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  • Well girl if ya man cheated like dat and you feelin somebody else then oh well do what you do and go for it.
  • That's not a crush, that's a so called "subconscious" decision to get back at a man for hurting you. When the truth is...he doesn't want you to begin with. If he did, he wouldn't have looked elsewhere for the same thing between your legs. My opinion...is to get on with your life and let God send you a man that will love you unconditionally. The way all of us women deserve. And yes, there are still men...black men out there like that.
  • Well I say that this only proves that you don't love him enough to want to try again and that your body is telling you other things like you want to get with your mans boy.
  • if he really loved you he wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place but 2 wrongs don't make a right
  • well girl you should cheat on your man because he cheated on you.hello get your thing with his best friend
  • I say leave them both alone. It can only cause confusion. Life will get back on track in a while.
  • It seems to me that you don't have feels for you boyfriend's best friend, but you are tryin to deeply put it in your mind that you do. All b/c he cheated on you and now you want to hurt him back by sleeping with his bestfriend.
  • do you! if he think that he is the only one the play them games then u can to fuck that nigga and listen to your heart
  • AND YOUR POINT IS???? YOU STATE YOUR PROBLEM THEN BLAME YOU BOYFRIEND. WHEN WILL YOU TAKE RESPONSIBLITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS. TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT, BUT IT MAKES A HELL OF A LEFT. YOU SHOULD HAVE LEFT YOUR BOYFRIEND!!!!!

  • You were looking for a replacement. Your boyfriend hurt you and thoughts of hurting him were on your mind and who better to hurt him with than his best friend?

    As long as you remain in the "thought" stages of his best friend and you being together, you're okay, but as soon as you try and take it elsewhere, you will open up a can of worms that will basically end up hurting you more.

    Not all the time is revenge that sweet...

    ~ SL ~
  • YOU SHOULD DO YOU THAT MAN WAS NOT THINKING OF YOU WHEN HE WAS DOING HIM IT'S TIME TO DO YOUR THING MOVE ON
  • yo, ol boy cheated on you and you are still with him, whats good with that? how many strikes are you going to give this man before you let him go, cause keeping him is only going to get worse. since you are still with him after he cheated on you well he will keep cheating on you cause he knows now that you aren't going anywhere, girl you betta do like me, i give a dude one time to fuck up and its over and move on to the next, its aiight girl YOU WILL LEARN, if not now, LATER. ~oNe
  • im a female but "i think" dudes won't care if an ex chick is passed around but it depends on the relationship level. yeah he cheated but baby gurl two wrongs don't make a right. If you stay with him and cheat then that means that he has some dirt to bring back up on you.i find it easyer not to cheat and make them feel guilty as hell or 2 just leave sweetie don't even waist your time...and if it's a crush on his friend i think you'll get over it soon cuz crushes don't last long
  • im from s.a. and boy does this story sound messed up. good luck to all parties!!
  • black/female age 20:girl, i don't know what to tell you becuz it's just funny how after your man cheats on you, you start liking his boy. You know u liked him b4 that shit went down. and that's cool but u can't u cant sleep or think about messin with him, cuz to wrongs don'y make a right,plus you don't want two niggas bestfriends at that talking about your stuff, cuz u know that ya man gonna find out, it only takes so long... But good luck girl and keep make the right decision.
  • i know exactly how you feel and its perfectly normal, your proberly feeling this way not because u want to get your boyfriend back for what hes done more because u want to feel close to someone and your boyfriends best mate seems like a person that wont do that on you
  • I think you should pursue the crush only if he tries to get at you first. It would be a bad situation to come on to him and he turns you down and tells your boyfriend what you did.
