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he is a fucken low life drunk that lives with his mom and doesn't take care of his 2 kids or wife.....he pays no rent always broke asking people for money always beats his kids and he thinks he's a big gangster!!i really hate him and wish he would leave far from me!

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Yeh i can relate to that-my BIL is single middle aged guy that also lives with his mother. Except for my BIL is malicious in the fact he interferes with my sisters marriage and has an unhealthy obsession with our nephew-he throws his weight around coz hes big built and spreads nasty lies and rumours around about my family. He lives nearby and in a rurall area makes this all the more hurtfull. i truly hate him
I can't stand my brother in law either. He's definately not as bad as yours but he's definitely a low life. He use to live at home with his mother but finally moved out where he is currently mooching off my sister as she works all day while he stays at home and "looks for a job" I don't care if he works at Mc donalds, I just wish he'd get a damn job. He also a passive aggressive that likes to tell lies about me to my friends in hopes to taint my image. Luckily it has done nothing but make him look like a total fool. He such a sissy chicken and can't seem to say anything to my face. He'll first whine to my sister and if that doesn't work, he'll find his friends or even worse, he'll find my friends. Everything I say to him he takes offensively even though most of the time I don't even care to offend him. The guy is so damn insecure he'll find a way to apply my words in such a negative manner and always assumes I'm talking about him. I love my sister so much and wish she had better taste in men. Unfortunately where ever she goes, he goes. Every time I'm around my brother in law I feel like I'm walking on eggs shells. I just don't know what is going to offend him next. It's a sorry shame he entered my life. I feel like I was much better off before.
Thank god I found this Page!!! I F****** Hate my future BIL - was sooo relieved when my sis dumped her cheating arrogant slime-ball of a boyfriend - only to hear that they got back together two years later...Sis says she is a New Man, but we all know thats a load of bull, right? A serial cheater doesn`t change his spots I think, and I know it`s only a matter of time before he does the dirrty again.
I tried the whole ' I hate his guts never want to see him ' for about 3 months, and then I was faced with the Xmas dilemma - I so did not want him to be there, but telling my sis would mean losing her in the process. So I`ve decided to be mature and gracious - I will still avoid him like the plague but I will share the Xmas table with him and let my Evil Eye do the talking...
i h8 my bro in law he is an asshole im not interested in ur fucking stupid garage work now fuckoffff u cunt i h8 his ingnorant ways wen he asks me2 help him sumtimes he yells at me n tries2 intimate me fukin WANKER
My brother in law moved in with my husband and I in our home. Our home is a decent size to where I don't bump into my BIL often but when I do I get so fucking annoyed. Every conversation we have is about him. He is either complaining about his job or how hard his life is. Then the other times ironically he brags about himself saying how amazing he is at x, y and z. When he moved in my husband told him his rent was x amount of dollars. And for a while he paid x amount, then it went downhill. He complained he couldnt afford x and my husband lowered rent to r. The only problem is that when my husband lowered it for that month I know my BIL spent $80.00 on marijuana. He also eats our groceries, drinks our expensive liquor and beer, and uses our laundry detergent. Ok I know the last one on the list seems silly but he literally does a load of laundry every day, yes every day. When he does laundry it's about 5 or 6 items of clothing. I find that to be a huge waste of water. I am so done with him living with us and I wish there was an appropriate way to confront him about his habits. He is a drama queen and if I complained to him about the things he does he'd fly off the handle and tell everyone(including my father in law) I hate him. He is about to finish his college degree at a local college and once he does, he is out of here! If he is ready or not. I so miss the days it was just me and my husband living here. We actual don't need the financial help, it was more about them bonding. Which maybe once a month they have a decent chat. So fucking frustrated
I hate my brother in law for 25 years,and i hate him more and more as the years go by.I have done alot for this jerk off,moved them 2 times ,help build 2 homes fof them,it goes on and on.not one fucking time has this ass hole said thanks.when my sister was sick last year with cancer(that she beat) i was there every day for them.but when my wife died 3 years ago they did not help me at all. my sister and my brother in law are one way SOB's.I don't know i even see them.I try to the family together.my parents are dead so its them.who the hell needs them.i came across this webb site due to hate and i love this venting.FUCK MY BROTHER IN LAW.he is a AA with 25 years of being a good boy-the fucking jerk off.nothing worst than a retire drunk dope shooter.fuck him and his family. the end
I hate mine too... Truthfully, I probably don't care too much for my sister either, but that is hard to say outloud ... (or type!) My oldest nephew is turning out EXACTLY like his dad and it makes me very sad.
My bro's an asshole. 42 going on 12, Sits on his ass all day 'caring' ??? for his mum who had a stroke. Exploiting benefits system.
I thought he was an alky, but its more than that. MUCH more he twists words and lies about me to everyone, does nothing for himself or especially his mum. He wont even clean or tidy, (womens work and still expects his mum to do his washing) Or swears / shouts at her. He spends her money on crap, lotto tickets, his car and booze. (goes fishing??? twice a week all nights) and hates what ever you do or give him. Ungrateful self centered lazy spoilt little shit. The world owes him a life. And LIFE owes him the world.
Bring back the cane !!! or do the world a favor shoot the fucker.
Lives in Aldershot, UK, names Jason. Drives white astra. Just look for the miserable cunt.
I hate my BIL more and more everyday that I have to look at his ugly face! His name is Tony Carpenter and lives in Ashland MO. I hope he reads this! I would say it to his face but he wont let my sister answer the phone when I call. He is a loser, drug addict, loser and a waste of space.
I truly think it is the fact that my sister(s) both have lousy taste in selecting spouses. One was a red-neck hick wife beater/abuser and my other sister's newest husband is a money sucking sponge. Pathetic. Neither one of my sisters have any self worth and feel that they are only defined by the husbands they have. Totally missing the boat about why to be with your spouse - you know, love, committment, trust, honesty, respect. . .that kind of thing. I don't know what the second sister was thinking this time around, only that she didn't want to be alone after her 1st husband died. She married the first sponge she dated. He is so nasty. Drives her Mercedes to the mill he works at, lets her pay all of the mortgage in her home, even though he lives there with his teenage child from a previous marriage. Just like the tv show the Jeffersons, he definitely moved on up. My husband and I have been there for her through her previous husbands death, helped care for her children no matter what and now she says that she has a family of her own forgetting all of the love and sacrfice and duty we gave - because we loved her and the children. Now everything he does is law - its almost like she has no personal identity any move. I give up. My husband and I moved out here, gave up our own lives to help her get her life back together and this is how she treats us. I just feel like packing it in a moving away. Only know I worry that she will use my beloved niece and nephew as weapons to hurt my husband and I. What do I do?
i hate mine too but i think he is mentally ill so how much can you hate someone when they're sick? well unfortunately in this instance alot. especially when he refuses to get help. he is raising his son to believe every conspiracy theory and negative thought that he himself has, ie racist/facist ideologies. he puts his wife down in front of our friends, telling em how fat she is which is why he dont fuck her. their premature baby he blames on her- still, 2 years later. violent drunk, please leave my life
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The reason why I hate my brother in law is because how he treats my sister and her kids... he is an ass hole!!! My sister is living at my parents house I also living at my parents house im a part time college student and a part time starbucks worker and he always makes fun of my job.. Im the one paying for my sister kids stuff because he doesn't have money to buy them he only has money to buy beer!!!!
I hate my brother in law as he constantly tries to intefer in my marriage. He has tried many ways to break up my marriage with his brother, has lied to my husband about me, has called me down behind my back, has gossiped about me, tried to talk his brother out of getting married to me on our wedding day, has tried to tempt my husband with other girls, has tried to intimidate me with his size, and the list of awful things goes on and on. My husband told me today, to talk to the police about his brother's threats to me so that he stops as he has gone too far by threatening me. I have not and will not ever put up with his bs as he is nothing but a childish, jealous little boy.
My brother-in-law recently assaulted my sister and threatened her with a gun. I think she's going to take him back because they're both co-depedent alcoholics. I haven't seen or spoke to her in over 4 years. He threatened to kill me 5 years ago. Hopefully he goes to jail this time and hopefully she quits making stupid decisions. I'm not going to Thanksgiving at my parents house this year because she'll be there. I love her but at a certain point I can't be involved with such an unstable situation. Oh yes, and my brother-in-law is a world class douche.
My Turn...
I hate my brother in law because he guilted my husband into signing on his mortgage and then 3 months later quit his job. That was 3 years ago. Since last November we have been giving him money to pay his mortgage. Four months ago we said enough! Now we find out that he is behind in his payments to the bank and they will be starting legal action against my husband so that they can recover their money. My husband and I have only been married for a year and 5 months and he is so regretful for signing his brothers mortgage before we were together and now his choice is affecting our relationship. His Brother put the house up for sale and the realestate agent needed repairs to be made in order to show the house. My husnabd has been making those repairs and paying for them as well. Last weekend we were putting in a new tile floor in the hallway, kitchen and bathroom and the brother called the police on my husband to have him thrown out! Because my husband is the primary on the mortgage the police said he could stay. The brother be rated him so much he packed up his tools and left. Now we have 300 square feet of flooring we can't use nor take back as it was on sale. I will be suprised if the house sells before the bank forecloses! My husband has worked very hard to maintain an excellent credit rating and so have I...now we could be ruined!
Thanks for listening.
me too i hate my brother in law as he is very jealous of the relationship i have with my husband he has tried to break us up for 13 years but the most annoying thing is my husband can't see it or won't see it and can never see anything wrong with his brother.My husband and my relationship is perfect apart from this but i get so depressed even in the same room as his brother.Even when they were younger his brother tried to kiss me when he was drunk but my husband /boyfriend at the time just laughed and said his brother was drunk.I don't know what to do my life is so great but this one boy is making me so depressed.
Me too i hate my Sisters Man he has two kids with her he likes to abuse her son alot mostly him always thats her first born and he doesnt work he lives off her like i wish she never met him she could have been doin better right now well shes my oldest sister i only have 2 sisters there bother older than me and hes a low life punk jus like usin my sister when ever she gets her child tax money he slaps her some times imma jus gonna wait for the day he gives my sister a black eye or some thing and imma gonna Give him a good Ass kicking put him in tha hospital or possable kill him
I've never done this before, but I hate my brother-in-law as well!! He takes advantage of my sister by staying home and "pretending to find a job". Meanwhile, I go home and he's slumped on the couch, watching TV, and getting drunk! Not to mention his drug habit that has gone out of control, and is something that he says he has to "resort" to because he's fucking depressed!!! He also asks me to give him counseling just because I graduated as psychology major. What A FREAKIN FOOL! WHen is not threatening to kill himself because he's so high on drugs, he's usually angry because he's always drunk! Sad thing is that my sister has practically ruined our family because of him. He has four kids, which my sister pays child support for. I'm a part time working college student that has to slpit everything with her because his lazy ass is unable to find a job in this economy .. typical excuse for a pathetic lazy ass. He tries to compare himself to my boyfriend, and somehow thinks that they are both the same and hates him because he "treats" me bad. Little does he know my kind hearted boyfriend is able to put up with him when I invite him over for dinner. I wish someone would just call the police on him and take him back to jail ...... where he from!! URGHHH
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I REALLY hate my BIL-he is crazy religious and does not allow my sister or my neices and nephews to interact with our family very often. This prick came for Christmas this year and he and my sister did not give ONE gift to anyone else-and he did not say "thank you" when he was given one. He is a pimply faced ugly prick who is judgemental and controlling. I have never hated anyone like I do this asshole...wow I feel better. I love this site!
My brother in law is a low life drug dealer that has been to jail multiple times and each time my sister has bailed him out ( which is a waste of money). He demands money constantly and hits my nefiew alot. My sisters worst because she always asks for monry in which she never pays back and she is a control freak. The only innocent one there is my nefiew because he's only 3 and he has to live with both of them. GOD DAMMIT I HATE THEM!!
He's not my brother in-law yet, but I guess its the same situation where I'm forced to be around a person I hate. One of those people who always try to one-up a story, or attempt to argue against any comment made, trying to give the impression he's smart. He's 22, looks like he's 42, acts like he's 12. Fucking mommas boy, whining brat...he still cuddles with his mommy, then tries to act tough with me, poking and prodding me a 12 year old, farts in peoples faces and laughs like a retard. If he wasn't 6'5 and 250 lbs it would be easier to intimidate him into showing some respect. However, i'm only 5'11 and 190 lbs, and it is difficult to obtain respect the old fashion way. I'm afraid that his childish incessantly annoying personality is straining my nerves and bringing very unusual thoughts of hate into my head (I obsess about driving my fists not only into his face, but through it out the back of his skull, then telling him that his jaw is on the other side of the room if he wants it back...among others). I am usually a very easy going, and friendly person. But I hate this guy, never hated anyone so much since I was a kid. I'm on the verge of attacking this ogre with everything I got. Doing so would ruin my relationship with his sister, but I feel its the best solution to teach this guy a lesson in respect. If anyone has some advice on how to deal with the hate (before I beat him to a pulp), let me know (and yes, I try my best to keep my distance).
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my BIL is a w**ker. i hate him with every fibre of my being. and i despise the way he treats his younger brother (my fiance.) he belittles me, simply HAS to have the last say, is more childish than a 6 yr old in a tantrum, and is a bleeder financially when it comes to his and my h2b parents. he goes thru materialistic items like there is no 2moro, because he doesnt pay 4 them - mummy and daddys credit card does. he is a total pig when it comes to food; he can shovel 3 cheeseburgers, a large fries, a large coke and a chicken Mcburger in one meal. im NOT KIDDING. he is a disgrace of a human eing. i dont even want him at our wedding but HAVE 2 utha wise h2b will be upset. i dont even no wot he sees in the pri*k! OMG! wow this site in fantastic! i feel beta already!
if any1 finds a way 2 be able to keep calm around a 'person' you loathe, please be sure to let me know! thanx 4 listening! well, reading lol! Xx
i dislike mine too...he started out ok, but now he is a divorced single dad of a 5 year old who insists he is not an alcoholic, and continues to make mbad choices that in my mind ultimately could affect his child. as another sister-in-law put it, he's playing russian roulette with his child by continuing to drink, and now i find that his lifestyle and choices are causing tension in my own marriage because my husband (his closest brother) refuses to acknowledge the wrobgdoings, and allows his brother to become a wedge in our own marriage!!!
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he is literally absent when not with his kid...he goes vacations in far off places so he can drink without judgement, and likely has relations with people he doesnt know. i wont even kiss him anymore in gatherings...i'm disgusted by his choices, and i do worry about his judgement when others are not around. he thinks he's pulling the wool over our eyes, but i'm smarted than he thinks, and i know he is behaving badly.
he doesnt even know how to have a relationship with his own child without trying to create a party atmosphere. sadly, it is my husband and i that are always being asked to do things including vacations with them....i dont want to go away with him...i love his son, but i dont like him....and i shouldnt (we-me and my husband) cant be responsible for creating an atmosphere of family for him at holidays and on vacation. my husband doesnt seem to get it...this guy made his bed, and i am not going to be expected to fill the void in his life when he has time with his child. he needs to grow up, stop drinking and making reckless decisions, let us alone to be a couple, and find his own significant other for vacations and holiday time. why would i want to wake up at his house when i have my own. he needs to create a home for his child and stop expecting others to do it for him.
i supported him thru an ugly divorce cause i thought he could change, but he is the same person he was married.... the 'ol saying, alcoholics dont take lovers, they take prisoners---in his case, rather than his "x", my husband (his brotheer) is his prisoner b/c he cant look objectively at the situation , and i (along with our relationship as husband and wife) are what is suffering. how can this ever get better till my husband chooses our own relationship over his alcoholic brother who refused to change.
I hate my BIL more and more everyday. He is a low life who leeched off his older sister for 10 years, then got married, had a kid then got divorced because his in laws was sick of his ass living in their house. He didn't pay child support because he figure his ex wife can just get welfare. He wrote checks when he had no money in the account and thought the bank should just forget what he owes them because the banks has more money than him. He tricked my husband in buying an apartment to rent to him, which he will not pay us the full rent because he can't afford it. We now has to subsidize his for the rest of his freakin life. He comes around everyday to go out with my husband and you know my husband pays for everything. He is a loser and a burden to society and does not deserve to live.
After all this posts, I have to write mine, too. I HATE MY BIL! He is pathetic! He is a selfish asshole who abused my husband when he was a kid! Also has sent his little sister to buy him drugs on X-mas! And, of course, has almost ended my marriage twice! And my looser husband calls me a grudge holder. I am not forgiving! He is taking his brother's side over mine. I have done nothing than be there for him, fixing his insane childhood traumas, loving him...and he prefers to kiss his disgusting borther's ass! I hate my BIL! I wish him in pain! Dead would be too quick for him. I hate him more every time he laughs! I can't believe I have to spent X-mas with him this year. But what else could I say than that I prepare myself for the big the end! I am not dealing with this shit anymore! I am pretty sure that my husband wants to get wasted with his looser brother again on x-mas, and that will be it! I will get out of this shit and back to life. I know there is a normal man with a normal family out there for me! Please find me! PLEASE!
i hate my brother. he is only 1 year younger than me and shares with me the the same sad past that is living with my psychotic mom while my dad toiled away to support us on the other side of the world. now we are both almost 30. he lives with my parents who are now together. he comes in and out like it's a hotel except he doesn't pay a thing, sometimes disappearing for hours to who knows where. when he's home he's usually holed up in his room. slinks out like a rat when the parents are sleeping or at work to eat in the kitchen and/or steal my dad's wine. smokes in the bathroom. never spends time with the parents and rarely helps out in the house. he uses a credit card that they pay for. he pays for meals with his friends (none of whom we know) and pockets the money they give him. when asked about his future plans, he says he doesn't know and gets mad. (seems he intends to keep mooching off the parents.) actually, if you tell him anything he doesn't want to hear, he throws a tantrum and holes up in his room. you can't get on his bad side at all because then he threatens suicide. my parents let him have his way because of this. they give him everything he wants, including: iphone, fancy laptop, guitar, ex-girlfriend's plane ticket. (lately, he's asking for a 3 month language program in japan.) i myself suffer from depression on and off and i know that isn't an excuse to do whatever the hell you want without regard for others (esp ones that support you.) that would be selfish. lately i'm hoping he would kill himself. it sounds callous but i see the grief he's causing my poor dad who's health is failing but is still slaving away to support my mom, her family, and my ungrateful asshole brother. it's disgusting that he thinks he's so smart, but is an emotionally retarded, useless leech.
I hate my brother in law or as I call him my husband's brother. He is a millionare and the cheapest son of a bitch there is. He sold his house and we had to pay to throw away trash he left in the house after I told him to remove it. We had to clean up the house for his sale. He didn't have to pay any attorney fees for his sale and he said nothing. He didn't pay us any of th emoney we used to clean up and throw away stuff. He lives in an rv he claims full time but he doesn't he mooches off family members and stays in their homes. He offers no money, no food nothing for staying with you. Up until last year he would ask to stay in our daughters room. He would have her kicked out of her room and have to share with her brother, she's 12 he's 13! He has stayed for 3 - 2 weeks for a total of 3 months already. I told my husband last year he isn't taking her room anymore. Now he mooches and sleeps in the basement (I have a small house!) right in the middle of the basement where my kids play on the computer and watch tv. Again, no offering of any money. He has the money to stay in a hotel. He shaves and leaves the bathroom a mess to clean up. Leaves all the lights on in the house. My husband says I'm being mean but I don't want him around anymore I'm so tempted to tell him off but I know he'll whine like a girl to my husband. He causes nothing but problems for us and oh ya he's over 50!! Never married no kids, no respect. I HATE HIM!
