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Yes women claim that it doesn't matter, but still I'm ashamed of my small package. How can I get over this?

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  • You got a big ass problem because it does matter about the size. And i don't think you will ever be able to get over that shit no time soon. All you have to do is pray that some girl comes along and like you for you and not worry about how big your dick is ya-know.
  • If u have a small dick than just get plastic surgery or something don't cry about it take action.
  • if u know how to work it and u got females moaning when your having sex then dont be worried just work what you got to the best of your ablity....Dont Be Ashamed.......You Got What You Got For A Reason....So Handle Yours
  • God bless you boo! Someone will come along and that will appreciate your gift. Dont worry and dont be ashamed....Explain your problem before you begin to feel sexually connected to a woman and go from there.
  • Don't worry, I'm not endowed with a large one either, but if it felt any better, or worked more efficiently. I'd be broke. Five children, fourteen grand children, two great grand cjhilldren.........
    Use it correctly and for her pleasure and she'll respond!!!!!Still works fine at 84 grmps
  • Man if the girl really loves you for you then penis size should'nt matter. If you are with a girl that just wants to get you in the bedroom then you know she is gonna want someone who is packing, but if you have a girl that loves being with you, cuddling, long conversations, walk in the park type.....then that shouldnt be much of an issue. And to let you know some men with BIG DICKS smetimes cant do all the things that those can with a smaller package
  • Size doesn't matter - yes, I'm a woman and I have several children! If a woman wasn't allowing every Tom, Faheem, and Pookie enjoy her, her vagina wouldn't be worn out and in need of the virtually nonexistant 10 inches. The vagina is a muscle, if it is properly cared for (meaning stop having a new visitor every other day), and she does kegels to keep them well toned (she should exercising in general), she will be able to enjoy any sized penis. I've asked several times, but how is it possible for us to recieve pleasure from a man fingering us and wear tampons w/out them falling out of our vaginas, if size truly matters. If a woman is loose, she just needs to admit the problem lies with her, not the man.
  • I dont know why you guys put in your head that having a big penis is the best, and that it satisfies the woman better.....it probably does but it does'nt matter. God gave you a smaller penis than others for a reason.Be proud of how God created you. Your penis may be a little small, but it all depends on if you know how to work it. Big things come in small packages
  • Look, there are always parts of our bodies that we don't like. Yours happens to be your penis. It's true that women can accommodate all sizes and shapes of penises and bigger penises feel fantastic but the small ones have their purpose too.
  • No woman likes a man that isn't confident, this does not mean lie about how big or small it is be your self and if she really cares about you and your feelings then she really won't care unless you really can't work it with your Package
  • I think you are worried about the wrong thing, if you are pleasing you woman why worry about size. What size are a small one. I mean in inches, let a girl know.
  • don't worry about it hun as long as u can worked you are ok in the game.:-)
  • WORK IT BROTHER! IT AIN'T THE SIZE OF THE SHIP, IT'S THE MOTION IN THE OCEAN. WORK IT !!!!
    NOW LET'S WORRY ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE! (SMILE)


  • Since YOU are the one who seems overly concerned about it, I don't know that you will be able to get over it.

    I'm speaking from experience when I say that size did not matter in the instances when I made love to a man.

    In my years of being in relationships, I've had men who were "large" and I've had men who were
    "smaller," but I wasn't automoatically satisfied and more into the ones who were of a bigger size.

    If a man knows what to do with what he has, he can satisfy a woman and keep her wanting more. You can ask her what she likes or how she is able to
    "feel" it better.

    Also, you can stimulate her with your fingers or by performing oral sex on her, if that's something both of you are comfortable with. There's more ways to get a woman to have an orgasm than penetrating her with your penis.

    * I hope it's okay that I said all of that. I didn't know of any other way to put it. *

    ~ SL ~

  • 1) Learn to eat p@ssy really, really well

    2) Make sure you can last at least 15 minutes

    3) Make sure you are always very clean - fresh breath, deoderant, clean balls and ass

    4) Be sure to have a great personality - you can't afford to be an asshole any more than a stripper can afford to have cellulite

    5) Don't ask a woman if she thinks you are small, you already know the answer and you don't need to show her that you are insecure about it, even if you are

    6) There's a doctor in New York named Dr. Whitehead who's doing new things with plastic surgery - look him up on the internet and look at the before and after photos on his site
  • IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT THEN CHANGE IT!
  • I think people should be honest and honestly for many women size does matter, just like when a woman is overweight or has no breasts....does anyone opt for that? NO....but sometimes people fall in love and they overlook the flaws...all of us have them. So I said all that to say that you will find a woman who loves you for you....but....yes size is a factor....people let's not kid ourselves.
    I haven't been around the block but I wouldn't just sign up for a man with a small penis.
  • DAMN DAMN DAMN...................... IT REALLY DOES MATTER TO A WOMEN IF THEY LIKE TO HAVE SEX............. ESPECIALLY IF THE DICK IS GOOD............YOU GONNA WANT THEM TO COME BACK 4 MORE SO GET ON YA JOB AND TAKE ACTION!!!!!
  • I didnt think a small penis could satisfy me until I meet a man who was so sweet to me. the way he treated me was like constant love making so when we got to the bed room it was even more wonderful.
  • LOL
    *** i like these 6 suggestions posted earlier***
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    1) Learn to eat p@ssy really, really well