  • I'm in the same place right now, me and my boyfriend broke up recently after his best friend confessed he liked me (tho he was drunk) what hapend after his best friend ignores me, so I suggest that u make sure his best firnd is truly intrested in you and would like to presue a something with u, or this will happen to u. Alone! Lol good luck
  • im going through da same not sure what to do at the min i fink we are ova anywayz
  • umm well i know how you feel. I really like my boyfriends bestfriend but its just lust .. like seriously i would love to just makeout with him lol My boyfriend cheated on me too .. with his ex gf of 9 months. It hurt alot ... but yeah Doesnt mean you dont love your guy .. and doesnt mean he doesnt love you. Well it also depends on how long you were going out whenn he cheated. If it was like right away when the relationship started .. then meh. But if it was like when you were serious serious ... longterm then DUMP HIM. Dont go for the best friend tho .. trust me .. im trying not to bc i love my guy with all my heart and with his friend its just LUST
  • I don't know what to do i fucked my boyfriend that i have been with for 3 years BEST friend the other night and i i love have feeling for the both of them NOW......
  • cheating is difficult to work with. Pretty much people can't tell you what to do, there's way to many variables that people don't know. i cheated on my boyfriend with his best friend, and kept trying to forget about it. But everytime we were together without my man we kept doing it. I left my boyfriend and am now going out with his friend and nothing really happened.
    But like i said pretty much its up to you, follow your heart and your actions.
    good luck :D
  • go for it. My EX CHEATED ON ME SO I CHEATED ON HIM WITH HIS BEST FRIEND IT FELT SO GREAT . Only prolem is i fell for his friend but i know we can never be together
  • Well I just left my boyfriend for his best friend. Well now my best friend! It is the hardest thing i have ever had to do-i will take childbirth above the pain of the heart. well now i havent told him about the friend yet. I know he is suspecting it but never said anything. I do love him and cant wait for this nightmair to be over. We want to start our lives together but there is so much to deal with
  • this makes me not wanna trust woman n keep a closer eye on my best friend and my girlfriend. scandulous! i say!
  • First off, you're an idiot for staying with a man who cheated on you. Don't date men that are friends... Have some self respect. It's because of women like you, that good women get a bad rep. Grow up!
  • Oh my... Wow so i love my boyfriend 2 death. But his bestfriend is great in bed! N his bestfriend is willing 2 keep quiet! i have someone dat i love tremendously! N someone who will guarantee me a good bust!!
  • I have been dateing this girl for 15 months now and I have done some really bad things I let her best friend give me head but I didn't have feelings for her and then I broke up with her for another girl 2 times and I don't know why that was along time ago and she was ubsessed with me and I fept doing bad shit and now it is the other way around I'm ubsessed with her and won't cheat ever again but she treats me like shit now and it has been going on for the last 6 months and I won't let her go cause I know hopefully things will get better is there any ways I can get her to start likeing me again
  • You know what is the problem with you woman is that all of you cheat too!! Now you feel bad about it!!
  • i am in something like that too...but it wasnt that my boyfriend cheated on me...i did it while my boyfriend was in jail...Yeah his best friend.... its just so great!
  • know the feeling. go 4 it if ur convinced that u like him better then ur bf. and confront his bff about it and see if he likes you b4 u split with ur bf
  • THINK THAT NONE OF THIS CHAT OR TALK DEFINES WHAT IT IS TO BE A LADY OR TO BE FEMININE OR TO BE IN LOVE OR IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP......THERE IS NO LOVE MENTIONED ON THESE PAGES ONLY SEX....AND EVEN THAT SEX IS NOT CARRIED OUT IN INNOCENCE OR FUN OR FRIENDSHIP..THE WAY IT IS MEANT TO BE...HAVE SOME SELF RESPECT PEOPLE AND DIGNITY....AND LOVE ONE ANOTHER.....AND I AM NOT A PRACTISING CHRISTIAN....JUST A GOOD PERSON...XXXX
  • no matter what i will never date my boyfriend friend, l have my worth and dignity. thou it happen 2 me my boyfriend dump me for my bestfriend. it is painful.
  • is very wrong for you to sleep with your boyfriend bestfriend u have realy step so low in the eyes of your boyfriend and his friend.pls stop the relationship with his friend and control your emotions. from a friend ,vivianpretty2008@yahoo...com
  • Tell your boyfriend that you can't cope with him cheating and leave.