I hate my brother in law. He is a flid. He is 26 and makes the rest of the family miserable as hell. So Chris Brown go fuck yourself. You little prick.
TO DICKHEAD, i hate my brother in law soo much i lived with my sister in my mums house then my mum moved out and he moved in and at first it was ok but now i fucking hate him everytime i talk to my sister he is soo nosy and always comes up to us and askes us wat where talking about especially when where arguing knowing full well wat hes doing , he never accepts when hes wrong or apoligises, if hes got a problem with me he will never tell me to my face EVER only squabble about it to my sister just loud enuf so i can hear him so he knows i heard HES A FUCKING DICK i hatee him !! if i swear he shouts STOP SWEARING even thou he swears like mad all the time , im not allowed to say anything to him and if i argue back he goes walks out the room and goes upstairs and swears about me to my sister , hes a fat lazy slob who never does any cleaning or anything and dosnt like to be told what to do yet tells everyone else to do things, he also treats my sister like shit and talks to her like shes an idiot i fukin hate him !!!!
I FEEL SOO MUCH BETTER NOW !!
p.s im from london
i hate my BIL cos he thinks he's gods gift to women, has cheated on my sister, causes trouble in the family, tells tales to my mum, dad and sisters, brags about everything humanly possible and just irritates the life out of me and my sisters to the point where i want them to naff off to the other side of the world, even tho i love my sister i cannot cope with his trouble causing ways even there son is starting to be a trouble causer and he's only nine. How can i get rid of this wanker, he's making our lives a misery
I hate my brother-in-law more than anyone else in this world. First of all, he is a compulsive liar...he told my sister and my family when we first met him that he was a fire fighter and a police officer. He said he was "currently on administrative leave because he needed some time off to recover from losing a fellow fire fighter in a fire." All of it was a big lie. What is sad is that my sister is now married to him and she still believes that he was a fire fighter and police officer. We try to tell her and he has her so brainwashed that she cannot see the truth. He is constantly mooching off of everyone. He has my sister lie to her family saying she is sick and needs some help paying for her medical care so that he can get money from us. He committed fraud via paypal on my Dad's paypal account and now my Dad is responsible for the $4000 he swindled. He says he promises he will pay him back but never does. He's a drug addict too! He goes "doctor shopping" all around the state telling doctors that he was hurt and now he will never be able to be a fire fighter again. The doctors believe him and feel sorry for him and give him all kinds of narcotics. He has no job and is on disability because he's a mental case but tells everyone that the checks he receives every month are from his fireman's pension. Such Bullshit! He is so controlling over my sister and has completely taken her away from my family. He is 28 years old when he married my 19 year old sister. He has told her that she shouldn't go to college because it is a waste of time. My entire side of the family has gone to college and gotten degrees. Because of him she is now the only person in our family who doesn't have a degree. My autistic brother even has a degree. He's such a piece of shit and I wish he would just go away. He wont let my sister go anywhere or do anything without him. We were supposed to have a girls day out and go shopping and she called me today to say that she can only go if he goes. I HATE HIM SO MUCH! I Hope KARMA GETS A HOLD OF HIM AND MAKES HIS LIFE HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLUS I'M TIRED OF US TAX PAYERS SUPPORTING HIS LAZY ASS!
I hate my BIN, He lives in my parents house with us and there kid (which is a little angel). He works with his dad making over 500 dollars a week but they can never afford anything because he oded on heroine in my parents bathroom and now have a huge hospital bill that will prob. take a good 5 years to pay off so there stuck living with my parents and I. I just turned 19 and he is 22. He nvr takes care of his kid when he takes her places its to his moms or his drug head friends. I treats my sister like shit and tells her that she nvr takes care of there daughter. He always wines and i hate the way he walks around my parents house like he can say and do what he wants to my sister and we cant do shit about it because its his wife. My dads already bitched and him and recently I was about to beat his ass because of the way he talks to my sister infront of us. Fucking asshole my sister can buy a pack of gum without him knowing about it and ten her through a fit that there broke. well if he wasnt a fucking heroine addicted they would have money. My sister would be so better without him, but its like he has her trapped or something. He never helps around the house its work for him. then pay his heronine debts and eat our food then play his xbox all fucking day while my sister takes care of a crying baby. note that she is a big drama queen cryer. But I hear everything he says to her. His a straight up dick head and my sister and our family would be better off without him. thank you
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back again....this is for laura....
the dick keeps behaving badly. get this....
he's 46 with a child starting kindergarten. isnt parenting a 24/7 job? divorced or married...disckweed shows up at my sister-in-laws labor day function (yes girl--your mom's house) in a cab carrying a 30-pack of beers! although fam and friends attended, and he did not have the weekend with his own son, ...shouldnt the fucker act his age and be a role model to the kids who are not his own (ie-my neices and nephews that attended). it's always about him..... pathetic effort on his part to drink heavily, act poorly, disgust myself and others with his choices, and show no regard for being in anothers home! he sours me to no end,....speaking of choices that soley revolve around his pathetic self--get this, he told me and my husband the other day that our "first cruise should be with he and his son"....as if.... a cruise is a romantic trip...a first for me to be shared with no one other than my husband (his brother)....not him. he's so pathetic that he thinks that i'd actually enjoy hanging on a cruise with him! i love his son, but the parent is pathetic in my mind, and a drain on me mentally because of his bad choices.... i sadly am coming to realize that it is affecting the relationship i have with his child, and in a reverse fucked up way, it is again affecting my relationship with my husband! he's an alcoholic that cant put his child first. The 24/7 blessing of being a parent is something to be cherished...not fucked around with. That child deserves a parent who is his parent that sets a standard for living, a respectable existence, a worthy being. he's a loser who again has occupied way too much of my thoughts sadly because i love his kid to death and think this child deserves more consideration.
i hate by BIL. He stole my identity. THis bastard is a low life, screwed so many people in the past, and has a warrant out for his arrestfor driving under suspended license. I found out recently he created a state ID under my name. I filed the report and hope to put his sorry ass in jail.
I hate my fucking brother in law. He treats my sister so bad and is causing problems between her and my family. He also wants to cause problems between me and my husband. He is trying to tell my husband lies about me but the idiot brother in law doesn't know that me and my husband love each other truly and that my husband hates his guts. The asshole is driving around in a car my dad bought my sister caused his fucked up ass crashed two of his cars racing people on the street. Then he has the nerve to try to sell the ONLY car they have which is a gift from my dad to my sister. On top of all that he calls my dad and yells at him.How the fuck will they get around I have no clue. He even cursed at my mom. He had the nerve to call my sister an animal when she was in labor for 19 hours and made her cry. She was giving birth to their son at the hospital, and there he was at her side telling her she was an animal. The dick works and sends all his money to his mom and never gives my sister any money. He doesn't respect her or my family. I had enough of him and I am planning to move away and never speak to my sister again because he wants to ruin my relationship with my sister. She is the only sister I have. I had another one but she died and my sister and I got very close. She is my best friend and will always be. But I can't be near her because I want her to be happy and I know if I am near her, the asshole will make her life miserable because of me. I pray that my sister will wake up and put her foot down, but I think she is afraid to get a divorce. I am so hurt I love her too much and care for her and her baby.
I hate my BIL. He is right next to me farting and making baby noises. He's a dick
I hate my BIL. He is mildy retarded and is so ugly. He bites his nails, licks his fingers when he eats, and smacks very loudly. I think he may be a child molestor. I don't even like him to speak to me or my daughters. Everytime he sees them, he tries to tickle them and they can't stand his ugly ass. My MIL wanted to keep our new baby and my husband left her with those crazy as people. They are so stupid that they gave my 4 month old baby green kool-aid with no water in it. His family makes me sooooo sick. I always ask myself how did he come from those country ass people. I know he can't help it because he is retarded, but he gets on my nerves so bad my blood boils when he talks. He has the nerve to think he knows everything. I pray that God will take all of this hate out of my heart.
I LOVE THIS - WE SHOULD FORM A CLUB - THE BROTHER-IN-LAW HATERS' CLUB. I too can't stand my Brother-in-Law. He has got to be the most obnoxious idiotic prick I have ever had the displeasure to know. He is a biggoted asshole. The group that really gets him going is Mexicans, and ironically, he is half Mexican. He is a know-it-all, but he doesn't know anything. He pretends to be a Christian, but he would steal your wallet from you if you weren't looking. He calls other people rude and obnoxious while he is burping and farting at the table - all while picking his toenails with a fork. He is constantly trying to suck everyone into get-rich-quick schemes, while not even having the credit to buy a car. Where tdo they breed these people? To all my brothers and sisters out there that that asshole of a brother-in-law - - I feel your pain!!!
What are you complaining for? My brother-in-law treated me like a princess, but whenever my sister was away, he would drug me and while I slept, strip me, take nude photos of me, cum in my mouth and at the entrance to my vagina and fuck my bum. So consider yourself luckily!
My b-i-l is a control freak abuser. Verbal and psycologically. Tells my sister-in-law when to put on lipstick, how to wear her hair for the past 25 years. He doesn't let her buy simple household items without personally going to the store himselve to approve them. He pushes his own agenda on others and if your contradict him, oh watch out! The daggers and hate flares from his eyes. My sister-in-law has become caught in his web of disturbed mental behavior that she thinks it is NORMAL. She truley believes they are NORMAL. She doesn't realize that it is so dysfunctional and abnormal.
I dont know if i HATE him; but he is still a rude, obnoxious, arrongant fucking shit! He moved in whith us after his girlfriend broke up with him; supposedly till he finds a new place...that was 6 months ago. He is the only one in the house who doenst clean up after themselves, wash dishes, do laundry...and my husband thinks i act like a drama queen whenever i complain. He is such a fucking asshole - he thinks the whole world owes him "something" and should we should all be grateful to know him. He has no respect for me, my husband or my household. Just cause their mom passed away when he was very young, my husband uses that as an excuse for his behaviour; mothering him, and making excuses. We were happily married, never fighting, and truely in love...but now i hate being home, cringe whenever i see him, and detest my life - cant my husband see what his precense is doing to me. I fear that if he stays any longer, i'll resort to ultimatums...either ur brother leaves, or both of you leave. I am not his personal maid, chef or secretary. Piece of shit!
i hate my brother in law with a burning passion.
hes fat lazy an alcoholic and is living off of the government. hes rude nosy and tells shit to his mom and dad about my husband and i. hes sneaky and i cant stand to be around him. this year at family gatherings, you will not see my face....bastard.
My Bro In Law Is Pissing Me Off. He Constantly Shows Up At Our House 3-4 Times Out Of The Week Bringing His Bad Ass Kids. I'm Pissed At My Husband For That Matter As Well. His Brother Has A Home Why In The Hell Don't They Just Hang Out There??? He Wants To Come Drink, Eat F**k Up And Won't Leave Until 2-4am On Weekends. I've Told My Husband To Go To His Brothers House To Hang Out. I GET SICK OF LOOKING AT HIM!!!!!! I Have Done Things Like Go Outside And Cut THE POWER, And Their Like "Huh Whats Going On?" Then Reset The Breaker. I Did This Like 9 Times That Night I Climbed Outside The Bedroom Window So They Wouldn't See Me Going In And Out. They Were Still Like Huh Duh I Don't Get Whats Going On We're Going To Have To Call The Power Company Dude This Shit Ain't Right. His Stupid Brother Never Left. Finally I Cursed My Husband Out And Clowned For About An Hour. My Husband Was Like Babe Why Are You Tripping?? The Brother NEVER LEFT! SON OF A B***H... I Know I Don't Know You All On This Site But I Just Wanted To Vent... Ahh That Felt Good To Get Out.. My Husband Is A Very Good Husbands Who Works And Takes Care Of His Family But Has A Weakness For His Brother Who Is Also A Good Man But Doesn't Now How Stay At Home. He Comes Over When He Is having Problems With His Girl Or Wants To Drink Hell He Is Just Always There How Do I Get Rid Of This Nuisance...
I despise my brother in law, a 22 year old low life asian (which means India over here in the UK) chav who thinks he is black jamaican gangster. He is very arrogant with it too and because he is built he loves to throw his weight around too, he thinks he is another Arnie. Three years ago he got robbed and I lent him a large sum of money to help him back on his feet. The ungrateful idiot and never thanked me. Two years ago his car was written off, so we lent him ours, he proceeded to write that off too, no sorry was ever said. All he ever does is bad mouth me and is always trying to tell my wife (his sister) how bad I am for her. I believe the gene pool is better off without certain indivduals.
amen!!!
I hate my brother-in-law, He is a slob pig bastard. I am getting closer to beating the crap out of him. I am fit and 233lbs and he thinks since he is 250 that makes him buff. He is a drunk, who lives of the government, and his wife (I feel sorry for) as he takes about 1700$ of her money she gets from being in the army and blows it away. I unfortunatly live with this shit cunt. I live with my Wife Daughter and Father-in-law who is nice, but he lets his son walk on him. We have had some spats in the past, I walked away, but have not had any in awhile. Two incidents though I acutally tried to get him but father in law and wife made not do it. Today he came with a story about, how he was held up with a knife so he drank himself stupid at the billiard hall. He was supposed to be back at 4pm got back at 8:30pm when my father in law got him. Then wanted to ask me something, months ago I agreed to fix a truck (once he got a head gasket of course finally bought one the other day)we have sitting to get him to not drive my father in laws truck. Well he confronted me about it and blah blah told him to shove it. Evidently my father in law told him he could no longer drive any of the vehicles. Well I started comming back witha hammer my wife stopped me. Oh he as well thinks he is a hardcore black dude (gangsta) or something. Daniel Bratton go fuck yourself, Sacramento, CA
I hate my BIL. He is almost 40 and won't get a job. He sits at home smoking pot and dealing drugs while my sister has to drag her kid to work with her. She's an idiot too. She hates him, but wants kids, so what does she do? Get pregnant again. They both live in the house my dad gave to my sister and I, but since its still in my dads name- I don't have much say so in anything that goes on up there. My dad is too much of a wimp to stand up to BIL and say no drugs in the house and around his daughter and grandkids. He also is too much of a wimp to kick him out for not paying to live there.
My sister is a dumbass and took up for BIL today who called my mom and I a bitch to our face. He then threatened to have our asses kicked by his redneck family. He laughs when I threaten to call the cops b/c his family pretty much is the cops and his dad is a political figure. I hate my BIL more than I've ever hated anything or anyone in my life. I wish he would overdose.
my bil is an arrogant shit waste of spacewho treats my sis like shit. He gets ina mood when my kids and I visit her , even though they live at my parents and keeps her in her room while im there.Hes not working and bumming off my folks, the only people he likes is his family, who are shits aswell. shes gonna get rid anyway, shes just making him strike out all his chances...his days are numbered!!!
last year I sorted that my brother in law. Chris Brown was a flid. I would like to say he has changed. Actually he is worse. The only saving grace is the little tosser lives the other side of li country. Yet he still manages to screw us over. In the words of Phil from Pantera. I ask you please just give up 5 minutes alone. . .
I wish my BIL death everyday since my sister married him. Ever since she brought him home to meet us I knew that there was something wrong with him. Even after she found out that he was a drug addict and alcoholic she still married him. When ever he comes home high or drunk (8 times and counting) she yells at him then she allows this prick to sleep it off in their bed (she sleeps on the couch) he wakes up hungry, she makes a meal, they talk and then all is well again…WTF!!!!!!!!!!!! She used to be this strong no non-sense women and she has become this weak dumb-ass who thinks she can not live w/o this loser. Now that she is pregnant I worry for this child who is going to be raised by a weak women and piece of shit loser. Now is the time let Evan go in peace, now is the time let Evan go in peace, now is the time let Evan go in peace, now is the time let Evan go in peace.
I hate my brother in law, he is not as bad as the others listed in all fairness. But he is aggressive and nasty. He hurt my parents and me years ago, and now when that past and thngs moved on (on the face of it)..he is now aggressive towards my partner..why can't my sister see that he is the problem in all this?? ..it's always him and her, that's the problem. Is she that stupid?? Love is blind..she is an idiot for accepting that..and I am disapointed in her, and so are my parents. Blah to the lot of them!! some family members really suck!!
I hate my husband's brother (I can't even include "in-law" in the post because I don't even want to associate myself with him. He is a 26 yr. old loser who has never had a job (nor attempted to find one), never finished school, had a shot-gun wedding at 21 with two kids and lives at his mother's house. He calls his wife his "cash cow" and spends his whole day on the internet and watches TV. He doesn't help with chores or has any responsibility in life whatsoever. Both of his children's front teeth rotted away and he expected his mother to foot the thousands of dollars in dental bills. He is disrespectful to others and pushes his twisted opinions on people by debating with them for his amusement. He definitely has a screw loose and it is unbelievable that a human like him exists on this Earth.
i hate my lazy ass brother in law. he's got two kids and acts like he's 2. he goes out every friday night with his buddies and comes home drunk. then he stays up drinking and spends saturday and sunday in bed recooperating. claims he works so hard all week. he's 32 not 72. grow up. and if you say anything he runs whining to my sister. then she has the nerve to say something. of course, when he drunk and running off at the mouth that he going to change etc, etc, etc. and you call him on it he gets all twisted. i hate this jerk and my sister is an idiot for putting up with this crap. let's face it, when you hide liquor, stay up alone drinking there is definitely a problem.i just wonder what kind of an example this poor excuse of a human being is going to have on his kids. i hate him!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There is not a word i can use to explain how much i hate my BIL hes a mother fucker he is a snake he made up some bullshit to some bad people trying to get me out of the way so he can control his wife(my sister) and my lil sister and my mom i tried to be nice to that faggot woulda taken a bull 4 him to but he thought his benifits would be far greater by removing me from the picture he makes up so much bullshit and interfers with evrything my my family iam far away from him now but he is still married to my sister i hope she doesnt have kids from him he is just like my old man i have never hated anyone in my life as much as i hate him if i could get my hands on him no one would stop me i would give everythin i have to make sure he's 6 foot under i just hate having to wait he has made my life fucking hell put me in the worst situation iv ever had to deal with and the biggest problem is everyone believes him even my family hes 27 years old works construction and thinks hes hot shit he likes to play mind games and is really cocky everyday he still breaths iam burning i regret not fucking him up when i had the chance he treats my sister like shit that son of a bitch should worship the floor the walks on i guess love is blind tho i dont interfere in her love life she chose him over me more then once shes 5 years older then me she pretty much raised me he is a real tied ass doesnt let her talk to her family shes not allowed to tell us where she lives becuase apprently he doesnt want anyone to know and i know 1 day iam guna see his fuck face again and all those rusty knifes he put in my back ill put back in his he will always be out to screw me and my fmaily over and see what money he can make out of us he is a waste of space if they where to burn him and throw his dust in the air he would contaminate everything hes a waste of sperm i wish that pussy mother fucker was never born he would by far be the worst bil ever only for the reason he is not man enough to face his problems face to face and have to play his little games makes him a low life peice of shit has all i know is he fucked with the wrong guy coz wut he did to me fukd with my head he just made me worse.
i hate my brother also and this is pure hate nothing less. i wish he was never born and he would stay away from me forever i never want to see, speak to, or touch may enemie agian and he is my enemie and i know it kills my mom but i just cant help the way i feel toward the devil that is my brother.

