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Sent to a friend[2982] instant gratification or sweet revenge?
I just broke up w my bfriend of 7 yrs. we have a 6mo old baby boy. He cheated on me 3 x\\\'s & I forgave him. I went thru hell many times over for this guy but now I\\\'m done. We went to 40 counseling sessions in the last yr & he swore to b a changed man, but now we broke up 4 the final time 1 week ago &he is already out w women. I want to hurt him & tell him that I too cheated on him for the first 2 yrs. But I am now a different loyal & great person/ mother. he has no idea what I did. He is so sure that he has been the only man in my life these past 7 yrs. This would b a HUGE blow 2 his ego & would give him a taste of his own medicine. I think of my son & wonder should I tell him or just let him think good of me & very soon regret losing me 4ever? instant gratification now or sweet revenge later when he can\\\'t have me back?Rating:0.00
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- DO YOU THINK IT WOULD REALLY MATTER TO HIM ABOUT SOMETHING THAT HAPPENED FIVE YEARS AGO. IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER NOW BECAUSE HE HAS CHEATED ON YOU SO MANY TIMES, THAT IT WOULD BE POINTLESS TO MENTION YOUR TRANSGRESSION. REMEMBER THE BEST REVENGE IS TO LIVE WELL AND THANK GOD FOR THE CHILD YOU WERE BLESSED WITH. TRUST ME ONE DAY HE WILL LOOK BACK , BUT HE WON'T BE ABLE TO COME BACK IT YOU ARE SMART. BUT IF YOU STILL LOVE HIM MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOUR SELF THEN THAT IS ANOTHER CONFESSION . SAVE YOURSELF AND LIVE BETTER. BEST WISHES FOR THE NEW YEAR!!!
- When i get cheated on i cheat back. That a man can cheat and come back and almost love and treat u as if nothing happen because for men sex can become a form of recreation that gets em in trouble. Where as woman tend to fall more in love with who they cheat with. Have u considered breaking the evil chains of human jealousy and just have threesomes for each other. U have free will so go for it. Ive always pre thought about my girlfriends with other people untill it doesnt bother me anymore and we're still together after two threesomes and very happy because we both get what we want without the other humanistic bs getn in the way
- i totally agree with the threesome guy. i've had a few threesomes with my current girlfriend and it makes us much more relaxed with eachother. jealousy is an emotion that needs to be tamed. its abviously a big issue for a lot. And every man wants to or has cheated and yes mainly for recreation. So if u want to feel more sure that your partner realy loves u then have a threesome and when its all over and if they're still with u guess what they truely love u. And u get to have some adventurous mutual adult fun as well. And i've been with my girlfriend for eleven years strong partly because we both get what we want and still have each other.
- sometimes when u do stuff like cheat on ur boyfriend or girlfriend it comes back to haunt u...its called karma