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Sent to a friend Yes I'm living off my girlfriend. I have no money and not plan on ever working. Broke ass brother believe me.Rating:2.73
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- aint nothing wrong with living wit ya girl--as long as you trying to do right by her and better yaself which does not sound like the case. you need to get off ya sorry ass before you end up on the street. how long you think she gonna allow a grown ass man to lay up in her home rent free stankin up the place?get a job and a life
- Your girlfriend needs to be a stronger woman and leave your broke ass alone cause obviously if you don't have a job she don't need your lazy ass straight up.
- Being a brother in this white man's world. You should honestly want more for yourself. I don't believe either you or the woman that takes care of you have any love for yourselves. Because if you did, you would want more for yourself as a man. She doesn't love her self because she feels she has to pay for a man's dick. That's all she's paying for...it sure isn't for your love. So I hope she feels that her situation with you is what she's worth. And you are one of many men in our generation that have lost what is important, what is morally correct, and what your worth is as well along the way. God help you brother.
- look do what u do. Looks like yo girl really cares for u. But if it was me yo brake ass would be out on da street. GET YO ASS A DAMN JOB NIGGA!!!!!!!!!
- first of all u triflin.....second you stupid....third you dumb as hell......no woman in her right mind, especially a black woman gone take no dead beat negro OK, get yo act together before she wises up and sends you packin playa......
- First of all, this cycle will end because it will get old for you and your girl. You will come to the realization that you have nothing but the clothes on your back and that's it. Everytime you go from woman to woman and you leave because she is tired of taking care of you and kicks you out. So what, you will find another crazy woman to do the same thing. But in actuality, you are the one cheating yourself because what are you truly gaining? Always remember when you give nothing, you get nothing and end up never having nothing to call your own.
There are three types of people in this world, blamers, slackers and doers. Why don't you try being a doer so that you can take care of yourself and not look for someone to take care of you.
Food for thought Mr. Man. - Damn..you think are a king. Meanwhile, your girlfriend is not stacked like Oprah. And yet still, Stedman works. Get up and contribute man. Don't be that black man that black women talk about.
- Time stands still for no one, so your broke ass needs to wake up. Get a job and become a productive citizen. I tell ya kids today are lazy.
- You need to get you a job and quit being lazy. No girls likes a man with no money and sooner or later your girl will get fed up with it.
- that`s sad just proves niggaz can be golddiggers
- YOU MUST BE YOUNG NOW, BUT ONE DAY YOU WILL BE OLD. THEN YOU WILL BE THE ONE PAYING FOR SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU. BELEIVE ME WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND QUICKER THAN YOU MIGHT THINK. WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?
YOU ARE MR. PITIFUL. SO SAD, JUST SO SAD. - first of all GET YO BROKE ASS A JOB NOW! CUZ AIN'T NO WAY NO GROWN AS MAN GONE STAY IN MY HOUSE FOR FREE YOU BETTA GO WORK AT McDONALDS FOR ALL I CARE GET YOUR BROKE ASS UP IN GET N-E JOB DAT GOT MONEY
- You are one trifling ass, lazy man and the epitome of the stereotype that black men ain't shit, they lay around, screw all day, smoke weed, makes babies they can't take care of because they DONT WORK. Git off yo lazy, funky, stank ass and head up to McDonalds ASAP. No, not for a big mac you lazy bum! FOR A COTDAMN JOB!
- you need to get your lazy ass up and get a job i have a baby and my boyfriend wont even work and my baby needs food how do you think i feel i try to babysit other kids including my 8month old baby for some money.so at least try....
- First of all I want to comment on one of you. that said it is a white mans world. WRONG ! People like you that makes comments like that racism will never go away. so stop falling back on that .. Second thing is If you are going to make comments on the site please type correct English.
- Well she's stupid for keeping you, but that's her choice. I would take advantage of this situation to better myself and then pay her back by supporting her or at least pay it forward. It's is rare that you will find someone to take care of your grown azz. Once you grow up (if that ever happens), you will want to better yourself, but by then she prolly would have caught on and kicked you out. Then you will have to do what alot of people do, improve their lives all on their own.