Dec 9, 2009
I hate my SISTER'S HUSBAND as I refuse to call him my brother inlaw. He is without a doubt the most arrogant, loud, know it all asswipe, did I mention LOUD? I have ever known. He will interupt you to tell you how wrong you are-because he knows everything. I do not know what my sister sees in this cheating ahole that goes from exwife to exwife.
I can't stand to look at him, hear his voice and I am starting to wish I could hurt this man.
I moved in to help my sis, and she moved this piece of shit in at the same time. I WOULD NEVER, EVER, EVER, HAVE MOVED HERE IF I HAD KNOWN I WOULD HAVE TO LIVE UNDER THE SAME ROOF AS THIS DICKWAD. Please, give me the strength to not poison this man's coffee or literally beat his ass!
Thankfully, I will be leaving in a couple of weeks and won't have to hear him or see him. I might leave early if I can afford to, as I fucking wish this man harm. It is not healthy.
Thanks for allowing this rant.
I hate my BIL because he messes around with me.He acts nice one day than the next he completely ignores me.He doesnt treat my sister to the fullest once he just left on a trip with his gay friend and left my sister behind.Fucker slept over his gay friends house just because I was at the house.Doesnt even know how to interact with people.Hes a complete idiot.I almost feel sorry for him.When I was younger I would try to have fun by play fighting with him but he was too aggresive i dont think he knows how to play fight.He is a wanker for sure.Now I try to ignore him and show him i dont like him but he always does something to make me like him.He is weird, I think he might be bipolar.Or just a completely nut.I always cared about him and put up with him ignoring me and making me feel worthless,obviously i looked up to him.But im older now and Ive learned not to let him pull my strings.Hopefully I can get him out of my mind since Ive always tried to make him to notice me.So yea ive been depressed cuz of his faggot ass.Now that ive payed less attention to him I feel better and happier he actually said I was too cheerful.If he only knew its becuz i hate his guts and now dont really give a crap about him and his life.Hes a potsmoking mental handicap.Thats why I hate him.His brother is worst that my sisters story of why she hates her bil.I hope he sees this and also says why he hates me.I really think he does.Another problem is he is to concerned about what other people think,he wont talk to me if they said it was gay to talk to another guy.I think he never went to his gay friends house after I said it was gay.
I have a brother In law that has been mooching off of my family for the last 5 years. He stoled money from my father that was supposed to be going toward my fathers dream home. He was supposed to be building the house, instead of being at the job site he was at the strip clubs all the time spending my dads loan money from the bank. He finally finished the house 3 years later when it was only supposed to take 1 year to build. That was also after he went $700,000. dollars over budget!! Needless to say my dad wont give him funding to build more houses, so I started a business a year and a half ago with financial help from my father and was forced by my parents to employ him. He has been a worthless mooch every since. He doesnt appreciate anything, the employees hate him, he doesnt respect me, and is always on vacation!! I have to pay him salary and it is way too much. I guess I just have to keep supporting his lying stealing self and my worthless sister untill I sell the company and they go back to mooching off of my parents again!!!
wow! what a relief to find people who also hate their bil's! lol. well i don't hate him b/c i try not to hate anyone, but he is definitely my pet peeve. i can't stand ppl who are lazy & take other nice people for granted. he is the biggest mama's boy i ever met. he is almost 40, hasn't had a single job in over 10 yrs & has 4 kids. his wife works, but doesn't even make that much. we do get a lot of help from him since he stays home w/ our son so i can't say he's completely imperfect. but we pay him. tryin to do him a favor. also... whenever they need a favor they never ask. he just drops off his kids. his mom spoils him because he's obviously her favorite. we live w/ my mil and fil temporarily to save up for a down payment for a house. btw, he also has a house thanks to his mom who bought it for him. my husband supposedly has one too, but its in his moms name and there's so much money taken out of that house its more of a burden to us then a gift. thats why we're saving instead to get out own. i love my mil she is a very nice person for helping us, but her love for her kids is not even. she treats my husband (the youngest) like a child, he is 30 & in school. @ least we're trying to get our lives together. my bil is full of excuses... he says until his oldest turns 12 so she can watch the other kids, he will not work. but she is 12 now. now his excuse is that his wife cant drive to work w/o him so until the oldest turns 18 and gets a car, he will not work. uh huh. why not get a night shift job? why doesn't she get a ride w/ her friend from work? or take the bus? or get a license? to me, where there's a will there's a way. he is just lazy. whenever he needs something he never asks, he demands. people on my husbands side of the family seem to cater to him. if they have had enough they will get mad, and then he gets more mad! who gives him the right to get mad?! i don't understand this and have gotten into huge arguments w/ my husband over how things work in this family. but my husband tells me i just talk too much crap about his family & takes their side, even though i'm feeling sorry for him & every1 else for the way my bil treats THEM. but thats another issue. if only my bil would shape up and stop taking ppl for granted, ppl can focus on their own lives. if he didn't involve me @ all... trust me, i wouldn't care about how he chooses to live his life. i love my neices and feel sorry for them. i feel sorry for my sil too she works so hard but that's her choice to stay w/ a man like him. ugh! disgusting. im beginning to wonder if im falling into the same pattern by being married to my husband. but he's in school which i helped pay for amongst other things i've paid for. only time will tell. another thing i thought i'd add... my mil gets mad @ my husband for not cleaning up after my bil's kids. she never gets mad @ her "favorite" son, my loser bil. when they DO clean... my bil tells the two oldest girls to clean up. not ONCE have i ever seen him clean up after his own kids. if he works then thats fine. but he doesnt even work. he's always sitting on the couch. his wife cooks more often than him. he just likes to reap the benefits of everything w/o working for it. to me, its just this personality trait that is my pet peeve. i have a single mother who has done EVERYTHING by herself & has always taught me to be independent. hopefully when we move out, things will change. hopefully when they have each other to deal w/ only w/ no help from us, they will realize there's a problem. including my mil who spoils him too much. well.... feels good to vent about this! thank you! god bless i hope all our bil's shape up or @ least leave us alone!
Ihate my twin brother. He is so so so so so so so so so irrisponsible! and he is TEN years old! A couple days ago he put a remote in a vase! It was so so hard to get out! My brother blamed it on me when he did it! But I got the remote out of the vase and my mom and dad didn't even say "Thankyou".
Mybrother is stupid, dumb, annoying,irrisponsible. He actually swares alot! even in front of my parents!
He and his friend kept on cheating on a game. I HATE MY BROTHER SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!

