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Sent to a friend I have been married for 7 years and I love my husband. He is a good man and a good father. We have had a strained relationship for the past 3 years. He is so focused on his job and money that I feel very alone. I have begun an affair with one of his friends. We have been attracted to eachother since the moment we met 8 and a half years ago. We have always been close b/c we share interests and sense of humor. I adore him. He makes me feel like myself and relaxed and sexy. I think I love him. Does this mean I should let my husband go? Or am I just high on recapturing that feeling of falling in love. Like I said my husband is a good stable provider the other man is more reckless and sexy. What should I do? Confess to my husband, leave my husband or say nothing?Rating:1.00
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- think about it, we as people always find dangerous sexy. now the question is, if the guy your having an affair with now had all the responsibility that your husband has..would he stick around for the long haul?
i don't think he would. you should talk to your husband, end the affair, and try to become closer with your husband. - You should tell your husband and leave him. The fact that he is a 'good provider' does not mean that you should stay with him. Let him live with someone who deserves it and get you a life you've been waiting for.
- tell him
- If you want to stay with your husband, end the affair. Don't tell him about it if you want to patch things up. It will only hurt him. People who confess only want to make themselves feel better. No need to hurt him unless you plan to leave.
- Stey with him... Ask if you can take a weekend off together to rekindle the fire. Remember the times when things were good and hot between you... Dedicate the same time and energy to your relationship you have to your affair and you will have a much better relationship... and kindly break it off with the sexy looser.
- Leave your Husband and let him find a good woman. Marry the reckless, immature, bad-boy, sexy guy and see where that goes after a year. I know where but I think you need to find out for yourself.
- Look at it like this. If he is willing to sleep with one of his friends wives that means he's not a good friend so what makes you think he will be a good husband?? But obviously if your even asking your self this question you have become a bad wife and have destroyed a good home!!