    2) Make sure you can last at least 15 minutes

    3) Make sure you are always very clean - fresh breath, deoderant, clean balls and ass

    4) Be sure to have a great personality - you can't afford to be an asshole any more than a stripper can afford to have cellulite

    5) Don't ask a woman if she thinks you are small, you already know the answer and you don't need to show her that you are insecure about it, even if you are

    6) There's a doctor in New York named Dr. Whitehead who's doing new things with plastic surgery - look him up on the internet and look at the before and after photos on his site

  • Just call me little buddy and i will come over and turn the lights off and step in your place...when i'm done, she will be in love with you.
  • My ex had a small panis too. But he could lick a cl@t into orgasm heaven! And he's proof size doesn't really matter, because I had to cut him loose. Little prick wouldn't keep it in his pants. If you're strong and can work hard... you gonna be alright. Especially if you find someone who isn't selfish. Hell, there are some men with big penis' that are as useless with them, as glasses on a blind person. Good luck

    signed,
    someone who once knew a small penis

  • i say don't worry about it.The woman that falls in love with you will love you unconditionally. Besides when yall get married shes marrying you not your penis.
  • girl prefer small size or large size panis. some may go with smalller but majority opt for what?
  • Some say size matters but if you find other ways to satify a lady it won't be as noticable. Use your imagination. I find that it works.
  • most women dont reach orgasm from penis thrusting into the vagina anyway. most reach it from oral sex and stimulating the clitoris! (you learn a lot from talk sex with sue)
  • fine a woman with a small vagina!!!!!!!!
    She won't care....
  • i'm a rather average brother myself, 6 inches but I've learned its about tryin different positions. Cause tha slightest twist or turn can put you in tha same spot as a much bigger one if u know how to move it. Also men need to learn that a woman's sex drive is 80% mental, 10% want, 10% physical. If u woo her mind tha body is sure to follow and it don't matter how big ur soldier is. Believe after i learned this simple fact my rep went thorgh tha roof.
  • find a petite female or a virgin or both
  • as you tap that pussy stimulate the clit man nice and soft...find the perfect pace, you know feel the female, caress her
  • my hubby is 5 1/2 inches and he knows how to use his . but most important is his love for his family dick size does not matter when he treats me like a queen and his kids like royalty
  • YOU HAVENT FOUND THE RIGHT WOMAN TO LOVE YOU AND ALL THAT COMES WITH YOU. gIVE IT TIME.
  • Women like it big, but small ones are funny and make us laught... well if you're small you can still use a dildo
  • In my own personal opinion small is better! My ex was very well hung but i never got to the climaxing stage because i was always uncomfy, it felt like it was hitting my organs...i used to think thank god hes fast cause i just want this over! But my new boyfriend is a large guy with a smaller package and he can hit spots i never knew were there, its not just some thing thrusting in and out its like amazing...cause he trys harder cause he feels like he has to make up for size, also found out with my "small" man i can most deffinatly climax!!!!! =)
  • Im happy 6 inch penis n a wife what more shud i say
  • i know whatcha mean man, i'm 5"x6" and i feel like my shit is little. that's why i'm bout to invest in some enzyte. since every brawd on da planet wants porn star status dick.....
  • my a boyfriend with a 4.5'' penis but it still satisfies me and i love to play with it...no probs for me!
  • size doesn't matter-you're dealing with muscle. if you're involved with one person your body adjusts to the size of the penis. so if your penis is small you need to stick to one somebody so that she can adjust to you and pray she doesn't cheat. otherwise you'll be floating around in everybodys watering holes..
  • In my opinion some information is not absolutely true, but in general very good site.
  • WHEN A WOMAN SAYS...........SIZE DON'T MATTER .
    SHE IS JUST SAYING THAT TO NOT HURT YOUR FEELINGS . A BIGGER PENIS HITS ALL THE SPOTS .
    A SMALLER PENIS HAS TO WORK TWICE AS HARD .
    TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH , A WOMAN WILL RESPECT A MAN MUCH MORE IF HE CAN GIVE HER A REAL GOOD ORGASM COMPARED TO A MAN WHO CAN'T OR SOMEWHAT GIVES HER AN ORGASM . THATS WHY WOMEN STAY WITH THE MOST FU..... UP GUYS . ITS BECAUSE THEY CAN POUND ON THEM REALLY GOOD . NOW A GUY WITH A SMALL PENIS CAN POUND ALL HE WANTS...............IT STILL WILL NOT HIT ALL THE RIGHT SPOTS . I'M A AVERAGE GUY . TO A WOMAN , AN AVERAGE GUY IS A SMALL GUY..............TO A WOMAN , YOUR EITHER BIG OR SMALL , THERE ARE NO AVERAGE IN A WOMAN'S EYES .
  • my penis size only 4.5".&i m unmarried.from bangladesh.when my penis hot this is very strong.can i able sex satisfactory with my wife?pls help u any suggetion.
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  • what is the right size to enjoy
  • i am unmarried my panis size is 6" i much time takes during fuck.
  • i have a 3 inch penis and it gets about 5 1/2 when errect im uncircumsized and im a virgin and im scared to have sex because i dont know what the reaction is going to be
  • some of you really know how to encourage these guy don't you!
    sheesh!
  • Grow up b happy with what u got and besides its not how deep u fish its how u wiggle the worm
  • i have 1 inch penis and it get about 2 inch when errect i m 40 years old
  • To VERY FEW women, size doesn't matter much. MUCH. However, to MOST WOMEN, and I mean the vast majority -like 90% , SIZE DOES MATTER. Size matters to the women who look "hot" and can "afford" (by their looks, to get anyone they want) to have ANY guy they want. Come on, guys, admit it to ourselves... IF you have had sex with at least a FEW women, you KNOW that not every woman's vagina feels the same... Some are tighter than others -and to be truthful, a TIGHT vagina feels THE BEST.