- IT SEEMS SO STRANGE TO ME, BUT HAVE YOU EVER NOTICED THAT OF ALL THE CONFESSIONS. THE MONEY CONFESSIONS HAVE THE FEWEST CONFESSIONS. I GUESS THERE ARE JUST SOME THINGS WE REALLY DO KEEP ALL TO OURSELVES.
Well, I hope you have another naive woman waiting in the wings once this one has grown tired of you and moved on and trust me, the day and time will come when she has had her fill and you will find your penniless, no plans of working behind out the door.
You said that as if it was something to be proud of. Lazy, no account men like you are the reason that decent, hardworking brothers still get lumped into the basket with y'all.
I really hope you posted this for 'shock value,' otherwise some mother is clueless as to the trifling son she has raised.
~ SL ~- Well if you're living off of her and she allows it you deserve each other. 'Nuff said.
- You should be ashamed to say that you don't plan on trying to do better. Your girlfriend is an ass for letting you get away with it. So maybe you two suit each other.
- one word for you, 'SCUM'
- if she dumb enough to take care of him then she deserves what she gets. Hell aint no way I'm gonna take care of no grown ass man. She letting him sit at home with no job nor money that shit is on her. SHe dumb for letting him be like thatBut my dude you wrong for using her as well. Karma is a mofo.
you reap what you sow. - FIRST OFF YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS DUMB ASS HELL.................BUT I TAKE THAT BACK BECUZ IT JUST MIGHT BE THE LOVE. BUT I WISH I CAN GIVE HER ADVICE TO LEAVE YO DEAD BEAT LOW DOWN ASS................. THATZ GOOD SHE'S TRYING TO HELP U OUT BUT WHY ARE YOU BRAGGING ONLINE ABOUT IT?????????
- LOL..... hey if she wanna support yo sorry azz, i cant blame you, I GIVE U DAP on that 1
its ha stupid azz i'm laughing at
but in reality i still would have issues wit u too.... its brothas like u that HELP bring down the state of us black folks, the ones trying to come up and show improve on the quality of life 4 us all...... - COME ON YAWL NO SHE A WHITE GIRL CAUSE AINT NO REALLL SISTA GONA BE THAT DAM STUPID. AND AS FOR THE MONEY MUCHING NEGRO I WOULD CALL YA MAMA,TYRONE OR SOME DAM BODY CAUSE U WOULD BE OUT MY SHIT. PRONTO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- Go back home to your momma and learn to grow up in a man's world.
- To me it seems as if you want someone to take care of you like your mama does. The relationship is supposed to be 50/50 not completely on her. You should feel like shyt for even comin on here and lettin it be know that your basically another statistic. But thats all on her if she wants ta play ya mama then let her, but I'll be damned if I sit up and take care of a grown ass man thats just ridiculous!!
- hell yea thatz what im doing...
- u need a job! she's not gonna tolerate you not having a job forever. i should know. i've had a guy live off of me! its not fun to do all the work then have someone else spend ur hard earned money!
- well if she dont have a problem with it keep doin what u doin. but there is a possibilty she will get tired of it and leave and if she does u wont have anything. so the best thing would be 2 get some money of your own
- HEY PILE OF SHYT you're the type of nothing that fathers and mothers warned us about. You have the nerve to get online and brag that you ain't shyt. Ya girl must have low-self esteem or are you violent? You know you don't hold the right to call yourself a man, right? I bet you sit your stank ass at home all day chillin with the boys while she works, AIN'T GOT shyt to contribute to nothing. Most men want more for themselves. All the men I know has said that a man is one who takes care of his business in every sense of the word. your punk ass don't know shyt about being a man.You're a lil boy trap in a man's body. If.. If... If..if i was that girl i would send yo nothing ass to the far side of THE FUK AWAY FROM ME. YOU GIVE MEN OF ALL RACES A BAD NAME. YOU DESERVE THE INVISIBLE I AIN'T SHYT,AIN'T EVER GONE BE SHYT SCUM AWARD!
- Black women are taking care of GROWN BOYS TOO! Women need to stop accepting sex and the presence of a man as "paid in full" and start demanding they come CORRECT and with SOMETHING positive to help grow a healthy relationship. If a man isn't holding down a FULL-TIME JOB or part-time and in College, he hasn't begun the journey into manhood and is in search of a seconary mother(a woman willing to takeover a momma's positive with sex benefits) If children are involved both persons are leading by example and sadly there's a great possibility they'll accept the same fate. Get a job, earn something... it feels great! It's a sad and lonely world when you're an old man/woman with nothing to show for the life you lived. Valuable time wasted. I used to work with the elderly and listened, as many of them spoke of regret.
