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Sent to a friend[182] My Boyfriends - Best friend
I have the biggest crush on my boyfriends best friend. I often think about him when I masturbate. >_< It started shortly after my boyfriend cheated on me.Rating:2.67
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- Well girl if ya man cheated like dat and you feelin somebody else then oh well do what you do and go for it.
- That's not a crush, that's a so called "subconscious" decision to get back at a man for hurting you. When the truth is...he doesn't want you to begin with. If he did, he wouldn't have looked elsewhere for the same thing between your legs. My opinion...is to get on with your life and let God send you a man that will love you unconditionally. The way all of us women deserve. And yes, there are still men...black men out there like that.
- Well I say that this only proves that you don't love him enough to want to try again and that your body is telling you other things like you want to get with your mans boy.
- if he really loved you he wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place but 2 wrongs don't make a right
- well girl you should cheat on your man because he cheated on you.hello get your thing with his best friend
- I say leave them both alone. It can only cause confusion. Life will get back on track in a while.
- It seems to me that you don't have feels for you boyfriend's best friend, but you are tryin to deeply put it in your mind that you do. All b/c he cheated on you and now you want to hurt him back by sleeping with his bestfriend.
- do you! if he think that he is the only one the play them games then u can to fuck that nigga and listen to your heart
- AND YOUR POINT IS???? YOU STATE YOUR PROBLEM THEN BLAME YOU BOYFRIEND. WHEN WILL YOU TAKE RESPONSIBLITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS. TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT, BUT IT MAKES A HELL OF A LEFT. YOU SHOULD HAVE LEFT YOUR BOYFRIEND!!!!!
You were looking for a replacement. Your boyfriend hurt you and thoughts of hurting him were on your mind and who better to hurt him with than his best friend?
As long as you remain in the "thought" stages of his best friend and you being together, you're okay, but as soon as you try and take it elsewhere, you will open up a can of worms that will basically end up hurting you more.
Not all the time is revenge that sweet...
~ SL ~- YOU SHOULD DO YOU THAT MAN WAS NOT THINKING OF YOU WHEN HE WAS DOING HIM IT'S TIME TO DO YOUR THING MOVE ON
- yo, ol boy cheated on you and you are still with him, whats good with that? how many strikes are you going to give this man before you let him go, cause keeping him is only going to get worse. since you are still with him after he cheated on you well he will keep cheating on you cause he knows now that you aren't going anywhere, girl you betta do like me, i give a dude one time to fuck up and its over and move on to the next, its aiight girl YOU WILL LEARN, if not now, LATER. ~oNe
- im a female but "i think" dudes won't care if an ex chick is passed around but it depends on the relationship level. yeah he cheated but baby gurl two wrongs don't make a right. If you stay with him and cheat then that means that he has some dirt to bring back up on you.i find it easyer not to cheat and make them feel guilty as hell or 2 just leave sweetie don't even waist your time...and if it's a crush on his friend i think you'll get over it soon cuz crushes don't last long
- im from s.a. and boy does this story sound messed up. good luck to all parties!!
- black/female age 20:girl, i don't know what to tell you becuz it's just funny how after your man cheats on you, you start liking his boy. You know u liked him b4 that shit went down. and that's cool but u can't u cant sleep or think about messin with him, cuz to wrongs don'y make a right,plus you don't want two niggas bestfriends at that talking about your stuff, cuz u know that ya man gonna find out, it only takes so long... But good luck girl and keep make the right decision.
- i know exactly how you feel and its perfectly normal, your proberly feeling this way not because u want to get your boyfriend back for what hes done more because u want to feel close to someone and your boyfriends best mate seems like a person that wont do that on you
- I think you should pursue the crush only if he tries to get at you first. It would be a bad situation to come on to him and he turns you down and tells your boyfriend what you did.
- I'm in the same place right now, me and my boyfriend broke up recently after his best friend confessed he liked me (tho he was drunk) what hapend after his best friend ignores me, so I suggest that u make sure his best firnd is truly intrested in you and would like to presue a something with u, or this will happen to u. Alone! Lol good luck
- im going through da same not sure what to do at the min i fink we are ova anywayz
- umm well i know how you feel. I really like my boyfriends bestfriend but its just lust .. like seriously i would love to just makeout with him lol My boyfriend cheated on me too .. with his ex gf of 9 months. It hurt alot ... but yeah Doesnt mean you dont love your guy .. and doesnt mean he doesnt love you. Well it also depends on how long you were going out whenn he cheated. If it was like right away when the relationship started .. then meh. But if it was like when you were serious serious ... longterm then DUMP HIM. Dont go for the best friend tho .. trust me .. im trying not to bc i love my guy with all my heart and with his friend its just LUST
- I don't know what to do i fucked my boyfriend that i have been with for 3 years BEST friend the other night and i i love have feeling for the both of them NOW......
- cheating is difficult to work with. Pretty much people can't tell you what to do, there's way to many variables that people don't know. i cheated on my boyfriend with his best friend, and kept trying to forget about it. But everytime we were together without my man we kept doing it. I left my boyfriend and am now going out with his friend and nothing really happened.
But like i said pretty much its up to you, follow your heart and your actions.
good luck :D - go for it. My EX CHEATED ON ME SO I CHEATED ON HIM WITH HIS BEST FRIEND IT FELT SO GREAT . Only prolem is i fell for his friend but i know we can never be together
- Well I just left my boyfriend for his best friend. Well now my best friend! It is the hardest thing i have ever had to do-i will take childbirth above the pain of the heart. well now i havent told him about the friend yet. I know he is suspecting it but never said anything. I do love him and cant wait for this nightmair to be over. We want to start our lives together but there is so much to deal with
- this makes me not wanna trust woman n keep a closer eye on my best friend and my girlfriend. scandulous! i say!
- First off, you're an idiot for staying with a man who cheated on you. Don't date men that are friends... Have some self respect. It's because of women like you, that good women get a bad rep. Grow up!
- Oh my... Wow so i love my boyfriend 2 death. But his bestfriend is great in bed! N his bestfriend is willing 2 keep quiet! i have someone dat i love tremendously! N someone who will guarantee me a good bust!!
- I have been dateing this girl for 15 months now and I have done some really bad things I let her best friend give me head but I didn't have feelings for her and then I broke up with her for another girl 2 times and I don't know why that was along time ago and she was ubsessed with me and I fept doing bad shit and now it is the other way around I'm ubsessed with her and won't cheat ever again but she treats me like shit now and it has been going on for the last 6 months and I won't let her go cause I know hopefully things will get better is there any ways I can get her to start likeing me again
- You know what is the problem with you woman is that all of you cheat too!! Now you feel bad about it!!
- i am in something like that too...but it wasnt that my boyfriend cheated on me...i did it while my boyfriend was in jail...Yeah his best friend.... its just so great!