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[483] Friendships

Ok ok check it out i consider myself a very good person and my friendships and relationships is like the most important thing to me...i am a very emotional person so with my friendships...if they have problems i tend to take them as my own...i beat myself all over it and i just dont understand why i am the way i am because it is not like i get it back in return...


for an example i have a friend who is very opinionated i guess you can say and what that friend might say or do effects me alot..so let me get into the story that friend is messing wwith this person who first started off having a person they already dated and my friend knew about it...but my friend still insistant with messing with that person anyway...but in the process she will get all upset with that person goes off and hang with there dating partner...i would here my friend all upset and because i care a big deal about my friendships i started to take it personal and now i do not like the person my friend messes with...but now it is a problem b/c my friend wants me to like that person but eventhough my friend keeps running back to the guy who now all of the sudden broke it off with the dating partner...but i cant and i wont...but i just need some advice or some words that will give me the strenght to get through this...

ps yea i could see people saying i need to worry about my own shit and for get about my friends business or even ask the friend not to talk about that person...but i feel like a bad friend if i do that..
what yall think??

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  • HOW OLD ARE U?
  • mayne....u gotta stick by yo friend....u have to tawk to her n let her kno how u feel because if that wuz yo friend she should obviously know what affects u n what doesnt....if she was yo friend....yo real friend...she'd listen to u n take into consideration what u r tryna say to her...im not gon tell u to mind yo own business...because when yo friend get hurt...its gon b yo business to make her feel betta so yo best bet is to guide her into the light....because she gon fall back on u when everythang fallz apart....**PoO**BaBy**

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