    Give it some time and if you still care about your boyfriend’s best friend then go for it. Otherwise, it’s a waste of time.
  • Tell your boyfriend it is wrong to cheat, and that he might still have a girlfriend if he hadn't cheated.. If he sez "but wait i can explain" say "talk to the booty coz the hn=ands off duty
  • Get With His Mate And Shag !!!!!!

    Your Boyfriend Is A Sheep Shagger And probably only
    cheated on you because you are rubbish at having sex
    i am a boy and if my girlfriend is rubbish at it i cheat and shag. i now have 6 children,i am only 16 my oldest is 6 and youngest 2 i love them to pieces but i still shag my girl friend she is 42 and she says if i ever get bad at she will rape me i love her to pieces as she used to be a man and She has penis i am gay and love it i now sleep with men who are looking for prostitutes but i olny do this when i have taking my ectasy
  • well im 16 and i slpt with my sisterz boyfriend i was drunk and it happend on new years eve it was so fucking good i no it was wrong but when his tongue when up my pussy ooh damn i wantd more and more the da he fuckd me on da sofa was pleasing he throw me on da sofa and startd drilling me it felt good so what cud i hav done n hez 23 n good fucking
  • Most likely your boyfriend won't be his best friend anymore if he finds out. You didn't say if he likes you too, if not then your bf still has his best friend. If your bf dumped you then you can think about the next step with his best friend. I would stay away from anybody who's associated with your ex altogether.
  • You should have sex with himmm
  • See that is ok to like ur bf best friend. First does he like you back???. is ur current boyfriend in love with u??. and did u start loving himas an act of revenge from ur current boyfriend???. i hope u answer ur self these questioons??. Also if u really love each other brake up with ur current bf and go with the other
  • I kinda have the same problem mines a crazy story so in high school i had a crush on this kid gary and he had one on me. i was too shy then and i always ran cuz i was scared so he finally gave up on me. I decided to go out with his best friend paul. i been dating paul for 3 sumthing years now. but right after high school i started having those same feelings for gary again. I can't seem to get him out of my head and a song instant reminds me of him. He and paul are best friends and he said he could never do that to his best friend but idk what to do these feelings wont go away. but when my boyfriends away at school and idk if its cuz im lonely but when my boyfriend comes home again i can't stand but only be with him and uncontrolabily love him. Idk what to do these feelings for gary keep coming back like its telling me something? can anyone help me? lol.
  • I have jus had to go through terrible pain...I'm still crying off and on...I was 2 months pregnant and in love with this lying bastard who tryed his hand with my friend...funny thing is we set his ass up....I beat him @ his own game....but it was a very painful feeling to find that out about a guy I wanted to trust....now I had to get an abortion and I really wanted to have our baby cuz I thought we were happy...but the pain was to unbareable to even consider being a family with this low life......what goes round comes around...you don't hurt the one you say you love....triflin fucks...in due time
  • So back in high school i had this crush on this guy and he had one on me. I never dated before so i was really shy and always ran from him. So he finally gave up and moved on and went out with somone else. then i decided to go out with his best friend instead cuz he was more like me never dated before and really sweet. So then when i graduated i started notice these feelings for gary were coming back to me again. I just think hes like th coolest guy & there for you when you need him. My boyfriend goes away to school.when my boyfriend comes home i love him uncontrolabily and just want to be with him and no one else. but lately these feelings for his best friend keep coming back to me and if a song comes on it reminds me of him. Its like these feelings never went a way. i finally told gary that i had feelings for him still, but he said he could never date me because he could never do that to his bestfriend paul. i can't seem to get him out of my head still and he has a girlfriend now. any suggestions what i should do. it sucks kinda.
  • okay bitch get a dman life. know how to use it. and try and know wat the fuckto do when yoru boyfriend fuckign cheats on you. thats fuckign wasting your damn time.
  • So, your boyfriend cheated on you and you haven't broken up with him? Madness. You can't just jump onto the next guy until you have offically ended your relationship with your "boyfriend" and it's his BEST FRIEND! You are going to be in deep shit as one - the best friend may not like you and this causes embarassment to not only you but to him (the one you supposingly like now).

