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Sent to a friend I'm in love with a guy from online. We've known each other for 3 years and we've never met nor spoke on the phone.....is this normal?Rating:4.00
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- No, it's not normal. Is he aware of your feelings? Why haven't you meet? Is he married? Involved? Not feeling you on that level?
- yeah we love each other but he lives wit his baby momma but he'll be movin out here wit me in sept. im so scared
- Well I'm wondering how can you fall for someone and have never heard his voice before? As far as you know this he could be a she. Believe me people play games online sadly.
- Truthfuly i've been in the same boat, it's really your body crying out for attention and the first man that gives you that attention you fall in love with, i've written many inmates who claimed they wanted to marry me and they never met me, but I was scared so i didn't do it, online love is just that, a figment of our imagination and it's a mind game we play because we are so lonely.
- I have realize the internet is a fantasy zone for many people. We all have said stuff online and truly didn't mean it. I also have fallen in love with men online.
- girl that is not normal thats just plan old sick.
- I fell in love with a man from internet date. I went to see him and met his family (which are wonderful). He can back with me for 2 week and we are in love. It can work. Good luck.
- I Think It Can Go Two Ways....Its Normal When Yall Talk On The Internet N Then Meet Each Other But Its Not Normal When You Are In Love With A Man Who You Only Talked On The Internet With For Three Years.......While Your All In Love With The Person He Could Be Married With Children....Take My Advice Get Out And Have Fun Meet People And Forget all About This Internet Love...Because If He Is Married And His Wife Find Out That Yall Are Talking And You Love Her Husband That Aint Nothin But Drama And You Dont Want No Drama Over Just A Internet.......Love Find A Love Who Can Hold And Make Love To You At Night......
- Yes it's normal but I think u two should at least converse on the phone. I met a man a year and a half ago we were best friends then we fell in love, now I am flying out to meet him and his family and since we were friends and there was no motive we know everything about ea other. He even asked me to marry him.
- He lives with his baby momma, but is moving in with you in September?! RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG...So, basically he's looking for another sucka to take care of him and turn into a baby momma. When will my sisters learn!?
- It's normal for someone who is hiding something!
I had a similar situation that lasted about 2 months. Writing back in forth was fun, but my girlfriend said 'if he doesn't want to meet you, he's a toad.'. He turned out to be crippled and his voice turned out to be pretty nerdy sounding to. We never met. When the truth came out, he disappeared. If you're having fun, that's cool; but 3 years is a long time to invest in a 'fantasy' romance. - NO, ITS NOT NORMAL BECAUSE YOU DONT KNOW THIS BOY SO WHY WOULD YOU GO OUT WITH HIM IF YOU HAVENT NEVER TALK OR SEEN HIM BEFORE GIRL JUST LEAVE THAT BOY ALONE.
- no this is not normal...the fact u had to ask shows that its not normal and you know its not. The net is full of bull sh#t. you need to be around a person to reallly know them and since youve never even heard his voice you dont know him and you dont love him...this how stupid people be gettin cut up. u need to invest ur life in a real relationship
Falling in love is based on what someone does to your heart and mind and based on what you've described, you met someone online who you've been able to deal with on a very impressive intellectual level and it has grown into a much deeper appreciation for them.
What's normal anymore? The good thing is that you've fallen in love with them based on the sheer meeting of the minds and did not have it complicated by sex.
I say it is what it is and can be what you decide to make it, just be sure that it's a feeling that's reciprocated.
~SL~
- You can fall in love with a man you meet online. I don't see why not. But him living with his baby momma and now coming to stay with you looks like a pattern of raggedyness to me. Did he say she don't treat him right, doesn't make love to him, always naggin? What were his excuses. I rarely say just trash the man, but this man is full of it. Be careful miss lady. this is your life and your heart on the line.