    Guys have a cock, it sticks out to be enveloped by a vagina. SO, pretty much ANY vagina will "feel pretty damn good". Now, a woman has a guys penis sticking in her...... If it is small, and it barely causes her vagina to "stretch" and accomodate the penis..... Well, that penis is just not going to satisfy THE SAME A LARGE PENIS WOULD. However, a LARGE penis, one that stretches and FILLS a girls vagina will allow pleasure and the girl will FEEL full and how the penis touches all over inside her. Now with this being said, I am NOT saying a HUGE penis is "better" as being "too large" will probably cause pain.


    Guys.... Face it. Even if the girl would FEEL a smaller penis if she were to have sex with it, she may be "turned off" by it JUST because she THINKS she has to have a BIG penis and nothing else will satisfy her.
    I have been the victim of a couple women NOT being satisfied with my penis. I have had at least ONE leave me for a larger dicked guy. I have had women who truly seemed to get off with my cock, and sex was fantastic....... But make NO mistake: SIZE MATTERS. For instance: I was having sex with a girl and I was as hard as I have ever been. She commented that I was "bigger" than normal and it felt SO MUCH BETTER.... She was TRULY enjoying the "larger" size of my penis...... AND she was a girl who made NO secret of the fact she HAD to have and WANTED a large penis on her guy -said small penis's do NOTHING for her -and while she was NOT really tight, she was NOT so loose you couldn't feel her.


    Sadly, yes, size matters, Just to some more than others. And no, ladies and gentleman, JUST because a guy is "buff" and slim or muscular does it automatically mean he has a bigger penis.... AND it does NOT mean a fatter or shorter guy has a SMALLER penis........ But it DOES mean women should not be so shallow and just trash a guy because his penis isn't XXL. What crap.
  • iwill tell u my boyfriend isnt the biggest i say hes a bit above average but he says its small but it fills me i feel it just well and its the best sexi ever had with anyone in my life and i think the sex made me fall in love with him and we still are going stronger than ever everytime with him feels like the first time and i have had a few different sizes i started young and at one point in my life that im not proud of i got around until i met my first serious boyfriend and his penis was a bit bigger than my bf now but the sex wasnt half as good and i had 3 kids with him and had a guy with a small penis and was able to get off quite fine #1 to me size dont matter its how they work it #2 if he cant workit try and maek him feel good about him self but also maybe teach him few things and give him a chance to improve his self open him up to new things maybe bring out the freaky side of him i know i love a freak personally i would rather have a smaller dont hurt that bad first going in the for anal woot woot but ladies if ur man cant do it right show him a little sumfin sumfin and until he picks up do it all by yourself cause behind good sex theres a woman
  • i also have a small one with 4# max.size . i m not married yet n have not sex with any girl so i do not know what will b the result,but i still feel that my panis is so small .
  • i'm 18 and a college freshman. my penis is over 8 inches and thick-6 inches around, and i'm a white guy. i had sex with one coed and she told a couple of other girls and the rumor spread all over campus. one girl told me she had an orgasm just by staring at it! another one had such an intense orgasm that she blacked out. maybe my case is special, i don't know.


    August 13, 2007
  • i got a small d!ck and ill tell ya somethin, while im not a virgin, i wish every guy could have a small penis for a day to show em how it feels to be so damned depressed over it, it really does take it out of ya, it makes it very hard to find girls.
  • My new boyfriend is 3 inches errect and im afraid i wont feel him during sex. We havent had sex yet. He is a great guy, good hearted,loyal,funny and we really care for one another.

    I have never had sex with anyone with a small penis before, i have had afew boyfriends and they were average 5 inches or so. I dont care what seize my boyfriends penis is once i can feel him. I enjoy sex so i wouldnt be able to stay in a relationship if the sex didnt work out right. I pray i can feel him during sex as i dont want us to break up because the sex doesnt work that would be lousy as with everything else we are ok and we love each other. We are planning on having sex soon so heres hoping.

    To me seize doesnt matter as long as i can feel my partner and enjoy sex. By the way my boyfriend is a virgin so he doesnt have any moves or confidence but we can work on that but hopefuly if i can feel him all will be ok.

    August 20, 2007
  • Although a small penis can be really nice, a really really small (and/or soft) penis can be truly unsatisfying. Sex is biological need as far as I am concerned, and I need to feel a penis on my G-spot to make me cum. Oral sex is not enough to satisfy me. I don't need 8 inches, but 4 inches is not enough to do the job. Many women don't have orgasms during intercourse so maybe they don't care, but I definately do.

    Or maybet that is why many women don't have orgasms during intercourse?? Whatever the case, I have had to deal with this situation when someone I cared about turned out to have a penis the size and softness of 1/2 of a raw Oscar Meyer hot dog. I just cannot be with him, I am willing to admit. He deserves to be with someone who would be happy with him. A huge cock is not necessary, but a tiny or soft one can be a relationship killer. And someone got it right when they said 10% of women don't care about size, but the 90% that I know do care.

