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[494] older woman, online crush

I believe I'm attracted to a younger man I met online. Is this normal?

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  • I am attracted to a him. He said things I like to hear. He talk nice to me and I like that. My ex didn't so I quess thats why .
  • Nothing wrong with being attracted to a man (regardless of his age), who showers you with attention. Just take your time and do not rush into anything - remember some men are known to tell a woman what she wants to hear in order to get between her legs.
  • Speaking as a young man, I don't think it's nothing wrong with you being attracted to a young man it's nothing wrong with it, you just have to be honest with your self if you think he's real with you be real and tell him how you feel, really no matter what tell him, but alot of yiou men are stepping up these days and taking on the role of mature men, because women our age or full of games or all about one thing, so I say keep to know him, and then make your descision.
  • to the 2nd comment so what if the gentleman is 16 & the women is 45 theres nothin wrong?????????
  • I mean damn, it all depends on how young he is. If you're 45 and he's 16 then yes you have a problem Mama, and you need to get yourself some help. You don't want to end up like Kells (R.Kelly). Just a lillte Thought for The Day.

    Toodles.


  • Yes, it's "normal," because it's a human emotion. It doesn't seem "normal" because it goes against society's norm, but society isn't paying your bills, clothing or feeding you.

    If you're attracted to him and he is to you, then you owe it to yourself to see where it could lead. Even if it were to fail, you still would have allowed yourself the experience, rather than thoughts of "what if?"

    Get past the age and see what is in his heart and mind. I've met men in their 40's and 50's who were as immature as a eighteen or nineteen year-olds and I've met some 20's and 30's who had the wisdom of men years older.

    ~ SL ~

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