He drives me crazy! I bet you people agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i hate my BIL, and he lives in our parents house too. i was close to my sister, as i was close to family. so my BIL talks behind my back that i meddle with their marriage??? wtf man, get your own house if you dont want people in your BIZNEZ. hes also so insecure coz i can buy stuff for myself while he needs to leach off my sister to bbuy any. then talks behind my back, AGAIN, coz of his insecurity.

my other sister already has 2 kids, im the youngest. they (2nd sister and bil) have been married for 2 years now and still no kids, maybe hes insecure about his infertility and money? forgot to mention this guy is a dumb a$$ too, low IQ dumb a$$ type.
i hate my brother in law so much. he's a stupid hipster who mooches off of his parents, and i hate his family too. his sister is retarded and started beating my dog once when they came over, but of course i couldn't do anything "mean" and the dumb brother-in-law said "it's just a dog." Now they can never set foot in my house. So i only get to see my sis in their pot-smoke filled apartment or a restaurant. i hate him, he drove a wedge in my family.
What can I say, he's a dick. He thinks he owns the world because he manages a department store. Turns out my sister is divorcing his dumb ass because he told her his job is more important than her or their son.
Every time he is around a group of people he brings up his high-horse job and the fact that he has a 50" plasma TV.
I have helped them as a couple throughout the years. If I could, I would take back everything he has benefited from. It's been over 10 years.

