER DAD IS STILL LIVING AND WANTS TO FORM A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER, BUT I CANT DO IT I DONT WANT MY DAUGHTER TO HATE ME FOR THIS
- Your father is the man who shared with you his blood. Your DAD is the man who shared with you his LIFE.