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Okay I really need some advice, and I just wanna say thankyou to everyone who posted a comment on my last cofession. I still talk to the guy he is 19, and I am 2 months pregnant....I dont know whether or not I should keep the baby because I am soo young but I dont want to get an abortion and make the child suffer from my mistakes. I havent told my mother because she believes im a virgin, I only told my cousin. I attempted to tell the father but I dont know what to say....and he already has a baby on the way by his supposed to be fiance. I should've just kept my legs closed, or used a condomRating:3.83
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- Yes, you should have kept your legs closed since you are too young and not married. Too late for that. You need to tell your parents and begin the process of prenatal care. Don't murder the baby via abortion, which also destroys your body (including mental health). No matter what you do, this man has a right to know he has a child on the way, give him the option of stepping in and raising the child himself.
- Don't get an abortion, it's physically, spiritually, and emotionally damaging to women as well. Talk to your mother about your situation, hopefully she will be able to help you raise this child. The other alternative is to put the baby up for adoption or give it to the child's father to raise. Please let this young man know you are pregnant.
- Yea, you really should have kept your legs closed b/c you are to young. DON'T GET AN ABORTION BECAUSE THAT BABY DIDN'T ASK TO BE IN THIS WORLD. Let you parent(s) know, and fingure out what you are going to do from this piont on. Let the baby father know that you are pregnant so he will have a change to say that he wants to be in the baby life or he doesn't. Honey, its not going to be easy, you will have to walk up some bumpy roads but keep going and kneel down and pray to the almighty.
- I THINK YOU SHOULD KEEP THE BABY BECAUSE IF U AINT WANTED THE BABY YOU WOULD OF USED A CONDOM AND KEPT YOUR LEGS CLOSED SO WHY MAKE THE BABY SUFFER IF U DIDNT WANT THE BABY U SHOULD OF GOT AN ABORTION BEFORE YOU WAS 18WEEKS BUT NOW THE BABY GOT A HEART BEAT SO WHY KILL IT.
- Honey , I know everyone is saying the same thing, but keep this baby and learn from your mistakes, also tell the guy that he is goinjg to be a father, if he can't handle it then raise your child. Tell your mother and you never know, she will help you, I am speaking for experience. we as black women has done this for years raising our children.stay strongand keep the faith.
- Firstly you must tell your mother what is going on, she is the only person who can truly be of any help for you at this point. I am sure you are scared and don't want her to be upset with you but, it is a little too late for that. She will be upset but she will get past it. As for the boy that has "fathered" this child once you and your family make a decision as to what you will do then your family and his family can sit down and discuss that decision. Whichever way you decide to go you are making a choice that will change lives forever mostly yours. You must step up to the plate and be responsible for your choice to lay down with this boy. I hope that from hear on it will be in the front of your mind that when you choose to have sex that you are placing your health, future, and sometimes your actual life at stake. Now is not the time to feel beaten up or be down on yourself you have a small window time to make this decision and you need all the support that you can get. This is an important time to have someone trustworthy to depend on. Reach out to your parents they are the only ones who will truly be of any help to you right now. I pray you find the wisdom to make whatever choice you need to make and the strength to carry it through. Be Blessed.
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