Hoping he moves far away! Get fired and shove the TV up your ass!
Oh yeah, and about Mr. High Horse store manager. He got his yearly bonus, then he promptly spent it on a new wireless laptop, more Apple upgrades for his TV, and a suit to wear at work while he kneels under the bosses desk.

Did my sister or her boy get a dime? Hell no. That's the way it works when an asshole runs the house.
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I hate my drunk brother in law....doesn't work, sits at his mama's house, treating her like shit, doesn't pick up or help with the yard just sits on her couch until he passes out...while passed out he can either pee on himself or puke on himself. He knew we were bringing our kids here for spring break and he doesn't care...i hate him, he is a selfish, stupid, smelly drunk pig and i wish his sorry ass would just disappear...he is such a soulless, heartless, evil troll!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Never in my life have I met such an sorry POS....UGGHHH!
I can't stand my brother in law to be.. he is the most obnoxious bastard i have ever met. I am stuck sharing space with this animal on the weekends because he lives with my fiance. This bipolar piece of crap sleeps until 2:00 and we all have to tip toe around. When he finally wakes up he gets away with acting like a big douche bag because it's known he is not a morning person. So I get verbally abused one minute and then he thinks he can apologize and it will be all better the next. Everyone has to walk on egg shells depending on his mood. I told him off today and I'm glad I did. He's supposed to be the "best man", more like the worst man. I hope he steps in shit and a cat pisses in his eye.
i think i can top you all, my husbands asshole brother has been with us since day one! first of all he's a convicted felon from california and votes here in delaware. i know he told the stare he's not a felon and they didn't check. then he pays No taxes, and flaunts it in front of all of us who do! but the bastard has enough balls to raise his political opinion all over the internet! his favorite site is soda head.com. EVERonE laughs at him because he's such an idiot. he feels that if i want to spend time alone with my husband, he should be asked his permission first!

hmm....let's see//// I'VE worked for 30 yeas, paid my taxes, bought a house, and i have a retirement plan. why should such a scum bag come to my home and degrade me?

My husband has been trough chemotherapy, surgeries etc, the this fucker drives me crazy.

when he starts his shit, my husband is asleep and worn out. today is 3/20/10 and it's the last time i'm going to tell my husband about this asshole's crap... my husband, says he's finaly gong to get him to tell him....we'l see

anyway, if anyone ever encounters this asshole from new castle delaware.......RUN! ! !
i also hate my brother in laws. He borrow 50000 dollars to put in his own son land( not my sister's kid). He is paying now and 20000 more left. However, he does not like my sister to take of my side of family. He only want she to care for his son who treat her like crap. Still, he shamelessly want to get more money from my mother and want to my sister to work to pay off the land of that kid. HE also want to get my sister's scholar ship. She denied all of it of course. I do not know what did we do to deserve him.
I hate my brother in law, he walks right in the house and you turn and there he is.. he is an alcoholic and my husband feels sorry for him cause he is a stinky drunk..........he pees his bed cause he gets so drunk......he stops over every weekend and never calls so you can't invite anyone over ever cause you never know if he will stop...he is embarrassing and I am ready to leave my husband cause of it but our daugher is getting married June 5th....it's not fair........why should my husband feel sorry for a loser drunk.....just enables him more, and what happens legal when he pulls out of our home and kills someone driving who is going to get sued......us, even though he drinks his own beer, we switched beers to get rid of him.....but no luch.
I just had an Ebay dealing with Tony Carpenter, aka Jack Carpenter, of Ashland and he tried to scam $800 worth of merchandise from me. Unfortunately he did steal $700 from another Ebayer. Seems like the the local police are very familiar with him and his criminal past of impersonating a police officer and theft. So, do whatever you can to get your sister away from this abusive fuck.
My future BIL isn't as bad as most of these but I still can't stand him! He's almost 23, living with his parents, didn't go to get his degree because he didn't "feel like taking any classes" (since apparently everyone else just loves it, right?)

He works at Walmart, (at least he has a job...?) and eats everything in the house. The only food he pays for himself is pizza (for breakfast), 2-liters that he drinks in one sitting, and full gallon ice cream. One day, he ate an entire bowl of cheese for a "snack." Now he says he's on a "diet," which consists of switching from regular soda to diet soda. He works about 30 hours a week and the rest he is literally sleeping, eating, watching tv, or on the computer.

He makes dumb comments that he thinks are really insightful and everytime I walk into the room he's in, he looks at me like I'm invading his territory, although maybe he should try moving his territory out of his parent's house!

He just gives all the signs of a lazy ass who gave up on advancing himself and he's bringing everyone in his family down with him by making them pay for everything. What happens when his obese self has a medical condition? His parents will have to pay for it because he doesn't have his own insurance. And even though they talk about him eventually leaving, they make no real effort to change it!
I totally hate my brother in law. He gets in between my 21 year marriage and he lives off his mother. The moron instigates fights between me and my husband and when I confront him, you can see his tail between his legs...What a moron!!! He claims to be a high priced salesman but his mother pays his bills and basically supports him. My brother in law has no balls and he uses his mommy to defend him and support him. It's time to cut that fucking umbilical cord asshole and be a man!!!!
Now that felt very good....
good to know that I am not alone at hating my brother in law. He is a male chauvinistic pig!! Once he parked his Mercedes on my parents front lawn because he didn't want to park it in the streets! What an ass-hole! I told him to move it and my sister got mad at me. Now our relationship is messed up :(
My BILis the biggest douchebag loser, you'll ever meet. Let's start here; he graduated from high school, went to CC, transfered to a U, played basketball, used up his eligibility, and remained in college for a total of 9yrs+ & quit; with no degree! He dated a beautiful girl for about 11yrs was engaged to her for about 9yrs and broke off the engagement about a month before the wedding telling her that he couldn't support her but hasn't even tried to better himself! He's a groundskeeper at a GC and is laid off in the winter and sits around pulling his pud & coaching basketball! He met a nutbag girl, with similar interests/bullshit and bought her an $13K engagement after about 2wks of dating, that blew up in his face. He had a vehicle that he couldn't afford and traded it in for another , and returned it, bec I talked some sense into him for awhile. By the way he's 34yrs old living at home w/mom & dad with absolutely no responsibility! He has 0 personality but is a good looking guy; that's all the good I can say about that piece of shit!!! His parents cater to his every need, give him $$$, buy him tires for his car, that we sold him for a $1, baby his dumbass to the pt I want to puke, etc & so does his sister, my wife! I don't have a leg to stand on!!! They all defend him to the end; then about a week ago he calls me for advice: he dated this girl & his best friend (just as big a loser) dated this other girl, they swapped and both engaged the girls I think just to taste what others dick's tasted like, he wanted to get back together with the girl he dated before the swap, her engagement got broken off too; shocker, and said that she was the 1; but then went away this weekend to meet another girl; WTF? My IL's would like to retire at some point but they can't while supporting this 34yr old piece of shit; my FIL works himself to the bone, a great work ethic, too bad his poor worthless son does shit; but they don't see a problem with him at all, they just blow smoke up his ass and tell him how good looking he is and how great of a basketball player he is (it should be was + he wasn't even that good). He didn't even start in HS, started in CC for awhile, maybe and then didn't play a lick at the University. Sometimes when we go down to the inlaws, there are tapes on the VCR/DVD player from his HS basketball games; I guess just reminicesing about the glory days, it's pathetic!!! My IL's/wife just think that he's the best! I bust my ass, work 40+hrs a week, graduated from college with 2 degrees in 5 years and get no credit like he gets for being a loser! Not from my wife or inlaws; they just find things to put me down about. When we first got married, about 6months in, we went there to dinner (we were living in an apt at that time saving $$$ to buy a house) and my MIL came to us for a loan of $15K to pay off there vehicle or it would be repossed; I did it with the stipulation I get paid back $500/month; needless to say; I only received about $500 or so total in about 11yrs; so I guess that explains alot of my BIL!
My BiL is fat and lazy. He lives at home with his mom. He drinks every day. He eats like a king with steaks, seafood, and big menus for every meal. He watches TV and wastes time on FaceBook when he's not out driving around wasting gas or hang out at the bar. The rest of his family says "poor guy" can't catch a break and treats him like a king and keep giving him money. He's 45 years old with no desire to earn his own living. He blew his marriage and blows the part time jobs he's able to get. When I tell my wife we need to save money for kids school, he says we shouldn't worry so much about money and life isn't all about money. Easy to say for someone who DOESN'T EARN ANY OF HIS OWN MONEY! He asks for money to fix his convertible. He asks for money for his vacations. (Vacations from unemployment?) A few months ago he lost his job (far from here) and moved close to here to move in with his mommy. Now he goes drinking with her. AWESOME life on unemployment.
i hate my brother in law bcoz he is really mean minded..he dnt allow my elder sis to talk with our family...as we are not too rich, he and his family always insult my mom and dad...he always talk with my mom and dad very rudely...and his family always saying that marrying my didi is the greatest mistake of his life...i love my didi a lot...and my mom dad also..i dnt want that anyone hurt my parents and my didi...what to do...???????????????????????????????????
My boyfriends brother is a major loser! 34 years old lives next door to his parents with his girlfriend of ten years and that's another story ; the parents no doubt bought this loser the house. The parents are blue collar while the dad nit too long ago beat cancer the loser brother claims to make money at a job but can't his bills so the parents pay them WTF and they even give him sounding money then it puts a strain on my relationship because he and his lowlife girlfriend who has a job always want to go out but expect my boyfriend an I to pay WTF and he lies through his teeth it makes me uncomfortable because I bite my tongue and I just want to call him a liar my boyfriend is this losers younger brother and knows how is brother is but fells bad and obligated to support him too WTF At this point in our relationship I cannot see myself not having to continue this my fear is that his brother will be at our house every night to mooch dinner and do laundry and watch tv and then never leave us alone I love my boyfriend but I'm unhappy brcause of this situation and I know it will never change
i hate my future brother i law. i didn't to start with, in fact i quite liked him, but he's caused so much trouble between me and my sister, and she is so f**king gullible. her favourite saying is 'we've discussed it' when talking about stuff. he's so controlling and maniulative that 'discussed it' means he had talked her into his way so no one else can change her mind even itf it s the most ridiculous descision ever. she has known him 3 months, she is 47 and never even had a date before him. they are getting maried at the beg. of october. me and her have been together for 45 years and he reckons he knows her better than us. she's schizerphrenic, virtually adopted my 7 year old daughter who has now been dropped like hot snot ( and is bewildered and confused into the bargain). me and sister had the mother of all arguments last week and they sneaked around when we were out and he tried to get my 72 year old mother on his side (she lives with us), phoning my daughters boyfriend first to see if we were in as they knew he was looking after my younger children. he calculated what he would get if he married my sister even before he married her. they asked my oap mother for £1500 for the photographer ( so he has not got to pay for the wedding) my sister has paid for everything for the wedding so far and he was supposed to pay for the reception which he has booked in the most dire place imaginable, becuase its free, why is it free, becuase its seats about 10 even though they have 120 guests coming ( he thinks they can stand outside in the car park!) you stick to the carpet and i saw better toilet facilites in kenya on safari.

