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Sent to a friend Okay i'm 15, and this all just happened a couple of months ago when I had a crush on this very attractive young man(19), I thought me and him would never atart talking until one day he approached me and it escalated from there. I always fanticized about having sex with him but I knew that would never happen because he had a girl, and when I asked him about it he told me he was single so we started dating.....1 week later I found myself having sex with him and as much as I wanted to stop I couldnt, and we had 2 more encounters afterwards. Then I started to hear that him and his ex-girl were engaged and that she is pregnant. Then 2 weeks ago I found out that I was pregnant too. I dont know what to do?Rating:4.11
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- OK I have only one thing to say, WHY IN THE HELL DID YOU NOT USE A CONDOM? You really didn't even know the guy, how did you know that he didn't have AIDS or something. I'm sorry but I have to tell you the truth but that was all your fault because you should of known to not have sex without a condom oh and when yall started to go out why did you bring that other girl up.
- When are these pedophiles going to stop preying on our children. Where are the fathers to protect their precious daughters? Where are the mothers to advise and guide their daughters through puberty. Sister, your body is precious and shouldn't be easily given to any man, UNLESS HE IS YOUR HUSBAND! Since you've already given up your goodies and are carrying his child, ask him to marry you (make you a respectable woman) and help raise the child he help created. Good luck. Message to my young sisters, please keep your legs closed and books open. If a man TRULY loves you, he will MARRY YOU FIRST, then make love to you. He will cherish, honor and protect you, not degrade you by making you into a score on his belt or baby momma. Look in the mirror, you deserve much better! Respect yourself and wait for the one who deserves you!
- you should tell your mother, and not keep this to yourself, because she is the one respondsible for you, and will be the care taker when it comes to your child. Because you aren't able to take care of yourself. Plus how can you have a poll about whether to leave him and keep the child, when he have plans to marry another, so it is sad to say that what ever decision you come up with, it will be the one made by you and your Mother.
- Does he know you are pregnant? What does your parents have to say?
- I thnk you should keep the baby and do not give it up. Also you should tell your mother because she would find out eventually and she can help you a lot. You should not feel bad b/c he was more in the wrong knowing he was still with his ex and engaged with a baby on the way don't feel bad. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!!!!!
- well maybe we could talk e-mail me it's joshs_babys_mommy@yahoo.com
- First of all YOU SHOULD HAVE LEFT HIM ALONE HE HAD A GURL NOW YOUR LOOKING STUPID!! YOU ARE 15YEARS OLD NOW WITH A BABY THAT YOU BETTER KEEP YOU TELL HIM THAT HE NEEDS NOT TAKE CARE OF THE BABY TO AND DON'T ACT LIKE IT AIN'T HIS AND YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONE BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T YOU WILL CAUSE MORE DRAMA FOR YOUR SELF .
- all i can say is you better pray that God is on your side. Your young ass shouldnt have been messin with him and you need to get some help from your mom are someone else older asap. As far as the guy go forget it...you was just a piece of young ass who got used. Sorry honey but its the truth. GOOD LUCK n best wishes to you!!!
- FIRST OF ALL ,YOU'RE 15 GETTING PREGENT IS NORMAL BUT ONLY BY MISTAKES
YOU KNOW WHAT THE HELL YOU WERE DOING
YOU SAID YOU HAD THE CRUSH NOT HIM
BABY GURL GET YO SHYT TOGETHER - It okay, tell your mother and the young man. But first always remember that God do not make mistakes. People are going to put you down and say things about you, but you can get through this. If you learn from this mistake, then you have not fail. Use it as a stepping stone to your future. God has someone for you and you child. Everything is done, you still have life in your body to live, don't let what others think stop you from your future. Everyone make bad choices in there life. We just have to learn not to stay in them. Always remember, the same people that put you down, will try to keep you down, you have to say to yourself, I am still in the game and I can win. God bless you. Stay strong
- WHY IS IT ALL OF THE SUDDEN, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO? YOU KNEW HOW TO SEX UP WITH AN OLDER GUY, DON'T PLAY DUMB NOW. I KNOW THAT YOU ARE ALL OF 15, BUT WHEN YOU PLAY LIKE A WOMAN, YOU HAVE TO PAY LIKE A WOMAN. YOU SHOULD KEEP THE BABY, YOUR PARENTS SHOULD FILE CHARGES AND YOU SHOULD FILE CHILD SUPPORT . THE KEYWORD HERE IS FILE. FILE YOUR BEHIND RIGHT OUT OF HIS LIFE. I AM AFRAID THAT YOUR CRUSH HAS NOW LANDED YOU WITH SOME CRUSHING RESPONSIBILITIES, KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND BE A WOMAN. YOU CAN NOW START PLAYING FANTASIA"S HIT SONG BABY'S MOMA.
