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Sent to a friend My ex-husband thinks he\'s the father of my youngest son. He\'s not. We were divorced when he was conceived. He was living with another woman and I was dating a friend of mine who was visiting from New York. I ended up sleeping with both of them within days of each other. My ex and I used protection. My friend and I did not. My son looks like the twin of my friend. He knows its his. I know its his. My son, who\'s 8 does not know. My ex doesn\'t know. OH! I almost forgot. During that time I slept with my friend, he was MARRIED and I had NO IDEA. His wife and child were back in New York. He even had his own mom lying for him. Anyway, my youngest son looks NOTHING like me. People don\'t even realize we are related. Of course he doesn\'t look like my ex. My oldest son looks just like me and my ex. So, yes, the 8 year old stands out. But he\'s the cutest thing ever. My question is, do I tell him who his real father is? Why? What would be the point? It\'s not like he\'s involved. He\'s remarried and has had severel more children. My ex is no good either. He hasn\'t seen the boys in months. So I don\'t see what good can come out of me telling my son and my ex. No good at all. What do you think...Rating:0.00
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- the kids gonna find out some day and hate you for not telling him, so why put it off, and while you're at it tell him he's the product of a one night stand with a guy that was married.
- when 4 legged animals come in heat they breed with the first male of their own kind they see, woman are the same.
- wait until he is old enough to understand
- First of all, no one should judge you. People do this all this type of stuff all the time, you just got caught. First I think you should tell your ex, he does deserve to know. It may be more appropriate to wait and tell your son later on in life when he can understand. The real dad should tell his wife, it's not fair to his family to not know as well.
- yo u can't keep a secret like that..i've known people who found out the same sort of shit later in life...yes they were crushed and pissed off for being lied to all their life. tell the kid the truth!
- If the ex is barely in either of your lives then what's the point? He'd probably be relieved more than anything. However you've already fucked this kid up from Day 1 by conceiving him via one night stand. Kids need a mother and a father for guidance, why do you think the kids of the world are so fucked up these days? We have a 10 year old with a deadbeat for a father and an 8 year old from some guy you randomly fucked and had no intention of raising a child with. I swear, some people should just be neutered.