i am not jealous, i have the most perfect of husbands who i love with all my heart and have 4 gorgeous kids. i love my sister too we were so close and i cannot come between her and him as she would hate me. but i wish she would see what a grabbing ar*ehole he is.
I hate my brother in law as well. My sister was married to another man. Her new husband was currently married to another woman, my sister and he met at their work place. My sister left her husband and her new husband left his wife for my sister. They both divorced their spouses. Then ended up marrying each other. I can't stand this man. He is soooo freaking annoying. He is controlling of my sister. Our dad passed away. He seems to be making alot of the decisions. I live in other state. They didn't bother to call me and tell me that they were having the final estate sale. I missed it because I didn't know. He also thinks he's funny believe me, he's not. He is such a pain in the ass. I get sick to my stomach anytime I know he's coming up here where I live or if I have to go to the other state where they live. My sister can't have a minutes peace because he is constantly calling her and checking on her. He has a daughter from a previous marriage. My sister doesn't have any kids, yet. He was "fixed" then got a reversal done. Their now trying to have kids. I wish my sister would open her eyes and see whats going on. She used to be a vibrant, independant woman, not anymore. It's yes * or no *. I feel like I have lost my sister. She has truly changed since she's been with him. One of the last times I was in Ky her husband said woman are stupid. I looked straight at my sister thought she would say something but nope nothing. I was shocked and still am. I am to the point that I don't care if I see either of them again. I prefer to live in the other state and never see them again.
My brother in law is the most useless, helpless, waste of space with whom I have ever come into contact. He is 31, divorced, and has two daughters (5 and 6) who are rotten to the core, due to the fact that neither he nor his crackhead ex-wife chose to properly parent or discipline them for the entirety of their existance. He is a college drop-out who is completely incapable of making a rational decision and blames all of his trouble on other people. He burdens my husband and I with tales of how awful his life is in an effort to gain our sympathy. I literally have lost all respect for this poor excuse for a human and have not one ounce of sympathy for him. He agreed to split his two kids up (SO wrong!!!!!) because his ex-wife told him that she didn't like or want to keep their older daughter and only wanted to keep the younger one to keep collecting some child support from him. Instead of thinking that it would be best for the two girls to stay together, he figured that one is better than none in this case. THESE ARE CHILDREN!!!! HUMAN BEINGS!!!! Ever since he moved back to his hometown, he has used his mother and stepfather regarding his living situation and childcare, pays NO attention to his own child, talks nothing about rescuing his other daughter from his crazy ex-wife, and only cares about who he's going to get a piece of a$$ from next.

I HATE HIS GUTS AND I WISH HE WOULD DISAPPEAR FOREVER!!!!
I too hate my BIL!!!

My husband tells me he doesn't understand why, but deep down I think he really knows. My BIL is the biggest user, self centered, asshole I know of. He only talks to my husband when he WANTS something or to SHOW something off. My husband and I have constant fights over him and they never end good.
My husbands Mother is in a nursing home, well my BIL does NOT go see her on a regular basis but when he does the Mother praises him up and down like he's some FREAKING GOD! However, we are the ones that go and see her every week, bring her whatever she needs or wants and pays for anything she needs or wants....but we get no praise. Just more complaining from her about how this and that. It pisses me the hell off.
My BIL came to my home yesterday to show off his new boat ( they filed for bankruptcy less than a yr ago, but have all these new things once AGAIN getting into debt ) to my husband. When he showed up I was like WTF is he doing here, what does he want since he never just drops by to chit chat. My husband and I ended up having a huge fight that lead to some explosive behaviors on our part. I wish my husband could understand that I loathe this man just as much as he hates my ex-husband....I FEEL THE SAME WAY, why can't he respect that? My husband just won't admit that I am right but I am a crazy psyco bitch because of the way I feel. My husband lied to me he knew his bro was coming over, our fight wouldn't of happened if he was honest with me. I HATE HIM his NAME IS ALVIN SHEELY AND LIVES IN the Hagerstown Md area. I hope he sees this or someone he knows sees this because he is the biggest user, liar, ungrateful son of a bitch unless it benefits him who can't do anything for anyone else, selfish bastard.I would tell him as well, but oh then all hell would break loose in my home. I have never hated anyone before but I HATE HIM!!!!!!!
My bil lives at home with his mommy too. He's a drunked low life who insists on draging my wife out to bars, gets her all fucked up and lets her drive home. Even though he did 4 yrs in prison for vehicular homocide. My sil is the same fucking way except she's a whore who cheats on her husband and doesn't live at home. But she has to take her to bars too even though they both know she's trying to stay sober and our marriage is on the outs. Even though I try to stay calm, and may look calm. I've already killed the both of them in my mind at least 10 times.
hate the things a person does and not the person, why? because say that person decides to make a change, its kinda too late in your eyes because he can do no right. let your brother in law know how you feel and why and maybe things will change, but if they don't, still hate the things and not the person
God bless you
My brother in law is an over wieght alcoholic, he takes his misery out on his kids. I work with him as well and he does nothing, then goes home and tells the entire family how he works so hard. But in truth he just stands around talking. He has 2 dogs that he beats, the new one he got he wont train or even walk. His wife is in tears most nights, (he doesn't beat her, i would make sure of that), because he wont get off his fat ass to help her with anything. He talks about how hard it is raising his kids - which he doesn't. My nephew stays at the mother in laws 4 nights a week and usually six days. They never cook for them selves, always sponge of the parents. I have helped them move 3 times did thier landscaping 2 times, and he wont even get off the couch cause he is sore. he is 350 pounds of bullsh^t, my 118 pound wife can lift more than he can. I caught him slamming my 2 year old nephew into the side of a motor when he was drunk because that is how much of a man he is.( i took care of this) The father in law and i built decks for him 2 times, the first time he sat on the couch with his mom taking picture, second time he kept taking off every and showing up hours later..(i love my father in law and i always help him, or else he would have to do it by himself). Not to mention the father in law has bailed him out of pore vehicle decisions ( 3 times). A lying, whining, piece of sh^t. He doesn't want to seem like an alcoholic so when we go camping he hides a stash of booze, and when it's time he makes several trips back and forth, and each time the stumbling slowly increases - we know, we know- ASSHOLE. I am not going to say i wish him dead, but i do wish everything he deserves, from the bottom of my heart.
I ALSO HATE MY BIL HES A PIECE OF SHIT LOWLIFE WORTHLESS SORRY EXCUSE FOR A FATHER HE HAS NO JOB NO LIFE NO FRIENDS POTHEAD HE FKN STEALS FROM HIS OWN FAMILY AS WELL AS THE WHOLE WORLD HE HAS A SON THAT HE DOESNT TAKE CARE OF AT ALL!! HE JST SITS AROUND MY HOUSE DOIN LITERALLY NOTHING WATCHING TV N EATING ALL MY FOO HES AN ADULT N ACTS LIKE A CHILD N EXPECTS EVRY1 2 B NICE 2 HIM OR HES STARTS CRYING LIKE A LIL BITCH! UGGH! ITS WORSE CUZ HES LIVING UNDER THE SAME ROOF AS ME N HES MY HUSBANDS BROTHER N MY HUSBAND IS WAY 2 NICE 2 KICK HIM OUT WE FIGHT CONSTANTLY CUZ I ALWAYS TELL HIM THAT I DONT WANT HIM HERE I DONT KNOW WHAT 2 DO ANYMORE I CANT LIVE WITH A LOWLIFE LIKE THAT N AM ALWAYS SCARED THAT HES GONNA STEAL SOMETHING VALUEBLE CUZ HES ALWAYS STEALING SMALL THINGS N I CANT TAKE IT I WANNA LITERALLY PUNCH HIM IN HIS UGLY HORSE LOOKING FACE!
I also have several things to say about my brother in law.When I first met him I didnt think he was a good guy.After he married my sister,he started to fill her head with so much lies.My sister made a huge change throughout the years,my brother in law has always been one of those guys that like to get along with other people by cursing,everytime he would see me he would curse and say stupid stuff infront of me,and of course since I knew he was joking.I maintained my sense of humor,and endure it,but when I wanted to get along the same way,he went like a little girl gossiping to my sister about what I told him,he would always put my sister against me as if I was the bad guy.I have never liked my brother in law.Eversince I met him there is a few words how to describe him,overbearing,arrogant,self righteous,and most importantly proud.He always had a tendency to look more superior than others.I remember when my father left for something,he started to help us in a restaurant we had and chose to take the upper hand and took advantage of the situation by thinking he was the boss now as he saw that my sister was now taking control of our restaurant.He chose to get days off when ever he felt liked it,and sometimes he just did it for no reason,I also remember once he was out of a job for eight long months and my sister was maintaining him,I remember that every morning when he got online in the computer,I would talk to him in the webcam about some stuff and he would always show me a beer.After they moved in with my parents,and one thing that I have always detest about him was when we went out for a party once with a cousin of mine and he had the nerve to say out loud that my sister was never supporting him,I mean eight long months,my sister was paying for food and bills around the house,and that is not supporting,what an ungrateful bitch.Another thing that bothered me about him was that when he was around the house,living with us,he would never put money for food or anything,he would never help around the house,he only had money for his beers,and sometimes I wonder if all that money he was wasting was actually my sister's money and those are just a few reasons why I HATE MY BROTHER IN LAW.
i hate my future brother in law so much that i don't even want to invite him to my wedding. he's a complete asshole and makes fun of every woman in his family. he calls them fat and whore and bitch and then tries to defend himself by saying that's how he "plays". he's so disrespectful and nobody really stands up to him. they just take it and laugh it off. he also is illiterate and doesn't make sense half the time which makes me hate him more. i know that suggesting he not be invited to the wedding will not fly with anyone else in the family even though it's half MY wedding too which makes me seriously consider not even having a wedding. i love my fiance, but i can't imagine having to put up with this asshole for the rest of my life.
I got married to the "Man of My Life!" 3 years ago at 45 years of age. My husband was 51, and pursued me for quite a long time. This was a first marriage for both of us. He and his brother shared the family home all their lives , and title was to both. In 1992 my husband decided to take over the mortage, and his brother signed the home over in a "Quit Claim Deed". That was 18 yrs ago. I being married would think that this house would belong to the two of us, however...my brother -n-law still thinks it's his, and entitled to live here and destroy our relationship! He is a permanent fixture in our home, severe alcoholic and smoker, and a hoarder! Not only to mention...He's 1st stage diabetic, two bi-pass heart surgerys. I thought that I would be kind at first to let him stay...after all...he was nice back then. I am neat and a perfecfectionist. I am having problems with my Husband, as he believes everything fine...since I accepted him to stay-- I on the other hand thought he would get a clue and move on...apparently not.