    And also correct is that if you are a hot woman and can take your pick of who you want, then you will want someone with a decent size cock, and I intend to get a guy with a good heart AND with a nice cock. 6" is plenty by the way, and even 5" could be good, just as long as it's very hard and he knows how to use it.


    August 26, 2007
  • i have a 5inches
  • I have a big cock but my balls r tiny so im in a different boat because nobody talks about mens testicles
  • i have 4 inches and i am not maried i hade sex at once and she was crying so much my be it was her first
  • speaking as a woman who always said size doesnt matter, after dating and sleeping with too many white men, ive been reformed. I NEVER WANNA SEE ANOTHER SMALL DICK IN MY LIFE!!!

    its like theres an epidemic with white men that they all have small dicks. i met one guy who had an AVERAGE sized dick and thought it was huge, but it was by white guy standards and so naturally he screwed everything that would let him. WOMEN SHOULD STOP LYING, SIZE DOES MATTER! IT DOES, IT DOES, IT DOES!!! AND I HATE HOW GUYS WITH SMALL DICKS ALWAYS TRY TO BE NICE AND FUNNY AND SWEET, JUST SO THEY CAN TRICK WOMEN INTO LIKING THEM. THEY WANT US TO FEEL SORRY FOR THEM AND BE SYMPATHETIC, WELL IM NOT!

    I DONT CARE HOW MUCH I LIKE A GUY, IF THE PANTS FALL DOWN AND HIS DICK LOOKS LIKE A SMOKIE, IM OUTTA THERE!! WHAT CAN A SMALL DICK POSSIBLY DO TO SATISFY A WOMAN WHEN THE WHOLE ENTIRE VAGINA IS A MUSCLE AND CAN STRETCH TO ENORMOUS PROPORTIONS. AND I DO MY KEGELS AND IVE PROBABLY SLEPT WITH 10 MEN MY ENTIRE LIFE AND IM 28. SO IM NOT SOME STRECTHED OUT WHORE, BUT I AM A SMALL PENIS PROTESTOR!
  • Women always dream of the guy having a huge cock, and whether that will feel good or not is not taken into consideration.
    Big looks better - and is usually.
  • My dick gets to be about 5 1/2 inches when erect. The girls love to slob all over it. Don't worry fellas.
  • 5 X 5 SOME WOMEN LOVE IT SOME DONT JUST FUCK THE ONES THAT DO
  • Learn to live life alone. You and I both know what your future holds. Focus on other things that interest you and forget about sex, dating, relationships. I did when I was 15 because I knew they would all end in failure. So, I never bothered. Despite what people tell you, not having sex will NOT kill you. I'm still here.

    Oh, by the way The vagina is NOT a muscle. It's a birth canal. The clitoris is a woman's sex organ and most women don't orgasm through penetration anyway. The penis is an organ, not a muscle. Don't think about enlarging it because it's all hype. Stretching tissue is not only stupid it's dangerous.
  • I have a seven inch penis but my problem is it is very thin. When i have sex my gf keeps her legs together to try and feel it. I would prefer a short fat one to a long skinny cock
  • my bf dont satisfied me his penis is too small for me
  • I am in a relationship with a woman who says she used to like big dicks. Mine is 5.5-6 inches erect and not very girthy. I have always thought I had a small penis but no women have ever complained partially, I believe, because they were all nice and did not want to hurt my feelings. Anyway, I can make my current girlfriend orgasm every time we have sex. She is a very sexual person and I mean VERY sexual and I have converted her from being a size queen to loving my small penis.

    A big part of it with her is the mental connection. All women are different in as what turns them on but you need to be aware of what makes your woman tick. For example, my woman likes when I talk dirty to her. It makes her crazy when I caress her body before penetration telling her what I am going to do to her, talking about how good it felt the night before or even making up dirty stories.

    My point is that even though I know I have a small penis and do get depressed about it at times, I knew that I had to figure out how women work so I could score a hot loving woman who liked to have sex with me as much I a liked to have sex with her. It's so important to get into her head before getting into her pants. And just for the record this is exactly what I did. When we first started dating we had a very difficult start because we were both in relationships. Things were rocky but we knew we loved each other even before we had intercourse. A couple of days before we had sex the first time we had oral sex and she got to see my penis for the first time. When I drove her home I told her how I felt about my small penis and she said it didnt matter (lie). I told her I knew it mattered but I would make her feel so good no matter how small I was. To make a long story short we ended up having sex for the first time on the carpet in my living room on our lunch hour. She orgasmed in 15 seconds. And that is no joke it was only 15 seconds and we still talk about that to this day. When I ask her why it was so fast for her she says because it just felt so good. I know that a big part of the feeling so good was because I was not only in her vagina but also in her head.

    After 3+ years we are still going strong and the sex is still amazing. She used to only be able to orgasm when on top of any man and now I can make her orgasm from 3 different positions.

