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Sent to a friend Okay...so I was talking to this gurl for a few months...I neva thought that we would get close or even develop a relationship of any source....but we did...and i had developed mad feelingz fo this gurl...so one night i expressed ma feelingz to her...and she didnt respond...i told how i felt about her i told her that i wanted to be with her and i told her that i loved her and was willing to do anything for her...soOoO...she neva responded and so i just took it as she not feeling the same about me..(that was about two months ago)..so we continued tawkin erreday but i wuznt tawkin to her the same way i was...i stopped callin her like how i used to...and so she got upset with me...but didnt care because i didnt feel the same about her anymore...so she calls me last week out of the blue and tells me that we were supposed to be workin on gettin back together...then she introduced me to her friend...
i like her friend alot...me and her friend speak on the phone all the time...we have even developed a relationship and we speak openly about the feelings that we have for each other...i like her alot...nah i just dont know how to tell the other gurl that im tawkin to her friend.....do yaww think im wrong fo messin round with her friend? cuz im really diggin this chick......but whuts yo input?
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- Ya know, women are constantly talkin about how men don't show their emotion, and when we do, things like this happen. And I know that had to hurt when she didn't say anything back, however, you may not believe this, but there is part of you that likes the girls friend just to get back at the original girl. So with this in mind, I suggest that you break it off with the friend and spill your heart to the original girl one more time. Tell her everything you've felt for her and her friend. Let her know how it hurt you when she didn't say anything back. And this time, if she reacts the same way, then I suggest you go out and find another girl. But I strongly urge you DON'T DATE THE FRIEND!!! Cuz you never know how the orignial girl actually feels. She may say one thing, but actually feels another. Plus, dating the friend can possibly bring some hardships. Say you and the friend are in a relationship and you suddenly begin to experience feelings for the original girl. You'd be caught in a twisted love triangle that you would never have had to experience.
- YOU ARE DEAD WRONG!! All this is going to do is Start a WHOLE LOT OF DRAMA for you from these two gurls this can most likly break up there friend ship if i was you I would leave them alone
- You are not wrong...She missed out. That was her fault. Do what you feel is right, but be careful because there will be some hurt feelings.
- boi u is a foo. how u gon switch yo feelings on den off fo da first gurl like dat. u aint rite. ur doing this could break up a friendship so u need 2 do da rite thing n leave dem both alone!!!
- Just leave them both alone. Because it sounds to me as if you're not really sure about who you wanna be with. If you can stop liking the first girl just like that in the blink of an eye, and start liking her friend the moment she comes around. Then you never really felt the way about the first girl the way you said you did. And if the second girl was her friend, she wouldn't not be on the phone engaging late night conversations. Man I tell you females ain't sh#@. I believe Snoop said it best. Well, I guess what I'm trying to say is that YOU ARE WRONG, but remember what goes around comes around, and back on around again. In the famous words of R. Kelly. I'm telling you, you brothers gonna get enough of this Down - Low Sh#@ 4 real.
- All I can say is follow ya heart and not ya soldier and consider if the shoe was on the other hand what would you want the girl to jump and make a move like that with your heart?
Well, technically she missed out by not letting you know "something" when you were trying to come clean to her about your feelings.
It's taboo thing for friends to mess with a friend's
'play thing,' but since she never validated or acknowledged what you shared, you moved on.
However, you and the friend should tell her and get it on out there, to avoid any further distractions and discord.
~SL~- There is nothing wrong with finding someone who will share the same feelings!! What one woman won't take from u u will find another...if homegurl gets upset with u liking her friend more...it's somewhat her fault for introducing ya'll.
~~Dr. Philicia~~