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I hate mine as well. he is always looking at me as if i've stolen his brother from him. He never says hi or talk nicely to me.Each time my fiancee needs to come and meet me his brother hire his car or usually he leaves his kids with us. And my fiancee loves his brother so much that he does not see these things. Last time i've invited his family over dinner at my place. And i did mention that his brother was not invited but still in middle of dinner he show up. Left his wife and kids and went away. I really hate him
I am so disgusted to be related to my BIL. He is SUCH a selfish asshole. I can't even stand to be around him. Not only is he a self-centred ass, but he is disgusting to look at. He makes comments about losing weight and then comes home with Mcdonalds everyday. All he does is sit on the couch eating chips and drinking 2L bottles of pop. I wish I could punch him in his face. Ughhh I hate him.
i hate my brother in law can some one find him a life he is a drunk, he is the gayest,cant stay on two feet for nothing because it might make him man enough ,no one in the world can beat him with lying my husband and i let my father in law stay with him for fianacial resasons and my god thats not good enough i wish he was gone he good for nothing a waste and quite evil he is the anti christ my husband closed his bank account because he was always in it. my husband is so embarassed everyone pray for him his name is terry joe sanford and if you are looking for a big fat lying drunk with motives with everything he does he in houston tx.
I hate my brother in law..because he tried to be nice between me and my bf..as he know my dad like him and dont like my bf..he think he is the perfect man..he is greedy inside..he has money since he is with my sister..he said he is perfect. he said he is a son of the general..but his dad asking my dad money..fuckitttt..and my dad is such a blind..he sees all good thing in him. he think the world of him..i really hate him. my dad even offer a business class to dubai and a trip for my sis and him..fuck it..i dont think they both deserve it.. my brother in law, try to talk nice to my bf but behind my back he insult him that he is stink and he jealous him that my bf make more money than him..i hate him..hate hate him..i wish him die in the trip..or somebody shoot him
My Brother in law makes constant racial comments to me and ridicules my husband (his older more successful brother!). His Australian wife is a two faced lying nasty bitch who has made up stories about me, claiming I snubbed her and have been mean to her - nothing could be further from the truth. They even went so far as to turn my father in law SO against me that he started a fight with me the night before my wedding, calling me names, accusing me of all kinds of ridiculous things that haven't even happened. I REALLY hope Karma gets them. They have done their best to tear me down, ruin my relationship and reputation and make sure that I will never be accepted into 'their' family. F-ing HATE them.
The biggest loser on earth is my brother in law. He is an elitist with no money. Go figure. When he married my sister he had $800.000 from a law suit. That was around 10 years ago. He bought a $30,000 Corvette, a huge boat, and an airplane. All of which he has lost Today, he is losing their house, has filed for bankrupsy, and is constantly asking my sister for money. He is a drunk who is always quitting drinking, yet continues to drink. i wish he would get hit by a bus and be out of our family. Noone in the family can stand him. He does not deserve my sister, but she says he will fall apart if she divorces him. I wish she was stronger and would dump his sorry ass for good.
I love my wife but she has 3 brothers that all suck the big one. All are fully capable, non-handicapped grown men that can't do shit for themselves. I don't know what would happen to them if I didn't always give a lending hand to them. Their mom lives with me, and I don't mind that so much because she helps with my baby, but the brothers are ALWAYS LEECHING! WTF!!??!! Grow the fuck up and take care of yourselves!
If I didn't believe that, like Christ, we all have crosses to bear.. I would've dropped them a long time ago. LOSERS.
Hehe it made me feel better to read these rants - I try not to hate my bil but I wish he would go away..so mean to my sis and nephew. He's starting to yell at my mom now, who does nothing but help their little family with time, money, and even food. I know he will never leave, but will force our family away from our sister... he's even planning to move them to China! Ass.
I Can't stand my brother in law , he has lived in our house with his sister ( my wife) for almost 2 years, he has an anger problem and never admits when he is wrong , always thinks just because he goes to collage classes that he thinks he knows every fucking thing,..we already got into a fist fight over his b.s. and his sister ( my wife ) just can't see why our marrige is going downhill, ever since he moved in my wife and i have more arguments and is now taking his side with everything, he used to have a good paying job , but now he started on pot and all he wants to do all fucking day is play his guitar and mooch off me , we have told him that he needs to move out because we recently became parents , but since he is such a fucking loser with a anger complex problem it doesn't look like he's is leaving anytime soon,...all i want right now is for him to move his ass out of my house before he cause my wife and i to get a divorce !!!! what can i do about this guy ??
I really don't hate my wife's brother because he's probably mentally ill. It runs in their family. But after reading these threads full of hate, you probably only have yourself to blame. If you lay down, people will walk all over you.
i have TWO bro-in-laws that are just pitiful!!...the oldest is 33 yrs old and i HATE to see him come around!!!...he will literally BEG you for money EVERYTIME he see's you!!!...im like WTF do i look like a ATM!?!?!?....my other bro in law who is 25 and has NO JOB a wife and 3 kids......he hangs out on the street ALL DAY while his wife bust her ass to take care of their 3 kids.....then when you tell him you found a job for him....the loser makes up ANY and EVERY excuse as to why he cant work or why the job isn't the right one for him....on top of that my wife and i are moving soon and the 33yr old wants to MOVE in with us...cuz he's tired of being in the area he is living in.....I REFUSE TO DO THIS becuase in the end im the one who will end up supporting his ass....giving him money to eat and shit......HELL NO!!!......i just wish my wife and i could get the hell away from these low lives.....i am burnt out on them....I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE!!!!!!!
I hate my alcoholic brother in law. He is my husband's younger brother. We have financially helped him for 15 years, after his 2nd divorce! He cheated on his 1st wife with the 2nd wife! He has refused to pay child support for 2 of his 3 kids to teach his 2nd ex-wife a lesson! My husband is a wimp, who puts up with his brother's drunken, rude, ungrateful behavior toward us, as well. My BIL even punched my ex-military husband in the face and has even threatened to beat him, three times! He has lived with us for twelve years, as well. HE refuses to pay for any of the utilities for our garage apartment. He is rude and unappreciative of of all of the help we have given him! My BIL is an lying, weak, evil and vile male, who's not even a man! We've spent close to $20,000 helping him, and he's still an ungrateful asshole! In 12 years, since he's mooched off us, we've helped him 4 times when he's been in and out of the hospital with alcohol related illness and liver disease and he show no appreciation for it! He's even rude to our kids. I wish he would die!
I DETEST my insecure brother in law who's solely responsible for pushing my sister to feel jealous over me and become a competitor because he believes he wants to be the best. He is narcissistic, has a child by some1 else and they lie to our parents. He's always lying fabricating a life and jealous of anyone roses success when we as a family are happy for one another. He twitters how well he beats others at games and- he tries to win over our Nieces with petty lies boasting about himself. He's very childish and talks so loud across the table. Because he's tall he believes his bigger, he won't cone over to c us cos we have a better telly than him, he's a pathetic man who insults us all and no one does anything about it. He upsets others. My sister is better off without him. I wish him gone each day.....yes there should be a forum!
Oh and not to mention he always gives himself credit and ne'er to others who work hard, he's got to say 'oh I know someone whoa done all of it' just so he's on top of the conversation. He always decides he has the power over all- and we laugh at him. But it's breaking relationships and it's very sad.
I hate my boyfriends brother. I have done nothing to him but be the most friendly and caring person, but all he does is tease me, put me down and harass me. While I was at my bf's house tonight, he nastily pushed me because I was in his way. I was so shocked that he could push me around. AND, his father told him to drop me home tonight. This was probably the scariest experience of my life. He was dragging all over the road after a heavy down pour, speeding and talking off like crazy at red lights. He had the music pumped up so loud effectively droning me out. I should have yelled at hivm to pull over and walk home, but I was too scared. Too scared that he would again ridicule me for being a 'scardy cat'. The worst part is, my bf-whom I love very much-didn't do anything to stop the crazy car ride apart from saying, 'that drift was brutal.' As much as I love my boyfriend, I dont know if it is worth it-I have suffered too much from a pathetic lowlife who has no respect for the feelings of other people AT ALL.
I hate my brother in law. At first he seemed ok but then he started to change, interfering with people's lives and asking silly personal questions. He asks too many questions, and at the end of every answer there is a long "Whhhy?" oh fuck off! He asks me questions about my finances which is nothing to do with him. He asks me questions about my personal life. He wants to know EVERYTHING! What is worse is that my mum babysits their niece, and my niece is lovely but he has started treating my mum like a bit of shit, like an employer. The other day he gave me orders to help them take down the push chair, I'm not some expendable guy there for his conveinience. This is just the tip of the ice berg, he is down right rude all the time! He judged me for not having moved out yet, but he inherited a shit load of money, do despite his shitty job (which he sucks at) he can still afford life's little luxuries. He does not show any love to his daughter. He treats my sister like his slave! Everday when I get home from work they are picking up their daughter, and he always has something fucking stupid to say. My mum is on the verge of a mental breakdown, because he is mentally exhausting! If it weren't for my mum they would be paying babysitter rates, thus not being able to afford a child and a career so why the hostility? I'm looking for cheap rooms to rent, just so I don't have to see the guy. It is getting to the point, where I would cut my sister and my niece out of my life, because even though I love them, this guy is poison, a low life, a freak, a complete waste of human life. I'm nearly in tears typing this. My sister marrying this guy has RUINED MY LIFE!!! Oh and his life revolves around his comic books, never his daughter or my sister (his wife.), when is this wretch going to grow up?
fuking that cunt assholes,, i hope he go to hell, my mom lend him 100,000 for opening a retsaurant, it was like partner ship, and now he try to get the ownership thrught my sisters, and now hes the boss, yelling at me for stupid fuking reason that i didnt do well on the jobs, he only pays 2000 for my mom and dad a month, he said he will give my mom money back when he have enough money but its almost 1 years now, and he never pay back any money, he also try to kick me out of house for no reason, fuk that pussy go to hell, FUCK THAT MOTHER, BAD PEOPLE ALWAYS END UP MISERABLE
Wow, after hearing everyone bother in law confessions.....I feel much relief. Well I hate my brother-in-law because he is super cocky....hes 26 and still never moved out of his moms house. He has horrible credit and put his self in tons of debt, yet, still walks around like he's high and mighty. He tends to always stick his nose into our relationship, and always has something negative to say. He never calls or keeps in touch with his family and is the most selfish self centered person you will ever meet. Everything he does is to show off and he HAS TO BE the center of attention at all times.
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I hate my BIL his younger brother (my fionce) works for him but everytime he gets in a mood(hes 30 odd but throws strops like a teenager) he sacks my other half!! he ripps every1 off including ALL his family,customers,ebay,paypal. he constanly flirts with me and tries to playfight with me (when my fionce is not in the room) says sexual remarks about me to my fionce and everytime we say were gunna have a bit of couple time he shows up with his little shit of a son who is JUST like him, arrogant and rude. he never pays anyone including his brothers wage on time and claims hes always skint yet ALWAYS eating out buyin new cars and shopping with his horrible gf.Anything my fella gets he has to get something better and slaggs us off for having children, we have a 2 year old and 1 on the way both planned and we are in a fantastic relationship. my fionce is quitting soon as hes gunna end up in prision soon coz hes gunna kill him.oh and hes always tryin to get his brother to do scams with him(he wont coz hes not an asshole like him) wow i feel better...thanks!
I hate my sister in law.She has stole from us completely lied on me.When me and my wif seperated for 4 months she was playing a big part of keeping us from rekindling our relationship.She played both sides telling me one thing and telling my wife another.Always lying and stealing.The women has kids for Christ sake and won't get off her ass to take care of them and get a job.She won't even hardly take a bat she is so freaking nasty.The best thing she could do for herself is buy a gun and blow her head off she is not worth the air she breathes and I hate her and who she is and swear to God I hope she overdoses soon on those stupid painkillers.
My brother in law is a fucken idiot he is against me cause I called the cops on his perverted 14 year old son about 7 years ago when he molested my at the time 9 year old grand daughter.So we did'nt hear from him since that time the a few years later my brother in law came to our house and my husband got him a job working with him.My brother in law lives rent free in little room at the job just so he doesn't have to pay rent.And since hes been around he tells my other inlaws that I don't cook for my husband and that i'm trying to keep my husband from there family and this week my husband had vacation and my brother in law is supposed to be taking my husbands place well he calls my husband 2 or 3 times a day and when my husband doesn't answer the phone he tells the other inlaws that I don't let my husband pick up the phone he is such a jerk i wish he would tell me to my face some of the shit he says so I can beat him in the fucken nose. I told my husband if I tell his brother something and he gets in the middle of it he can just pack his things and go stay with his low life brother.But i think my husband knows what a jerk-off his brother is . It felt good to get this anger off my chest
I Cant stand my brother in law as well he is an alcoholic asshole who scares the shit out of my kids. Right now my husband and I and our 3 kids are living with my husbands mom until our house is ready unfortunaly my B-I-L lives with us he is 31 years old ( 3 years older then us ) and he still lives with his mom as well he can move out anytime he wants but he chooses not to he has lots and lots and lots of money but still here he stays. he drinks a 15 or more of canadian beer and he becomes the worlds biggest asshole when he does he yells at his mom he almost broke her arm 7 months ago he hurt my midldle daughter so my husband had it out with him he swears and yells all the time hes always pissed off at something and his mom lets him do what ever the fuck he wants she likes to suger coat everything "oh its not that bad or he didnt mean to do it" I hate that so much she just lets him get away with everything but when my husband and I tell her hey hes scaring the shit out of the kids with the yelling and fighting shes all like oh well they will get over it but today I made him cry because I told him I dont want him around our kids or playing with our kids or even looking at our kids and my mother in law got mad at me what the hell this whole house has fallen apart we used to be close but his drinking has gotten way out of hand and he cant controll him self the sad part is she cared when he got upset but she had NEVER cared when her grandchildren were upset and that is sad she can think what ever she wants about me or my husband thats fine I dont care about that but those are her grandchildren he trys to go after and she doesnt care. it sucks I wish he would stop drinking he is such an awesome guy when he is sober but the sad thing is there is less and less times when he is and soon there will probably be non and that is truely sad in its self.
I hate my brother in law. He's a two faced lying self centered back stabbing low life scum sucking greedy thief. This PRICK who was married to my sister until my sister passed away in 2001. I became my parents only living child. My father passed away while I was in another country. My father had control of my property and finanical/bank accounts. Before I could get on a flight. This cock sucker brainwashed my mother who is 81 years of age, got her to sign power of attorney. emptied my parents home. took my mother away, then became a conservitor over my mother. My mother didn't know she would no longer be in control of her life or assests. I lost everything also, It was a legal way to steal. I've had enough of this bullshit. I'm broke, pissed and tired and I'm planning to Kill my brother in law. I'm just waiting for my back ground check to clear on my firearm purchase. People who do this for financial gain and just because it's legal doesn't make it ok. In this case it just makes you dead.
i really am just looking for help and ran across this. I am soon to be wed, have known the hubby for 7 years, been dating for 1. I am lost i do not want to cause any family issues, however he talks bad about me to the family, this has been going on for some time now, but i just became aware of it. He is 30 living with a aunt never had a job but has a 6 yr old child. I do not really know what to do, do i let the wispers go on, or do i talk to the family, mind you have tried to talk to him however it did not help. I am in love and can not wait to be married but i dont know what to do about the family issues.
my future bil eats everything bt never buys anythin! he is conceited en has da nerve to complain to my bf dat i dnt cook for him fuck i dnt hav to do anything fr him! i dnt want anythng to do wit him! i hate how he demands things frm my bf! he thnks he is a god en shud b worshipd FUCK HIM! i hope he wud grow a dick on his forehead!
Well guys my brother in law tells his mum to take him out to buy birthday presents for his girlfriend. This fucking annoys me is because my mother in law is a hard worker and he is NOT HANDICAPP by any means. What a fucking tosser his all talk and no action seriously. Dont clean after his mess, has a shower with the door open. Takes a shit with the door open. Walks around the house with a pair of orange speedos when there's women in the house. I try and like him but I cant. His got that fucking stupid blank look when yo talk to him like his is unstable. Man what a waste man. Seriously the faster he fucks off out of the house the better my mother in law, mine and my wifes life will be. OH yeah i forgot to mention his 20 yrs old. CUNT!!!!!
Wow, I don't feel so alone after reading these. My brother in law (Trevor) is 32 years old, fat, lazy, rather un-intelligent, has very poor hygene, and is living off welfare because "having a job is too stressful". He always talks about wanting to get jobs, and has even had a few, but he gets fired for being lazy and rude within weeks of his hire. He's still living with his mom (has never been on his own), and takes everything for granted. My wife and I moved in with her mom as well since her husband (my wife's dad) died in February and Trevor is just too damn lazy to do anything around the house to help out.