    In summary, Size does matter, it matters to women and especially matters to the man who has the penis. A small penis can make you less confident and depressed but it can also make you work harder and more confident in other ways. I know my girlfriend likes big dicks, she always has and always will but I know that she loves my dick because she loves how I treat her, how I move (its not all about thrusting its also about grinding) and how I get into her head.
  • Sex is good weather u have small cock of or big 1 but wat intrest me and my gf is alcohol and violence u can be who ever we down 4 watever g g g g unit
  • Penis size does not always matter, although it matters to a certain extent. If there is attraction and you know how to perform fourplay, yoou know to move, make those sexual expressions, noises, that aids in pleasure. Just experiment with that penis and tell your gf to do kegal exercizes
  • Size matters...i think u should have a sex change operation and call urself susan, dumbass turd
  • Don't listen to everybody... size does matter, yer screwed
  • Size does matter....wallet size. If you have a fat wallet, you don't need to worry about your dick.

    Oct 21, 2007
  • Here's the deal, I am small and I cum very fast with my wife. She hates it and will eventually leave me because of it - If you cant fill her to some degree she cant be satisfied - If someone tells you otherwise they ARE lying to save feelings. It is what it is - a small penis. Plus a small penis is great for anal!
  • I've heard "is it in?" right in the heat of it I've heard - "what happened? Did you go limp?" when I am hard and as big as I will ever be! I now get off on hearing such humiliating comments. deal with it.
  • Size matter, those who deny it are the man with small penises
  • Those who said size matters are the ones with small dildos
  • Fuck man... well im glad i found diz site bc i found alot of interesting facts.. well im 17 years old.. mexcican.. im verry tall 6"2 i think... avarage weight.. kinda slim... not a virgin.. ive had sex like prolly 10times..

    it really screws me over wen grls think im HUGE bc im tall and big... but in reality im not so big.. i personally dont think im big at all... im verry verry small wen flacid.. but my erections are strong... my penis is about 5"5 wen im hard.. sumtimes i manage 2 get a 6inch erection.. rarely.. im datin a filipina/white grl.. she has a small phisique.. but damn pretty.. i guess i really like her bc short.. shes not a virgin.. shes 16 and has had sex many times wit 2 oder guys.. i think dey both wer big.. heres my story..

    we have had sex 2times.. i was as hard as a rock.. the first time wasnt the greatest.. i fingered her.. she loves it(thank god my fingers are long).. so any guys wit small penises.. use ur fingers.. after i fingered her.. i penetrated her.. usual missionary position.. i can tell she doesnt enjoy it at maximum.. but i try 2 go as far and as long as i can.. 2 my surprise.. after about like 15 minutes.. i was able 2 make her have an orgasm..
    that really boosted my confidence..

    in conlclusion guys... size sadly does matter.. but if ur member is small den try oder things.. finger oral etc. im glad i found diz chick..
  • my ex husband had a very large penis, and a lot of the time it hurt when we were having sex, which wasn't very enjoyable. i am now with a man that has a penis on the smaller side. at first i was a little unsure, considering i was used to a very large penis. but honestly the sex is better with my bf now, because we have such a connection that my ex and i never had, and he treats me very well.

    there are some ways that feel better than others, you just have to figure out what positions feel the best. and really i wouldn't have any room to talk, cause i have small breasts, so it would be pretty shitty of me if i didn't like him, because he has a smaller penis.

    oh yeah, and some of these people on here are pretty rude and shitty. don't you think if guys with small penis's could have bigger penis's they would?!! they didn't ask for it to be that way


    Nov 12, 2007
  • my bf's cock is 7 -8 inches when hard, and he's white, i reckon thats pretty good...but honestly its not how big he is, its the thrusting, grinding and touching before hand that gets me off
  • im 16 and my penis is 5 1/2 and 5 inchs in girth do you think thats enough to satisfie a girl? theres a girl i really like but im scared cuz of the size of my penis


    Nov 2, 2007
  • Big ones def look hotter but I'm with a guy who only measures 5" long, but 6" around. It's a fat little thing lol. I was a little disappointed to see it but the sex is the best ive had so far. Size matters, girth more than length. As far as looks go I still like them HUGE :-D


    Nov 5, 2007
  • Its good to hear these idears it will help us. to have confident in our self.


    Nov 4, 2007
  • so basically what your saying is that any man with a small penis is not a real man..well then the same could be said about women who some have very tiny breast's that there not real women. come on i mean theres a reasion that some guys have a smaller penis than other guys and a reasion that some women have smaller breast's than other woman.. it dosent matter and it shouldent matter. its the society of today that has made this in to something that it's not.a man with a 2 inch penis is just as much a man as a man with a 8 inch penis.a woman is just as much a woman as one with 44-d breasts as a woman with a -a beast.its what is in your hearts that matter.not whats hanging off a guy or whats whats hanging off a womans chest.and thats all i have to say!!


    Oct 31, 2007
  • Girls and guys aren't that different, The same way us guys look at ugly girls, fat girls, loose girls, smelly girls etc. Doesn't mean those girls don't get any love, think about it. How many times you seen a normal or even cool looking guy walking around with a monster?

    It's not that seldom. On the other hand, a fat girl that wants to be attractive is prolly gonna clean herself up, make sure she got her act together smelling good, hair done, personality right etc. That's what you gotta do brotha, you gotta make sure sure all the other aspects of your game is on point.

    I sexed this big girl once, beautiful in the face, always smellin good, confidence sky high, and she had the perfect moan. Since the room was dark when we had sex, I'd admit... it was soem good p@ssy. We went out for a while and if I didn't go to boarding school, I probably woulda still been with her... well, maybe not. But the point is, there is a good chance you could get lucky with a girl that is just for you...