    You need to slow down this rate. If your relationship wasn't handled in an effective way, then you just aren't ready for one as of yet. If you can't live without it, how are you going to live with it any better?
  • I was in the exact situation and i fked his bbf and you know it was fkn amazing true dat 2 wrongs dnt make a right but fk it follow your feelings you only live once bc someone that loves you wont go look somewere else for what he already has ... Have fun and dnt look back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • I dont recommend you sleep with his best friend. Take it from me i did it. It was fun not going to lie! But now i regret it...... My ex cheated on me and had a baby on me, we were together 6yrs and i tried working it out after a while I couldnt deal with it so i thought of a way to get back at him and having sex with his bestfriend was my solution. Alot more problems came after that. ended up dating his best friend secretly and falling in love and realized that he had nothing to offer me but god sex! My ex gave me everything and besides the fact that he made bad choices he was a great person ( That took me yrs to understand.) We started off very young we were 14 when we got together so we had alot of growing up to do. My problem now is that Its been 3yrs since we broke up and im still talking to his friend (SECRETLY)! I wanted for us to come out and tell everyone we're dating and he wont! He says he's just not ready like how much time do he need its been almost 3yrs. i kinda broke it to my ex that i liked his friend he wasnt too happy about that..... What im trying to say is that u may end up catching feelings and thats not such a good idea especially if u really wanna be with his friend and you have to keep your entire relationship a secret! I recently got a call frm my ex saying that he still love me regardless of my choices and that he wants to be my husband.... He's had time to mature were both 22 going on 23 this year. I want to be back with him and take things slow to get back in love like we were before but im stuck with having to tell him everything about his bestfriend.......... I dont want any secrets holding our relationship back. I have to break it to the both of them what i wanna do.... This is going to be hard! What im trying to tell u is dont make that decision unless u know most definitely that u dont wnat your relationship with your current boyfriend...... GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
  • Me and my boyfreind were hanging around from past 2 1\2 years..i love my guy very much..i met his bestfriend...my bf and his best friend used to live together in the same flat i used to come down there...regularly...slowly slowly my bf's frnd started loving me..as he was very much caring and my bf was not...i started feeling the same for him...though i never had a sex with my guy and his bestfreind...but still his frnd was best in loving making with me...when he used to open my bra and start sucking my nipples and squezees my boobs...kissing fondling...i feel like anything.this usually happens when i used to come to meet..my guy and suddenly his boss called to come down to the office urgent..then his best frnd and i where all alone.. my guy trust my best frnd and i very much thats why he often leave both of us alone he never come to know that we both are cheating him..i dont think whole fault is mine because my guy didn't satisfy my physical needs nad he was not all good in love making......
  • seriously girl don't listen to these people when they try and shove their moral banter down your throat because the problem you have here is about more than morals and requires more than the typical '2 wrongs don't make a right' answer.
    there could be a million and one reasons why you are beginning to feel this way. i read someone saying to you that its because your 'subconcsiously trying to revenge against him' or something along the lines of that. and, whilst that may be a possibility, there are a million other things that maybe possible too - like - what if you felt this way all along - and your boyfriend cheating on you was just a tipping point - something you needed to give your conscience authorization to start having these feelings? all im saying is, these people have given you answers that are too narrow-minded, and you wouldn't want to find yourself convinced into something, and then feeling regret.
  • If you cheat ion him... well your a fucken slutt, if u dont think this relationship will go anywhere break up with him and dont waste ethier of each others time but if your ganna cheat on him with his best friend, just cause he cheated on you or cause u got these brief feelings, then kill yourself cause that means your a slut..