He always demands people give him rides everywhere and then never even says thank you, just takes it for granted and gives you a whatever or an "eff off" in return for your assistance. He also demands that you drop him at the door or park up front since he hates walking anywhere. It's so hard not to laugh when you see him walk. He's so out of shape that he waddles like a penguin and takes these massive goofy steps to try and keep his balance. He's wanting to start using the old people carts some stores offer so he won't need to walk around anymore. He use to be in shape and was a soccer player for a while. He's just gotten fat and lazy by choice.

He never wants to eat what has been made for dinner since never eats vegitables or fruit ("they taste funny"). Unless it's meat, cheese or starch, he won't touch it. The acception is a pizza (tomato sauce). He orders a famliy size pepperoni pizza every other night and downs it in one sitting along with a 2-liter of Pepsi. I get so tired of someone making dinner and having him whine enough to where his mom will give in and go get him Jack in the Box or a bucket of fried chicken or a half dozen hot dogs from 7-Eleven. His ass could go without food for a month... he's not even close to starving. Yet she always caves in and buys him his junk food.

The thing I hate the most is that he always ruins/breaks stuff and leaves it for others to fix. The bathroom is always a mess as he just throws towels and wash clothson the floor. He pees all oveer the floor near the toilet and never cleans it up. He pulls toilet paper from the roll and leaving it attached to the roll, uses it and then flushes so now you have a trail of toilet paper going from the roll into the toilet. He just throws the soap dispenser and toothpaste tubes into the sink when he's done, and the other day he was getting out of the shower and pulled the shower head off the wall because he was hanging on it to try and get out (his dad had cancer and got a bath chair so now Trevor uses it so he can sit during his showers as it is too exhausting to stand for 15 minutes). He didn't tell anyone, just let the water run all down the wall.

He also uses WAYYYYY tooo much toilet paper and always clogs the toilets up. He then just leaves it for someone else to fix and if you bring it up he'll just tell you to piss off and slam the door shut. When he needs to use a toilet and one is still clogged, he just goes onto the next and proceeds to make a mess there.

About a month ago he jammed the vaccuum up because he tried to suck up a coin, paper clip, and a piece of paper because he didn't want to pick any of it up off the floor (can't bend over). His mom asked me to look at it and see if I could fix it. I ended up removing 2 coins, a paper clip, and the sharpie and three ballpoint pens he'd shoved in there to try and unjam it, but when one got stuck he just grabbed another pen and tried again... what a dumbass.

Last night as he was going to get the mail (my wife and I refuse to anymore as all he does is spend his welfare on laserdisks... (yes... the old discontinued technology he loves), and movies off Amazon). He shoved the door open hard because we refused to get his mail, and pulled the door right off the hinges. I told him to cool it and so he shoved it again and punched a hole in the wall.

He's pulled the garage door off its hinge, flooded the kitchen, punched holes in walls and doors, and lets his pug piss and crap everywhere and never tries to teach it otherwise (although now it's started doing it in his room... the other day it crapped on his pillow... that was the best day I've had in a while).

Also, he's very combative and is always trying to start fights. It does not matter what you say or do, he always has a dickhead comment to try and irritate you and make you fight. I so want to go off on him as I know I can be harsh enough to make him cry (done it before to two other adult men... I can be extremely verbally ruthless), but his mom and my wife always step in and I back down. One day though I'm going to lose it.

I'd love it if this asshole just committed suicide or got hit by a bus, or just dropped dead from a heart attack. Everyones lives would greatly improve (after the grieving process... which I'm sure would be short for all). He has only one friend (and Trevor is that guys only friend), and his mom has told me she doesn't like him. She does love him, but she does not like him as a person... how bad do you have to be before your own mom can't stand your sorry ass.

I can't wait till my wifes mom is doing better and we can move back out of here. Maybe we'll get a two room house and invite her to stay with us and kick this fat dumbass to the curb. I've never hated someone so much.
I can't stand by BIL. He's a holy roller that doesn't even go to church. He is a know it all that thinks he knows everything about parenting (he has no children) and tells me how to raise my kids - who are awesome. I kept my mouth shut for 7 years and then said - I've had enough. I told him to screw himself a year and a half ago and am now free of his idiocy. The only bad thing is that I hardly talk to my sister anymore because of it. I had to lose my sister in order to get rid of my BIL. Totally worth it.
ahhh man!!!! i hate so much my future brother in law.
he's a selfish person, only thinks of him and nothing more.
has made my family more appart than it was before, and his family also a bunch of crap.
i hate him so much, because i fight with my mom more often and just because he's my sister fiance.
ohhh but he thinks he's an angel and do nothing wrong, always acting in front of people and talking behind their backs. Conceited, selfish, arrogant and so cheap. This guy doesn't even offer anything to my sister, not house or car, my parents have already given them a home and of course my sister's car.
I CAN'T STAND THIS GUY ANYMORE!!!!
the good part is that he still doesn't know my sister very well sooo he's gonna be vert surprised when they marry.
My sister is like him soooo they deserve each other.
You know I can relate to some of these stories but I'm realizing in my situation that its the brother or the sister of the BIL, that's the problem. They need to learn to say no to their siblings and stop letting them f**k up their own family. destroying their credit , walk over the spouses or girlfriend. Stop putting your deadbeat BIL before your wife or husband.

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