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Sent to a friend I am infatuated with the pastor. I fantasize about him all the time, and often find myself getting annoyed when his wife is around, and wish he’d divorce her and marry me. When my husband makes love to me, I imagine it’s my pastor. The very sight of him gives me a huge adrenaline rush.Rating:1.00
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- You better be careful!!! For one thing you are married. And another, you in no matter what so ever should be lusting another man..let alone a man of God. I would be careful if I were you sister.
- Wow...slow ya roll. It is ok to fantasize but remember there are other people's hearts in this too. You would be doing more harm than good destroying your marriage, your pastor's reputation, your husband's love in you, and an entire congregation. Pray that God will help you sort and get over these feelings.
- This is a no no. Never mess around with God Children. If you truly are a christian something like this wouldn't even cross your mind.
- You can't help the way you feel, but just don't try and pursue this. Something like that happened at a church I used to attend , only it wasn't the pastor it was the teen sunday school teacher and one of the choir singers/musicians. The singer, he was engaged and was having an affair with the sunday school teacher and she got pregnant. To make matters worse , when she was finally showing they hurried up and tried to cover their tracks by getting married. And then to add insult to injury she got married at the SAME CHURCH! Much drama to no avail. But just an example of one of the horrible things that can happen . You can ruin all of your lives by taking that step . It's not right to wish that someone else's relationship would be broken up , because if it was the other way around and your husband was doing this you would probably be heart broken.
- Wow! I'm in love with my pastor as well...however, he's single and I'm single..but for some reason I still feel its wrong. We meet up in secrecy (out of the eyes of the church) because I feel as though the church body would not approve. I'm in my early 30's he's in his late 40's so there is a huge age difference. We definitely lust after one another but we haven't went all they way. I don't want to live my life in secrecy and I don't want to do anything that would hurt him...I know that we'll have to end it but its not fair...we love each other...
- Girl you are sick and you need to change churches.
Deliver YOURSELF from evil. If this was so okay, why would need to confess. Now that you have confessed sin no more. Just pray that your husband does not find out or you will be just another single woman in the congregation. Look around in church next Sunday and then make that your last Sunday in that church. Just tell your husband you are just not comfortable in that church and you obviously are not. Trust me your Pastor will not leave his wife and if he does, you better run like hell because the devil is on his tail. I seen this happened before and it just did not work out. Remember that there is nothing new under the sun. You are not the first to be in this situation nor will you be the last. So just make the right choice. CHOOSE LIFE AND NOT STRIFE. - Sweetie you need to repent for that. You are a married woman lusting after another womans husband. And he's your pastor!!!!!!!! That is terrible. You need to stop entertaining those thoughts and fast and pray asking God to take that lustful spirit from you. You are playing with fire and somebody is just waiting to pour lighter fluid all over you.
- You can help the way you feel. Change your thoughts and you chnage the way you feel.
- mOST WOMEN ARE ATRRACTED TO MEN IN POWER POSITIONS. MOST OF THE TIME WE ARE SO BUSY LUSTING AFTER SOME ONE ELSE WE FAIL TO REALIZE THE GREAT GIFT AND UNIQUE QUALITIES GOD HAS GIVEN US.(YOUR HUSBAND?) TAKE TIME TO REKENDLE AND REMEBER THE THINGS THAT MADE YOU MARRY HIM. THAT YOU COULDN'T FIND IN OTHER MEN. tHIS WILL HELP YOU COME TO TERMS THAT YOUR JEWEL IS NOT IN THE PULPIT . BUT THE VERY MAN GOD HAS BLESSED YOU WITH TO HAVE A COVANET WITH.
- AMEN!!!!!
- You need to find a new place of worship ASAP! And please don't think the First Lady does not know, she probably spotted you a looong time ago. Just waiting on you make that move so she can "lay hands" on you!
- ^^ LOL
u need to let that go and enjoy what u already have~ - ALL IM GOING TO SAY IS...
DONT QUIT THE ONE U LOVE, FOR THE ONE YOU LIKE, CUZ THE ONE U LIKE, WILL LEAVE U FOR THE ONE THEY LOVE... - Sweetheart,stop right there and listen to me. My previous pastor and wife had been going through a similar situatuion which resulted in the church splitting up and his children being divided. Watch it. You may want pleasure from the MAN OF GOD, but think of the lives that will be messed up and the curse that you will bring upon the life of yourself. This man is already married. Pray that God will deliver you speedily!!
- This is not uncommon. People don't stop being human because they serve God. I'm not saying that you don't need to examine yourself...because you do.
Pastors are known for being good listeners and giving good advice. However, when they look good, and have the qualities I mentioned that's a big problem for them and their wives. Not to mention the fact that pastors can have eyes for women in their congregation as well. Sometimes they initiate flirting and all kinds of things that are just wrong. We all have to pray for pastors and for our brothers and sisters in Christ because we are living in some very evil times. Like I said...examine yourself and ask for forgiveness and if your husband is not the love of your life any more for whatever reason, ask God to give you direction on what you need to do. Whatever you do keep your eyes and hands off your pastor...imagine if you were his wife. Stop thinking about yourself... Be Blessed! - If you were single and felt this way about your pastor and he was single then I would say go for it. But you are married, and it seems to me that you are on an emotional roll a coaster and your pastor has obviously given you something that your husband hasn't...ie, attention, a listening year perhaps...You stated that you think about your pastor when your husband is making love to you. Why would you be trying to block out your husband...your marriage is in trouble and you will be in trouble it you don't make a decision to seek God on what you need to do.