Mr. Broke ass, she doesn't love you and you don't love her, because you both would want better for each other and expect more. I would like to know what inspired you to want to live like that, perhaps your break-down can help save some future broke ass brothers? Enlighten us... I know you have the time.
signed
So sad to witness a black man stunt his own growth. - This is some crazy -----! My daughter is doing this.
She just grad college. She's extremely smart ,beautiful, tall gets asked if she models. She has BA in Psycology???What? YEAH! so why is she so crazy?.
She married a bomb who was looking for a meal ticket out of a small town and he found one. They had a baby real quick and now HER life/job has taken them across country. HE stays home bathes and combs the baby's hair. Has never had a job for more than a month before he's hurt or sick.He's a sorry, no balls A-- Ni----. I keep it real with her because we are only 16 years apart so I can relate. I have to bite my lip to keep peace. Any man I mean any BOY who's looking for a Moma need to get back with his own. Ladies wake up! Real Men where you at?? Yall help me pray :-( - I was in the same situation, they all have good talk and even good sex but one thing I learned they will never get off the pot if you don't kick him off. This is very recent in my life and carrying this grown ass man broke me down,. I almost lost my mind dealing with the lazy ass nigger and besides he was a crack addict... Get rid of him he will never leave if you don't
- Well do ya thang kuz if ya grl dumb enough to let u do it take advantage of it kuz shit I aint gon lie I would
- you all are so right and smart. i am the dumbass putting upwith this guys shit, for what? fear of being alone i suspect. he complains the tenderloin is too...he has to thinnk whats wrong with it and comes up with...tastes funny? because there is nothing wrong with it, i could write a book on negative feedback thanks to this idiot.
- Significant others help each other through hard times. Help each other does not include mooching. If you don't carry your own weight, how can she depend on you for anything else?
Get a plan and get hustling before she decides your time is up. - Get a real man that would at least try to get a job and take care of business at home!!
- my daughters father tried that shit and got away with it for 3 months then one day i looked him in the face n said u are a loser, dont shower and accomplish nothing peace out!! we were a biracial couple... me white n him black now he got some other sorry white gurl to do it ha ha jokes on here aint no woman got to deal with a skum bag loser... i got me a real man now who works, cooks and cleans, and still has time to fuk me right!!!!!! there are real ones out there
- Way to go negro. Typical. You wonder why whitey's hate the darkies
- YOU GIVE BLACK MEN A BAD NAME. I'M SO ASHAMED OF WHAT SOME OF US HAVE BECOME.
- YES I KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO HAVE A SORRY ASS MAN LEAVING IN YOUR HOME. I MARRIED ONE HE HAS NOT DID ANY KIND OF WORK FOR 3 YAERS. I USED TO NUT UP ON HIM TO MAKE HIM GET OFF OF HIS SORRY ASS BUT NOW ALL I WANT HIM TO DO IS GET IS SORRY ASS OUT OF MY HOUSE. I AM REALLY FED UP. YES SHE WILL GET TIRED OF HIS ASS TRUST THAT.
- i went thru da same thing wit a lazy 30 yr old living off a me n my palce an i was 22 now 24,now he bak at him momma house and im soo much betta off and happy,i busted my ass an barely made it an he didnt do nutin but watch me,i got fed up wit it finally,so trust me she will get fed up an maybe even cheat
- what do you do when that nothing ass won't leave?
- I think is not correct to say that white women will take care of black man sisters rock like that to. but me personally I want my women to be able to say he stands on his two feet like a man, Because if the women is supporting a man she might use that as a means of controll and then she become the women with the boy. See some dudes stunt u see them driving her, living in her house some people see that ass a hustle some see it ass a bum but if a sister is the provider and she aint calling the shots that nigga must be doing somethink right. I speak for all blackmen wwith goals were I say get a job nigga if it aint enought get a hustle, and when I say hustle dont take that out of context like im saying drugs or what ever im saying sell dvds cd some thing if you aint making enough money get a second job go to school college an investment. work hard and be the men that socierty really dont want us to be, but sister you got to take it easy on some of us alot of us never had fathers so we dont know how to be mean to some degree
- I would be so depressed if I were you. Are you good looking, you can look for an agent to be a model or something. How long will your girlfriend expect to support you ? Get a job at MacDonald's at least. Good luck !!!
