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Sent to a friend[1692] Should I Give Him a Chance to Redeem
My boyfriend went to Africa for a month. While he was gone I made sure his rent was paid and everything was in line for when he came back. I held him down. When he came back something was wrong. My women's intuition made me well aware of that. I just couldn't pinpoint what it was. His bestfriend told me he had sex with some random chick in Africa. I questioned him and after about 4 days he finally confessed to it. Now I won't speak to him. I cursed him out for like 4 hours. He keeps calling me. At work. At home. At school. I love him so much. He said that's the way things work over there and that the woman he slept with even knew all about me. And she respects me. WTF!!! He's lying. Right? Should I take a leap of faith and not look back. Or am I better off treading alone?Rating:0.00
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- africa may have different customs than america... but he needs to remember he's from america, and you're in america. before adapting to their customs, you two need to agree on it, not just act on it. he just acted on it. don't let him play you like a fool, men do that to women. thankfully im too smart to let males do that, i know when they're playing games just to get their way.
your boy wanted his cake and eat it too. plus there is more diseases and such in africa... dont touch him unless you want to catch something. im known for beating boyfriends up that cheat on me, so your man is lucky he's not mine cuz he'd be fightin for his life in the american hospital. - sometimes when people think a relationship is about to end,and they dont want it to, they think the feelings they have for their significant other are getting stronger, but its really them just trying harder to hold onto what they might be losing.
you can do what you want, obviously, it's your relationship... but no one ever listens to me. ive never been cheated on by the same guy twice, cuz ive never let it happen. one of my friends, his girlfriend just told him how she cheated on him for the 2nd time, and he's still with her. what people dont realize is, when you decide to keep forgiving cheaters, all you're doing is telling them that it's okay for them to walk all over you and keep hurting you because you're not strong enough to walk away from the pain. but pain does help us feel that we're still alive. basically, you're telling them that no matter what they do, you're going to stay with them.
the whole point to having a relationship is to keep other people OUT. he violated the most sacred part of a relationship... and he knows he's gotten away with it, so now he knows he can keep doing it. whether he tells you about the future stunts he pulls, he may not... you'll just have to keep wondering what he's doing and when he's doing it. - I heard that! It took everything in me not to whoop his azs. He even told me to hit him if it would make some of the pain he caused go away. I want to. But I can't. It's not my way. I went and got tested for everything I could think of. I told him if he's smart he will too. I just can't believe he did this. In Africa. I feel he disrespected me and the female who's over there thinking she has an American boyfriend who's gonna save her or some shlt. What sucks the most is I used to think once something like this happens, the love goes away. But it doesn't. It stays, it feels like it getting stronger even. I'm ashamed that I even love him with all of this going on; the person I went to when I need to just be held while I cried about it all was him. And he held me and cried with me. Sad. I need a drink like yesterday!!!
- Sweet heart don't sweat it! he was hungry for it and i am sorry!
- He probably has AIDS now. Don't ever fuck him again.
- If you decide to give him a chance, get him tested and remember that not all diseases show up on blood work from the doc.