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Sent to a friend[2655] Extreme LOVE for a Married Women(over 2 years)!!!
LETS START THIS; I SERIOUSLY NEED SOMEONE TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO.....! I am 25 and SINGLE:::: We were working in this same company and I somehow got attracted to this women, and along the way she Clearly told me that she is married (not happy) for 4 years and have 2 children. And i dont know how we started liking each other! Then it all started! We did make love TWICE (first time for me!). She says she loves me a lot, but did not want to leave her family, as this would destroy her name in the family!!!. Then it so happened i had to leave the country! She cried a lot, and said would move to where i am going soon. And she used to cry a lot on the phone (calling every day almost) asking me to come back! After several months she someone convinced her family and came to the country (I wz staying) ALONE! (she sold her Jewellery and arranged money; i was shocked, this proved on how much she loves me!). Then she stayed here with me for 2 months and THESE WERE THE MOST MEMORABLE DAYS IN BOTH OF OUR LIVES! And we had unimaginable sex! And finally she had to go back (coz of her children) and decided she will move her family to where I was living (it was extremely painful when she was leaving)…..Now I talk to her almost everyday…How She Feels: She loves me a lot but she is binded by her marriage and cannot stay with me! She does not like staying with her husband, and she gets upset thinking why i did not come in her life earlier!. She is stuck in her marriage, cannot leave her children! And also she informed her husband if they can have a divorce as their marriage is not working out! But he is not ready to do that (his name would get spoilt in the family). She doesnt know what to do even!!!
How I feel: Yes we know that is extremely WRONG but neither of us can help it…! And I also know she cannot give me the attention and love I want from her (she told me that), and I suffer everyday, I cannot sit alone and not think about her. I die thinking she has to go sleep with her husband every night (which she doesn’t want too)!!! And I cannot force her to leave her husband, I do not want to disturb her life too! And I cannot stop loving her, after trying even (I JUST can’t)….NOW If I leave her she will nearly die (that’s what she told me) and I cannot imagine life without her too! And also I cannot let her go through the pain of losing me, she will not be able to take it…! She extremely gets upset when she thinks about My Marriage! She has asked me to marry her Sister, as SHE cannot see me with someone else! And I do understand I cannot waste my life loving her, and not getting much in return! I will Marry (her sister or someone)! But I cannot leave her too……WHAT SHOULD I DO! Please give me a sincere ADVICE! I hope NO GUY falls in love with a Married women…..(it’s a terrible situation to be in)!!!! I dont know how i got into THIS!!!
Please ask me any questions, I would be GLAD to reply, to help me solve this LIFE……!!!!
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- FIRST OF ALL YOU AND HER HAVE TOO MANY
I CAN'TS. YOU CAN'T DO THIS AND SHE CAN'T DO THAT!! THAT IS A BUNCH OF BULL. IF SHE WANTED TO LEAVE THIS MAN SHE WOULD. IF YOU WANTED TO LEAVE HER ALONE YOU WOULD. YOU AND HER HAVE BOXED YOURSELF IN A CORNER, WHEN YOU SHOULD SIMPLY CHOOSE THE OBVIOUS. IN THIS TANGLED WEB OF DECEIT THAT YOU TWO HAVE WEAVED THERE IS ONE FREE PERSON, AND THAT IS YOU. YOU ARE NOT BOUND BY LOVE OR LAW TO BE A THIRD PARTY TO THIS MARRIAGE. DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT MARRY HER SISTER. HER SISTER DESERVES BETTER. EVERYDAY PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE WITH MARRIED PEOPLE AND THEY KNOW BETTER, AND EVERYDAY THERE IS HEARTBREAK. THIS IS NOT A SITUATION TO FIGURE OUT!! THIS IS A SITUATION TO GET OUT!!! WALK AWAY FROM THE HEARTBREAK AND PAIN OE STEP AT A TIME. YOUR MOVE OUT OF THE COUNTRY WAS A SMART ONE. BUT WHEN YOU PACK UP AND LEAVE YOU USUALLY LEAVE YOUR TROUBLES BEHIND. IT WOULD SEEM THAT YOU BROUGHT SOME EXTRA BAGGAGE ALONG FOR THE RIDE. LEAVE NOW OR ONE DAY YOU WILL SURELY GET LEFT!!!! JUST STATING THE OBVIOUS!!! - Thanx a lot for ur comment............if i leave her, wont this be like a betrayal to her or something and giving her a huge amount of shock!!! how should i hurt her soooo bad??? after i love her soooo much!!! Dont you think she might not take this positively and destroy her life........tat is what i am worried abt also.................i am stuck!
- you are stuck because you say you are. how can you betray someone who has obviously betrayed you and her husband. Is there so much honor in misery. I mean really. What she does are does not do is no responsibility of yours, she is an adult with free will. Worry about destroying your own life. Is your self-esteem so low that you can not even think of your own basic survival and your right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.
- Thanks again.......for your response! I already stated that i am thinking about my happiness, i cannot stay like this!!! i will definitely marry someone!!! i am not going to destroy my life like this....! i completely understand that! The only thing is cant i be with her after i get married!!!!! just be around her thats it!!!...and i have a feeling that after i get married She will not behave the same way she is doing now! she will be upset i know! but i cant help it....if she loves me she will understand!!! correct???
- Hi.....i am trying...i am....but i guess this is not working. Let me update you on this....its almost clear we wont be able to stay in the same country after all. She called me yesterday and was crying out saying she is not able to do anything for me! and just asked me to keep in touch over the phone. I just said let see how it works out......What do you say??? i do?
Oct 23, 2007 - TOTALLY INCORRECT!!!!! LET ME PUT IT TO YOU OLD SCHOOL--- YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO DOWN HER AND KEEP OFF FROM AROUND HER. STAY AWAY!!! SHE WILL ONLY CONTINUE TO DISRUPT YOUR LIFE. IF YOU HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE AND WIFE WHY WOULD YOU CARE WHAT SHE UNDERSTANDS OR DOES NOT UNDERSTAND? AFTER THIS YOUNG BLOOD YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN, BECAUSE IT WOULD SEEM THAT YOU ARE DETERMINED TO KEEP THIS WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE AT ALL COSTS!!! I TRIED!!!!!