- You know I get so tired of Black men who lives with their girlfriend's say I am helping out, I mowe the lawn, I do cook and clean. But what they fail to realize is they are not helping financially. They think just because they are doing some damn house work that they are doing something. I am so tired of Black men not wanting to get off their ASS. When you tell them to go they say no, I don't have to leave, I do contribute, yeah contribute with giving grief and not assisting financially. This society is already in a recession, as the person stated earlier, get a job at McDonald's or Wendy's. Why do they feel they are too good to work at these places. They are some trifling men who only wnat someone to take care of them. I wish they would go back to their damn Momma
- Do you expect someone to feel sorry for you ? Go find a job for peace sake. Your girlfriend must have a heart of gold for supporting you, but for how long ?
- I know a person who does the same, but sometimes Its not about just being lazy, maybe this persons got to many issues and prob never quite grasped the idea of how the world works?
- I put up with this bull and it drained the hell out of me .this was my childs father he was an fucking bum he would have the nerve to bring his bum ass family to me and my daughters house until I got feed up tried to call me selfish and I was a bitch but now he's down south with a new dumb ass grl not supporting his child I'm happy to report I'm looking better than ever have money and I'm engaged since leaving this triflin bitch ass alone!
- This man never had a daddy that loved him and his mama is a crack whore and all his children will be crack whores and fucking other men in the pen. Its funny because he thinks he's getting over on the white girl. I say this is the white mans dream..to keep you uneducated, stupid, broke and forever dependant on white people. You are a product of the ghetto mentality and the rao music you listen to makes you think its cool. This is the perfect example of how you still craved to be enslaved to white people and even brag about it. Wake up young man and "GET OUT OF THE MATRIX"
- get her for all she got, cause they'll do the same thing....
- yo nigga do ya thing
- For all the BLACK men that have this thing about using a woman to lazy up, either by hoeing them out, or there womans the only one just working or keeping a bunch of diffrent girls yall to live off of can kiss my *ss. Im a white woman with the biracial children and from my experience yall are a bunch of mommas boys, get off the tit. Boys is the key word. Not a man who works and supports your family but boys.
- I remember seeing an article, of a woman who got fed up of their boyfriend sitting on their ass playing the PS3, that she went and completely smashed up his PC right infront of him.
Just saying... - First of all no! A real woman won't do the same! A real woman prefers to depend on herself which is exactly what a man wants for himself. Every one wants to get down on her, but you know there is nothing wrong with looking out for someone you care for, but you need to reciprocate. Do you have kids? How will you feel when a so-called man does your daughter like that, then to add insult to injury blasts his ignorance across the web? People can say what they want color has nothing to do with a woman being blinded by love, and that comment is about as ignorant as your actions! I feel very sorry for the both of you, because yea she probably does have low self esteem, and you definitely do too! You should both push the other to care more for yourselves. When your woman looks dumb...brother you look dumb and vice versa! Grow up and BE A MAN! Just because you can get away with something does not mean you should do it, sh*t they got away with 9/11 are you going to say well since they pulled it off that's what all those people get? Come on now! She will get sick of you baby it may not be this week or even this year but it's bound to happen......a woman can only take so much for so long you best hope you are lucky enough to walk out of that relationship with at least the garbage you brought with your sorry tail, because I am quite sure you did not walk into it telling this poor woman hey I'm a jerk I don't do anything, but I have some good dick wanna be my chick? You are a sorry excuse for a man, and an even worse role model for our kids!! She will want some restitution, and she may just take her payment out of your ass! and you would be mad but as you've been told karma is a BITCH!!! BELIEVE IT!!
April 10, 2010 - I have someone living off me now. I have 3 sons to feed. I may be losing my job. My ex husband lived off me for 13 years. Now a new man who will do nothing to help me.....I am truly a colored girl who considers suicide cause the rainbow aint enuff........
- you're just being a typical black man. nothing surprising here....NEXT!