    BUT you gotta make sure that you treatin her right because one of us other brothas who ain't strugglin like you might end up breakin your home. So watch out especially for us black folk, they come to us lol.


    Nov 9, 2007
  • my panis 4inch long in excite position.may i able to satisfy to woman
  • JUST READ UP GOOGLE IT> I DID THE SAME THING AND I FOUND OUT IM QUITE BIG FOR MY AGE
  • I'm a petite tight girl so as long as it's not too small I can enjoy it. Sometimes it can be too big and you have to be careful so I'd rather it be between 5.5 and 8 inches and it's gotta have some girth, atleast 4 inces measuring around the shaft. Kegal exercises are perfect for tightening so small guys encourage your women to do them.
  • Women really don't care about size when it comes to intercourse. The only time size matters, if this counts, is that i like handling or sucking a large dick because it's ... well, interesting and fun.

    Don't worry about size. We like'em all.


    Nov 8, 2007
  • Why do men worry so much about what women want, I think perhaps women should worry about what men want since there are 8% more women of marriageable age than men. There was a study on this by UCLA forgot the name of it but it shows that maybe women should be happy if they find a good guy even if his penis is small. I personally and not hung like a porn star but i will be damned if i will worry about it and hey if the women does not like what i have i can find another woman as easily as i found her.
  • my penis is a bit over 7.5 inches(19cm) im happy with it :)...
  • a big dick matters if you dont know what you are doing....
    some guys have long skinny ones (which is not what we mean by big) width is a major factor!!
    so think about tht tooo when looking at yourself!!
    : ))
    and if you look upstuff to make a girl love your sex... then you will get knowledge in the bed room (that is a big deal) just remember that no matter how big you are you can work it!!
  • i am 16 years old,the lenght of my penis is 6 inches long,n 5 iches wide when errected, personnally i think thats small for my age, whats your veiw on this?
  • Wow, this has been amazingly helpful. Everyone's comments have been really illuminating. I did like the observation that guys that are on the smaller side did not ask to be born that way so let's lay off the tone of posts that appear to be blaming them for something they have no control over. And yes, we gals would be lying if we said it doesn't matter but if you love someone and they treat you well...well, as the saying goes, there is more than one way to skin a cat ;-)


    Dec 5, 2007
  • haha
  • 4" inches is the perfect size to make ur girl come. as am married to a guy who has 4" but he is greatest while making love. he comeslike a superfast train. so fellas size does not matter , only thing is get connected well emotionally.
  • size matters
  • Size does matter for most woman. Woman just say stuff to make u feel better. A womans vagina can expand to fit almost any size. And a larger penis can not only get what they want deeper to more easily get her pregnant,but also better prepairs her for the stretching of child birth. Not to mention being large is a major confidence boost for a man which all woman are attracted to.and u rarely hear someone being made fun of for being bigger than the average man. but some woman have small breasts and men still like them to.
  • Women masterbate to orgasm so why should it matter. I masterbate to orgasm. Alot of guys masterbate for that tighter feeling or she can jack me off. so a guy does not need a big dick to have an orgasm when the fact is you don't need a dick to orgasm or a pussy. The real thing is nice, but sometimes you got to do what ya gotta do, so big small medium who the fuck cares I don't I still expierence the same feeling as any big dick guy does, if not better!
  • Depending on how small it is, you might have a problem. The secret is to find a woman who is compatible. I'm very small and had great experiences and lousy ones. Some women are built for large ones, some built for small ones. Find a woman that works with your equipment. You'll both be happier in the long run. Don't believe that crap about 5.5" deep vaginas or nerve endings going only part of the way in. It all comes down to the woman's personal preference and equipment.
  • im a confident 20 year old attractive male with a 5.5-6.0 penis, i have had at least twenty sexual partners in the past and the majority have been satisfied, no1 has ever complained, if they did i would simply see them as shallow and rude, similarily if i complained that she was to loose or that her breasts where too small. people with small or average penis' must realiset that a huge cock is at the end of the day still just a cock! any woman who sleeps with men constantly just looking for a big dick is simply looking for just that, a dick, not a individual, they aint worth it


    Dec 16, 2007
  • How uneducated so many people are on this site. The post on Dec. 5 th says a larger penis more easily make s woman pregnant. You sound very ignorant. Size has no bearing on that. Strerility is the big factor!! Women can get pregant by a splash of semen on their vagina...not a high chane, but still a moderate chance and this involves NO penis at all!!!!

    I am a man, I have a little bit below average penis at 5 inches. Average is probably about 5.8 inches, but it depends on which tests you read. However many women call it small if its under 7 inches. Hmmm, so if I like D size breats I guess a C-cup I should then call small. It's very tiring reading surveys on penis size because it always seems to fall into several groups. Women who say size doesn't matter, men who say it doesn't matter, women who say it definitely matters, guys who say women lie and that it does matter, etc. Well, all people are different so I guess we should expect varied responses. When it boils down to it my take is that it's all psychological. Why do people who are given placebo's think they feel better sometimes??? Like many women have said they like large penises for visual stimulation!

    I think it's all psychology. Some are infatuated with huge sizes. I have no problem with women telling what they want. I like to hear all their stories. I guess we men should create a site to talk about vagina size so we can tell stories...yeah I screwed this girl and she was liek the grand canyon! But anyway, I have no problems so long as the women here are just being truthful and honest and give their opinions with all do respect.

