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Sent to a friend Yes the man I love and who raise me has been cheating on Mom. I'm angry and hurt at this moment. Still I must tell my mom the truth. She will be devasted. Damn you dad!!Rating:3.67
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- I don't know what to say. Something like this can destroy a family. Still the truth must come out.
- I feel that you need to speak with your father first of all. If you are an adult, youshould understand that these are adult issues, parents or not. It is notreally your business. If you were married and happened to cheat on your husband would you feel comfortable finding out that your daughter or son told on you without even confronting you for your side of the sroty. Wrong, he is for cheating on your mother, but you do not the whole of it and should speak with him first. If he seems truly defiant against telling your mother than wait a week and see if he has spilled the beans if not, at that point, you can see he is truly being deceitful, to both of you and should be tunred in and reprimanded
- you gotta do wat you gotta do
- Talk to your father 1st if you really love your mother.
- Do not tell your mother! That would only hurt her feelings. Talk to your dad and tell him to stop. If he does, then she never has to know and his punishment will be living with the guilt forever. Fair's fair.
- beleive me......if you're grown.....It has been going on for years.....and she probably already knows......and believe it or not...she will "blame" you for the heartache and sorrow that will follow...it's best to confront him.....also....how do you know he is cheating?...did you see him making love to this "other" woman or did you get the "word" from a friend...be mindful of spiteful people......TALK TO HIM FIRST.........CONFRONT HIM!
- What makes you think that your mother doesnt know??? Stay out of it, allow married people to handle their own affairs.
- i say stay out of it... plus she may already... if u must say something, say it to him!
- it seems to me that your problem was my problem once before. My dad had cheated on my mom and i knew all a lone but to behonest with you i kept my mouth sealed because i did not wont neither of my parents mad at me but my mom did ask me questions about my dad and there relationship but i just told my mom i did not know anything but when my mom did find out it was over they split and got a divorce and just start to see other people so you do what feel that is confortable
How do you know that your father cheated on your mother? Did you catch him in the act or did you see him coming from somewhere with the other woman, or what exactly?
You can't ASSume that something has happened unless you have concrete proof that it did. If you tell your mother, YOU have to be prepared for the fallout and possible split in the family. Are you prepared to carry that burden?
Try going to him with your suspicions and see what he has to say. If you KNOW what you're talking about, don't let him talk you out of it or make you think that you're "crazy."
Knowing that you know or suspect something could be the thing that makes him stop or go ahead and come clean with your mother about it, and that will spare you the agony of having told her and caused her pain.
~ SL ~- I know this feeling ALL to well.. it hurts.. hurts like hell.. I don't think parents know how much it hurts the children..even the adult kids
- The burden shouldn't be on the daughter/ son they are doing nothing wrong by letting his/her m other know the truth. I think the mother would be hurt more to know that they knew and allowed it to continue. Also with so many diseases out there... I would tell her. She could end up w/ aids from your cheating father and you will never forgive yourself.... in my opinion.
- try asking her in a conversation how their relationship is. It may open a less hurtful doorway to conversation. If she honestly doesnt know, she'll have to be told. Its not right to allow his dishonesty to continue. As for the previous comments, it is indeed your business because it is your family. A family is supposed to be a single unit, not a couple with kids.
- If you know where he goes with his whore you should just take a ride with your mom and let her see if for her self and act surpised to.How would you feel if someone you loved and spent alot of years with was doing that behind your back and someone knew and didn't tell you