- you need to tell your mom.
he also needs to be in jail. older men need not prey on young girls- that is precisely why there are statuatory laws. you may not want to hear this, but you are not mature enough mentally to engaging in sex. and he, eventhough he is 19, should know that and act accordingly. you may not want him to get in trouble, but he did not show that same reguard to you by having unprotected sex and getting you knocked up.
as for whether to keep the baby or not, that is up to you. you need to sit down and do some serious thinking and soul searching to come up with the answer. no one can make that decision for you.
there is no "leave him" option. you don't have him- you never really did. sex is not a relationship, so you have no pull on him whatsoever. - i'm keep u in prayer who eva u may be......
dont do as i did when i got preggy at 15, which is i didnt tell my mom until i was like 6 months preggy...by then it was too late 4 "options"... never the less i had the child and here i am today
at this age u all are too young and especially the young men, YOUNG DUMB AND FULL OF CUM..... and u young ladies need to find something to do beside spreading your legs thinking some BOY WILL "WANT" you... i can best beleive he, this young man wont be around 4 long......if aint already gone telling folks it aint his ((rolling my eyes)) - Well, if you're not of legal consenting age in your state, he's going to have a lot more to worry about than having two of you pregnant at one time.
They call it Statutory Rape and the law does not recognize the fact that YOU consented, because in their eyes you weren't mentally able to make that decision.
You better check it out and decide whether or not he has broken any laws first, before you deal with whether or not you should tell him about the baby, because if you aren't "legal," this will be a lose/lose situation for all of you.
~ SL ~ - black/female age 20:
damn girl what the hell did u get yourself into? now i know after all the mess going on in the world with std's and AIDS and you still did'nt wrap it up, don't u watch BET? well im not teh one to judge you but, i think you should do what your heart says to do. I just had a baby 8 months ago and it is very hard to take care of a child especially if the daddy ain't around. your only 15 you got your whole life ahead of you , your main focus should be school and having fun with ya homegirls, not takin care of a baby, your a baby yourself.
But u made your bed and know u gotta lay in it. i hope everything works out for you and you make the right choice, and as of the boy, leave his ass alone no matter how good he look cuz he got u in enough mess as is.... - you should tell your mom..let her help you out...forget the guy though...hes sounds to be a worthless piece of shit...although i think some jail time would be GREAT for him..
- HEY, BIG DEAL. HIM AND HIS WIFE GET TO RAISE ONE KID AND YOU GET TO RAISE THE OTHER. TOUGH SHIT, BITCH.
- Of course some women would love to see jail time for him when this 15 year old willingly consented. I am not condoning statutory rape, or anything this young brotha who can't keep it in his pant's did, but dammit sistas, dammit. Poor excuse for women some of you are. Throw it in a man's face that females mature faster than males but when you do something stupid you were just "young". Where is the accountability of you "mature" creatures when it needs to surface. Does it even exist?
- its arite to be a mom ta 15 u was goin to be one anyway.and if u really love him yall should keep the baby and stay together no matter what his baby mama say.and go ahead and tell yo mama she gone be mad for a while but she gone get over it cause she love u she kno everybody make mistakes.and dont give that baby up for a adoption .just be a good mom and dont giveup.and dont think god is jeoperdying your life cause he is not. Just dont make the same mistake twice unless u really have to.GOOD LUCK AND MAY GOD BLESS U AND YO BABY
- what is most messed up about this to me is 1)your pregnant and aint even old enough to drive 2)everybody is gone be talking about the 15 year old thats pregnant 3)your gonna be one of josh's baby moms - im sooo sorry honey
- SWEET HEART YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO RAP IT UP.US YOUNG GIRLS CANT KEEP BEING ANOTHER TEEN STATISTIC.THAT SHIT IS GETTING OLD.I WOULDNT EVEN PUT MYSELF IN SUCH A STUPID ASS SITUATION.
- I hope others who are considering screwing around with underage girls read this letter.
Some guys are just dumb asses and shouldn't be allowed to live on this planet. - hey little girl your in a very bad situation.why engage on that thing that your only 15. oh god , if your parent know that thing im sure they will be lazy thingking with what you been than... But theres one thing you can solve that problem, try to live with the baby and start to face the truth. You do that thing so no reason why you cant do to face that problem. I know that your only 15 but theres no reason you cant solve the problem, try to pray god and nothing impossible.. And dont try to commet bad thing to your self..All you can do now is to talk with your parents ,, confesed them and be happy on wat you do even that is a big problem.
- i'm really sry about everything! it must be terrible! i hope you get things figured out and yeah you should prolly tell your mom! good luck with everything and keep hangin in there!