    What really angers me is the women who feel they have to degrade and make fun of men with these small ones. I can only conclude that they are very insecure about themselves as typical people who need to degrade others are. If you aren;t attracted to small penises then that's fine. Why the anger or need to insult? When you insult people based on such generalizations- you could be insulting a very nice, caring, courageous, and respectful guy who happens to have a small penis and a guy with a huge penis could be a serial killer for all you know. How the hell can you hurl general insults based upon the size of an organ?? That's insane?

    Should I say women with small breasts suck?? Should I say people with green eyes are pricks?? Just ludicrous. I once read something from a woman that may open the eyes of some of the fools on this site. She said "And all you guys who think you're such a man by telling me how big your penis is and all that can just move right along.

    A true man is measured by courage, and love, and how much he cares and treats his family." Some of these guys with large penises may end up being the biggest pussies you have ever seen. Guys out thre in the war zones putting their lives on the line for their country are true men! Think about reality and then how silly does this large penis stuff really sound compared to things like that!!!

    We all will die someday and a big penis decomposes no slower than a small one. It doesn't fucking matter once you're dead or these women who hurl insults are dead. Doesn't all this fluff penis/breast/ whatever talk sound just downright silly now????? So do what ya like, but always be respectful. You never know when fate will turn itself around and bite you back!!


    Dec 15, 2007
  • I like to call this the porn star myth. Since porn came about in the late 70's early 80's our idea of what a normal person is has become flawed. If you watch porn than it would seem every man in the world has a bigger dick than you but it's not the case. Very few people understand camera angles and lens selection. You can get the right angle and lens and make a 4 inch penis look 8 inches on film. Also you have a skewed perception of your own penis because you only see it from one angle looking down at it. Try looking in the mirror or getting your partner to take pictures.

    The results may shock some of you. Your penis will appear larger.I have a 6in penis but I have a picture of my ex giving me oral sex and my penis looks huge in the picture..This is how all the 6 inch guys in porn look bigger. It's the camera not the penis.

    Dec 15, 2007
  • I am 6.75" and 5.5" girth on the shaft, with my head being 6.25". My wife has been with some past partners that were longer she said. She said it sucked as they would try to jam it in there and really bang into her cervix. This hurt like heck. I know it does hurt her as I hit it too with certain positions or if I go in real hard. When they would try not to hit it they could not go in all the way. For a woman to orgam with intercourse the man needs to get in all the way so their pubic area can make contact with her pubic area/clitoris. If the last 3" are always outside the vagina this can not happen. Shorter guys need to remember this...get it in all the way and grind on it, make circles, write out your name, whatever. Try the Coital Alignment Position. :)

    My wife said that the two she was with that were longer were a$$holes. If she acted like it did not hurt they did it harder and harder until she said something. One guy had some kind of rape fantasy where he would hold her down and he wanted her to fight back. What an a$$!! Almost like they got off on making her hurt, that it reinforced their ego in some manner when she finally said it hurt.

    Bottom line guys, you got what you got, so try to make the most of it. You dont have much other choice here. Ask your girl what you can do to make her enjoy it more. Have her talk to you during sex, so if you hit a hot button you can go back to it again and again. Maybe some great oral before hand? Maybe using EMLA creame to numb it if you have a hair trigger? This stuff works BTW.

    I am above average I guess, but I would not want ot be any bigger even if I could.



    Dec 17, 2007
  • I’m a 22 year old guy and I have slept with a lot of girls and woman in my time oh and by the way I am not bragging. I have a really small penis, like 2 1/2 inc. and although I think that I’ve gotten about 10 %of those lady's of by my count. I properly would have gotten more girls of but the fact is girls just need allot more time and frankly I just can’t keep up half of the time loll sorry ladies but it’s true. But it has never really mattered because I have never had a girl complain about my size nor has a girl ever broken up with me. All the guys out there that are hung up on their small ding dongs just get over it.

    The faster you do, the better you relationships will be. If you want to please girls in the bedroom make it more about her. Instead of 5mins of 4play then go a hundred miles an hour. U needs to kiss, touch and make it all about her. Always complement her on how gorgeous she is and how hot you are getting by giving her pleasure and things WILL improve. Trust me boys if a girl is going out with you, she likes you and won’t go walking out the door just cause you got a small wiener. All in all the biggest problem is yourself just accept that your small and work with it try new things, different position and defiantly toys (if your not to scared that a bit of plastic is doing something that you can’t).....follow my advice and things will improve, but hay I’m only 22 what do I know yeh anyway good luck boys.

    Dec 19, 2007
  • Quick question.....can a smaller penis make getting pregnant more harder?