  • I keep reading "2 wrongs don't make a right" but I never heard the girl say she's trying to make a right. I'm gonna tell you straight up that if you like the dude just do it. No need to feel any remorse... your ex didn't when he fucked some girl. I am in a worse spot than you... my ex girl cheated and while hanging with her best friend afterwards we ended up having a ton of fun together and eventually sleeping together. Her best friend is my cousins ex who I hate and fist fought. My cousin cheated on her and my ex cheated on me and me and my cousin hate each other so now me and this girl are talking. Totally fucked up but hey that's life sometimes. Do what ya feel like doing.
  • fuck that this is dirty as shit. you never fuck with the person you loves best friend. its fucking grimy, my love of 9 years just fucked my best friend. and im fucking devestated, my life is destroyed.They were my best friends. now there like dirt to me. they keep telling me how much they regret it. but if they really regretted it they wouldnt have spread her legs or taken down his fucking pants in the first place. if your thinking about fucking you significant others best friend. do the world a favor and kill yourself.
  • If this guy cheated on you, you need to break up with him. Obviously if you werent enough for him, he shouldnt be enough for you. I have been through this exact situation. I had some feelings for my boyfriends best friend but never acted on them because I though I was in love. Then he cheated on me with my best friend, so I broke up with him and his best friend was the one that was there for me and told me it would all be okay, and in the end we ended up together and have been for 6 years. So you need to take a risk because if you dont 20 years from now you will still be thinking what if.
  • OMG, I FEEL MUCH BETTER. i have a major thing for my bf's best friend. it started because i dreamed about him one night. and holy shit. i want him.

  • DEAR DONT DO IT.
    am in the same situation, dear. my boyfriend cheated on me i broke up with him and slept with his friend, the sex was good. but am already feeling guilty and unfair to my self. so unless u really luv this guy then do it but if its for revenge dont.
  • Your best out is to leave your boyfriend.Because when he cheated on you,that shows that he does not respect you and apparently he does not care for you.If he did,he wouldn't have done it.As for his bestfriend,leave it alone.Its not worth your dignity and morals."Everything that looks good to you,isn't good for you."
  • i did it too... I heard in the lines about moral issues, yes its easy to say that because they arent the one suffering... Im in the same situation... I try to be the best for him yet he still cheated me when his ex comes back, we're still together but i dont know if i still luv him coz evrytime i think about it, i wanna kill them both, then his bestfrend came and i found him the comfort that my man didnt gave me so we had sex and now i want to be free, not to go with his bestfriend but to be living my life without him but the problem is our child who is in the middle... Woman's heart are really weak specially when she needed comfort...
  • I was with this guy for about a year and I found out he had sex with 2 different girls (from what I know of) possibly more. I broke up with him and then after a few days of my not talking to him he started calling and texting saying he was sorry and that he was gonna change his ways and blah blah. So we started talking again but he didn't want a relationship? SO we were just talking and then one of his friends started trying to get at me, he is soo sweet and reminds me of channing tatum :P but he treats me good and we've hung out once. But in the back of my mind I feel terrible. What do I do??
  • Same boat... I say fuck him. My bf`s homeboy is the shit and he`s younger so i know i can turn his lil ass out. He been on my mind for a month now and shit crazy cuz he was bout to holla at me til i told him who i was. We still flirted and he walked me to the bus stop. Dat nigga made me smile in a way my bf haven`t made me smile in a long time and mine aint even cheat on me im jus becoming miserable with his ass.
  • So I been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs and hes never cheated on me but I have the biggest crush on his friend and hes also given me signs he likes me but he has a girlfriend and shes my friend but secretly we would like to just have one kiss withought telling them and I cant stop thinking of him what should I do?
  • I don't think its a good idea, I've dated my boyfriend for a year then he broke up with me to be with his ex, I was so confused all I thought about was him, and I usually see him for sexual purposes especially if am intoxicated and one night I was leaving a party and wanted to see him but couldn't get him on the phone, and ran into his best friend that night his friend came home with me and it just happened, the bad part about this is his friend and I used to be real cool but now he don't call me or nothing if I go around them he acts like nothing ever happen ....worst part is I cud never sleep with my ex again I have no feelings for him but I have a little for his friend....but my ex is acting like am playing him out so now u see y u should never cross those lines.

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