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Sent to a friend I am infatuated with the pastor. I fantasize about him all the time, and often find myself getting annoyed when his wife is around, and wish he’d divorce her and marry me. When my husband makes love to me, I imagine it’s my pastor. The very sight of him gives me a huge adrenaline rush.Rating:1.00
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- You better be careful!!! For one thing you are married. And another, you in no matter what so ever should be lusting another man..let alone a man of God. I would be careful if I were you sister.
- Wow...slow ya roll. It is ok to fantasize but remember there are other people's hearts in this too. You would be doing more harm than good destroying your marriage, your pastor's reputation, your husband's love in you, and an entire congregation. Pray that God will help you sort and get over these feelings.
- This is a no no. Never mess around with God Children. If you truly are a christian something like this wouldn't even cross your mind.
- You can't help the way you feel, but just don't try and pursue this. Something like that happened at a church I used to attend , only it wasn't the pastor it was the teen sunday school teacher and one of the choir singers/musicians. The singer, he was engaged and was having an affair with the sunday school teacher and she got pregnant. To make matters worse , when she was finally showing they hurried up and tried to cover their tracks by getting married. And then to add insult to injury she got married at the SAME CHURCH! Much drama to no avail. But just an example of one of the horrible things that can happen . You can ruin all of your lives by taking that step . It's not right to wish that someone else's relationship would be broken up , because if it was the other way around and your husband was doing this you would probably be heart broken.
- Wow! I'm in love with my pastor as well...however, he's single and I'm single..but for some reason I still feel its wrong. We meet up in secrecy (out of the eyes of the church) because I feel as though the church body would not approve. I'm in my early 30's he's in his late 40's so there is a huge age difference. We definitely lust after one another but we haven't went all they way. I don't want to live my life in secrecy and I don't want to do anything that would hurt him...I know that we'll have to end it but its not fair...we love each other...
- Girl you are sick and you need to change churches.
Deliver YOURSELF from evil. If this was so okay, why would need to confess. Now that you have confessed sin no more. Just pray that your husband does not find out or you will be just another single woman in the congregation. Look around in church next Sunday and then make that your last Sunday in that church. Just tell your husband you are just not comfortable in that church and you obviously are not. Trust me your Pastor will not leave his wife and if he does, you better run like hell because the devil is on his tail. I seen this happened before and it just did not work out. Remember that there is nothing new under the sun. You are not the first to be in this situation nor will you be the last. So just make the right choice. CHOOSE LIFE AND NOT STRIFE. - Sweetie you need to repent for that. You are a married woman lusting after another womans husband. And he's your pastor!!!!!!!! That is terrible. You need to stop entertaining those thoughts and fast and pray asking God to take that lustful spirit from you. You are playing with fire and somebody is just waiting to pour lighter fluid all over you.
- You can help the way you feel. Change your thoughts and you chnage the way you feel.
- mOST WOMEN ARE ATRRACTED TO MEN IN POWER POSITIONS. MOST OF THE TIME WE ARE SO BUSY LUSTING AFTER SOME ONE ELSE WE FAIL TO REALIZE THE GREAT GIFT AND UNIQUE QUALITIES GOD HAS GIVEN US.(YOUR HUSBAND?) TAKE TIME TO REKENDLE AND REMEBER THE THINGS THAT MADE YOU MARRY HIM. THAT YOU COULDN'T FIND IN OTHER MEN. tHIS WILL HELP YOU COME TO TERMS THAT YOUR JEWEL IS NOT IN THE PULPIT . BUT THE VERY MAN GOD HAS BLESSED YOU WITH TO HAVE A COVANET WITH.
- AMEN!!!!!
- You need to find a new place of worship ASAP! And please don't think the First Lady does not know, she probably spotted you a looong time ago. Just waiting on you make that move so she can "lay hands" on you!
- ^^ LOL
u need to let that go and enjoy what u already have~ - ALL IM GOING TO SAY IS...
DONT QUIT THE ONE U LOVE, FOR THE ONE YOU LIKE, CUZ THE ONE U LIKE, WILL LEAVE U FOR THE ONE THEY LOVE... - Sweetheart,stop right there and listen to me. My previous pastor and wife had been going through a similar situatuion which resulted in the church splitting up and his children being divided. Watch it. You may want pleasure from the MAN OF GOD, but think of the lives that will be messed up and the curse that you will bring upon the life of yourself. This man is already married. Pray that God will deliver you speedily!!
- This is not uncommon. People don't stop being human because they serve God. I'm not saying that you don't need to examine yourself...because you do.
Pastors are known for being good listeners and giving good advice. However, when they look good, and have the qualities I mentioned that's a big problem for them and their wives. Not to mention the fact that pastors can have eyes for women in their congregation as well. Sometimes they initiate flirting and all kinds of things that are just wrong. We all have to pray for pastors and for our brothers and sisters in Christ because we are living in some very evil times. Like I said...examine yourself and ask for forgiveness and if your husband is not the love of your life any more for whatever reason, ask God to give you direction on what you need to do. Whatever you do keep your eyes and hands off your pastor...imagine if you were his wife. Stop thinking about yourself... Be Blessed! - If you were single and felt this way about your pastor and he was single then I would say go for it. But you are married, and it seems to me that you are on an emotional roll a coaster and your pastor has obviously given you something that your husband hasn't...ie, attention, a listening year perhaps...You stated that you think about your pastor when your husband is making love to you. Why would you be trying to block out your husband...your marriage is in trouble and you will be in trouble it you don't make a decision to seek God on what you need to do.