    Dec 23, 2007
  • Having an "average" size penis can be very depressing.....especially if u suspect your gf or wife is runnin around on u. Look.....do the best wit what u got in the bed....be confident, spend time wit your gf, and love her......but if u catch her cheatin, drop her likes shes hot........period. By the way, women love girth, the one thing i lack. VERY VERY depressing
  • You do not have to have a big dick to have a baby, that is what it is for.
  • Hi i am 28 married having a pennis of size 4.5" when errected at full .My wife says she does not have any problem with its size I KNOW SHE LOVES ME A LOT BUT AT SOME CORNER OF MY HEART I FEEL THAT SHE NEEDS A BIG ONE.How can i know if she really does not have any problem with my small sized pennis .Can any one please help me out with my problem?i think a girl who have experienced both a big one and a small one like that of mine can help me to come out of this problem.
  • I want to increase my penis. My size is 3.5 inches long only. How can I increase it.
  • Hey boo bless you!! its not good to have a small penis plez get plastic surgery couz somegirls r SEXATTICS and they cant help that they love sticking humungus dicks up their pussy so plastic surgery would be good
  • I think the biggest problem is the social aspect of what is considered attractive. Society says that the massive cock is sexually superior, more attractive, and better. Since, a big part of sex is mental for women, if a man isn't hung like a porn star, women percieve this as unattractive. Obviously, it is harder to get sexually aroused by someone who is percieved to be unattractive, hence sex is usually less enjoyable for the women who subscribe to what society says. Women complain all the time about the "unfair" standards that the media puts on them to look good. So, when it comes to this thing.......I say forget about it. Have fun with sex. Talk about sex with your partners, NOT everyone likes the same things during sex. Work on it, and you'll find ways to make sex great for all involved.
  • Women commonly have trouble opening up there true feelings and a lot of guys know that. plus women commonly say they want one type of guy and then do another and almost everyone knows that. Plus when you have a guy with a large penis, then that guy will automaticaly give him more confidence which almost every women is attracted to a confident man. Plus you can now watch a lot of woman oline stretching out there pussies with all kinds of stuff. Plus porn guys are almost all huge, so you add all this up and its no wonder us average guys feel uncomfortable with our size. So thats why you get into porn, find a woman who seems to not care about size, and make women that like big dicks sound like loose, trashy, whores.
  • Buy a cock ring and take some salsa lessons. If your girl needs wide and deep stimulation, that's what vibrators are for, and they can be a hell of a lot of fun to lie back and have the guy use on a girl. In the mean time, small dicks hit the g-spot easier if you know how to move your hips, and they're a hell of a lot easier to go down on than monsters. Also creative finger use can help with stimulation, both vaginal and clitoral.

    My husband is hung like a horse and I wish he were smaller a lot of times. I'd see less of my doctor that way. :P
  • Well am a 5'6 tall latino male and I have 11 inch penis!! Let me tell you that I wish my penis was about 7 inches becuase at least a woman would enjoy sex more with me rather then be in very bad pain!! Trust me I have had 10 grilfriends all my life and all of them did not like to have full intercoures with me due to all the pain that my penis caused them!! Now my wife who is 6'3 tall could handle my penis size almost all the time , but sometimes it 's hard for her becuase since I love to have sex twice a day she would get to tight for sex. ALL MEN WITH SO CALLED SOME PENIS DON'T WORRY TO MUCH JUST BE YOURSLEFS AT ALL TIMES AND ENJOY LIFE BECAUSE WE ONLY LIVE ONCE!!!
  • IT DOES'NT MATTER MY BOYFRIEN GOT A SMALL AZZ DICK BUT HE STILL GETS ME 2 MOAN AND SHIT I LOVE FUCKIING HIM AND HE KNOW HOW TO EAT MII PUSSY REAL GOOD SO DON'T SWEAT IT
  • Lets put it this way I have 5 inches and some girls can orgasm some cannot. ITs like a key and a locke some keys dont fit. Also its not always our fault guys, everyone goes ohhh small penis. Some women have the atlantic ocean for a vagina, stay away from that shit, you would need a two liter to do anything with that. Dont be depressed about it find a vagina thats right for you. IF she is shallow enought not to care than screw her. Let me tell you about relationships. While sex is important, if thats all you have its doomed to fail. If a woman leaves you because of your size, consider it a blessing. Let them go with the assholes with the big dicks who will screw around on them and make them feel like shit.....karma is a bitch. If two people love each other they can make it work. If a woman can give herself an orgasm with her finger than so can a guy. Just know what she likes and make it about her until she cums. As far as women who just want a big dick, be prepared to be miserable because if thats all you looking for in a relationship and thats all its based on you will be miserable , eventually.
  • Most of us compliment large ones thinking it makes our guy feel good, and manly. we don't actually care as much as you guys think. If you are big, your girl will say she likes em big. If you are small she'll say it doesn't matter.
    Truth is if we are with you it's because we like YOU, not your penis. (sorry to you big guys, we aren't as impressed as you think, but it's sexy when you get all proud and confident, lol).
    Oh, and you little guys need to stop being selfish jerks, JUST LET HER LOVE YOU FOR YOU, THAT'S WHAT SHE WANTS. Leave your penis out of it, LET HER RESPECT YOU AS A MAN, by not being an insecure wimp about your small penis. DON'T DEGRADE YOURSELF IN HER EYES, THAT IS JUST YOU BEING INSENSATIVE TO HER, because she want's you to be her emotional anchor, and her protector, (not her insecure wimp and not her dildo). Just stop being an insecure little baby about it.

    Is there a size that is too small? YES, 4 inches or less, is too small for vaginal orgasm, NOT TOO SMALL TO BE LOVED BY HER, OR PLEASE HER. Just DON'T DEGRADE YOURSELF IN HER EYES! She doesn't need a certain penis size, she need's a strong confident man to be there for her emotionally and be HER MAN!
  • Studies show that the majority (93%) of all women surveyed had this to say:


    "The size of a man's penis is totally irrelevant...





    Unless, of course, you intend to have sex with him."

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