- I would fuck him really good - you only live once
- I belong to my church for 15 years, never even looked at my pastor in a sexual way. but one day he started flirting with me, mind you we are friends, laugh and play etc with each other doing those years, but when he started texting me every morning, i was flattered and so was he when i took him up on his offer. we had a one year affair. i loved every moment. but we both became condemn and broke it off a million times only to find ourselves back in each other arms. now this time we are committed to ending the affair and so far so good. i'm not heads over hills with him anymore, it comes in spells and i recognize it's the flesh. and i try not to let my flesh rule my judgement anymore.
- GIRL YOU GOT IT BAD! Calm down your emotions and get a grip. i've been there. it's all in your mind.
- i just want to say show your pastor what you have offefr it to him
- Women that allow themselves to go "there" in their minds go after men of God and the only thing that comes of it is pain. Believe you me the wife will have your number honey. Every time some woman walked into our church and batted her eyes at my husband I made sure quick fast and in a hurry that he knew what she was there for!
- Believe what is already written. Several stories are posted on the internet about married men and the other woman. What's written is true. Rarely if ever does affairs work out. You are on a slippery slope. I once heard sin takes you further than you want to go and keeps you longer than you want to stay. Having had similiar experience, I wouldn't want any woman's years to pass by entangled with sin. Yes its nice to have great conversation and sex, but its not as a let down to be home alone waiting for the cell to sound off or being at church desensitized to the Word. Final point, remember why you are apart of the church for there is why your try blessing lye!!!
- That aint love that is lust. Get away from that situation. Move on. Get help. Find another church. God will not reject you for your sin but you can reject Him by staying in it and not dealing with it. Submit this to Him and He will walk you through it. But get away from that man.
- I long for the day Christ, the Word of God, prevails over our hearts,minds & bodies. And confess "it is no longer me who lives but Christ, the hope of glory"
- Find a new church.....please- for your sake, your pastors sake and for your churches sake.
- hi hi hiiiiiii, wat do i say? i'm inlove with a Pastor myself, but his not married, we're both single...God
- You need to Fast and Pray my love!!!! That is sooooo NOT ON..
- That's VERY BAD! Pray love, God will help you ok!
- If I may offer up a little advice her? It appears that your Pastor has some very good qualities that you find so admirable that you desire him for yourself. I am going to utilize a little discernment here, since I only have a verry small amount of information to go on. 1) You have more than likely had either a rocky relationship with your own father or possibly dont know him at all? 2) The relationships that you had in your childhood were not as fulfilling as you would have desired them to be.3) You love your husband, but you question whether you are in love with him based on the fact that your desires for your Pastor are so strong?
It appears that you have a bad case of Foundation Bondage. This is when a person does not learn the true essence of God's Love through healthy relationships and then spends most of their lives trying to find it. I believe that your intentions are not mean towards the Man of God and his family, but simply ill channeled. If you get a good biblical counselor(Female) and express those things that you keep secret even from your dearest friend, I believe you can and will be delivered from this.
Always rememmber to stand honest before man, honest before God and Honest to yourself and God will work the rest out. Be Blessed. - you need the blood of Jesus go and have sex with your husband and not your pastor get a grip of your nasty act
- im a married woman who is in love with a single paster which is in love with me which we know iys wrong we only kissed im not liking him because im married its because im unhappy with my husband for a while now the paster thinks we shouldnt talk now untill im not married anymore
- I understand because I am in love with my Pastor as well. I have tried to shake the feelings but they are still there.
- When I love my pastor it is a practical way of showing my love to Jesus Christ
- im also am in love with my pastor.i know its wrong. thats why i pray to God to help me get rid of those feelings.by the way my pastor is also single well divorced. im married and very unhappy.
- i and my pastor are both single
- I think you should go into a really deep prayer and ask God to deliver from this sexual sin.
- You may be physically married to you husband, but obviously you do not share a spiritual marriage. Your desire for your pastor to divorce his wife and marry you will set up a dirty chain of events in your life that you will wish you never sent such negative desires into the universe. Give your husband his divorce if you have no desire for him, but do not string him along to believe he has a devoted wife and lover in you. Release him so he can be loved and adored by someone worthy.
- It is never right nor of God to lust after another. What God has put together let no man put asunder. Your Pastor is a married man who made a convenant with his wife. If you even try to break that convenant up God will have his wrath on you. For God knows all and sees all. You are definitely playing with fire. You go to church to get closer to God, not to get closer to the Pastor. You are definitely headed down a road that will lead to destruction. Your husband is important as well. Take some out for jus the two of you. Pray with your husband ask God to bring back that spark that once was. Believe in God to heal your marriage. And pray and ask him to deliver you from your lustful ways. Believe me, the First Lady does know you have a liking for her husband. It is just a matter of time before she apporaches you. Be careful and please pray for deliverance and for you to get closer to God. The closer you get to God, the more you will be able to control your flesh. God Bless you, your husband and your Pastor and First Lady.
- Fuck him! As soon as you can!!!
- why isn't it tis easy to fall in love with JESUS????