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I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years , and since that time I've found out a lot or things that he's done that hurt me. I am on the verge of breaking up with him, but how do I get over him? It's hard for me to open up and be myself when I first meet a guy. And with me being through all I have, I don't want make the new person I talk to feel uncomfortable because I've been hurt. My boyfriend says and does things to make me feel low , but I know I deserve better. Has anyone been through this? Is it better to just be single for awhile? I love him but he's not doing me any justice.Rating:3.00
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- first off SELF-LOVE comes first... clearly this man could care less about thy feelings, etc... the writing is on the wall, as it's best at this time for you to fly solo... enjoy being single for a while, as in due time eventually u shall come in contact with a man who is worthy of the heart... ( Admin )
- I have been in a situation with a man whom I had known since I was a child and loved with all my heart but he was dishonest. When I decided to become single again, at first, it was hard, I wanted to call. But I just started volunteering, hanging out with new friends, and erasing every last damn phone number and image of him out my place. But it worked and I am happier for it.
- I have been in a relationship like that before the best thing to do is let him go if you don't you will start puting your happiness last and his frist and that will make you feel like no one wants to be with ouy and he is the only one but thats not true there are other men out there looking for a good women to take care of so Kick his BEHIND TO THE CURB!!
- girl friend he is not worth it, go on with your life without him because he is not going to change. Find someone who loves you and only you. You can do it I did. Stay kind to yourself.....
- I KNOW IT MAY SEEM HARD, BUT YOU CAN DO IT. YOU DESERVE BETTER. WHEN YOU KNOW BETTER YOU DO BETTER. DON'T WORRY ABOUT HIM, THINK OF YOURSELF. REMEMBER YOU ARE THE PRIZE AND IF HE DOES NOT REALIZE THAT, THEN HE IS THE TRICK. LOOK UP AND GET UP. WEEKS FROM NOW YOU WILL WONDER WHAT DID YOU EVER SEE IN HIM. YOU CAN NOT CHANGE HIM, BUT YOU CAN CHANGE YOU. THE BEST REVENGE IS TO LIVE WELL.
- do what u thinks best babe if he hurts ur feelings over and over its time to move on, u can do it just forget about the past itll be hard bt u can do it ;.)
- Girl we have all been hurt and they become a story to tell. Let him go and when you meet new guys concentrate on being friends. Don't get in his pockets or pants too early. Talk, laugh and share things. That way you find out who he really is and he learns who you really are. Then if you want to make more out of it you can. Take it slow and enjoy men's company rather than running into girlfriend mode. As for the hurt...listen to sad ass songs, write poetry, cry and let it work itself out. I remember times when I thought my guts would fall out but I am still here...and so r u.