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Sent to a friend[539] ....i dont know what to do....
iight.. yall i dont know if my story is important or not but it is to...ok here is goes...one day i was out some where and meet this person they was real nice attractive and everything...
well i still talk to them now we been talkin for 3 months now and we really like each other(but the othe thing is that the person that I like or whatever is a girl) yea i like girl been likeing girls 4 a long just about as long as i have been living and my parents dont know about it yet and i dont want to tell them yet cuz im scared that they might look at me the same but i know that they are gonna love me not matter what....but i just dont want to bring their hope down cuz my sister is gay to but they know about her and they still love her and talk to her like she the same person but i just dont want bring their hopes down about grandkidz and all dat kind of stuff u feel me...
SOMEBODY ANYBODY PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO?????
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- Repent and run away from a lifestyle of filth, shame, and disgrace. Women were created for men and vice versa!
- personaly i think that u should do u and just tell them what's going on in your life... i mean if you say that they will love you no matter what, then it really shouldn't matter what or who you are with right.......
cuz i was in the same boat you in now u just do u and try to hope for the best... - just do what u feel you would want to do if they love you like you say and it shouldnt matter what or who you are....right
- man dont care what people think
- they gona find out sooner or later and weather you tell them or not you still gona like females itz not like after you tell them and they don't like it ur goin to turn str8 cuz ur not so do wat you gotta do and tell them......and if they don't like it the hell wit em cuz life is to short for you to be worrying about wat other ppl think you gotta live life to the fullest n if u liking females make you happy then shit like em
- I AM SPEECHLESS, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY, BUT THAT U HAVE TO FIND SOME PEACE. THE ONLY WAY TO FIND PEACE IS TO BE TRUTHFULL WITH YOURSELF AND OTHERS. I SEE THE FACES OF GAY COUPLES AND I SEE A FACADE. A FRONT THAT THEY PUT UP IN FRONT OF THE WORLD, THERE IS ALWAYS A HINT OF TORMENT AND SADNESS IN THEIR EYES, NO MATTER HOW HAUGHTY THEY MAY ACT. WHEN YOU ARE NOT TRUE TO YOURSELF YOU ARE ONLY ACTING. I WISH YOU PEACE OF MIND AND HOPE THAT THE WORDS THAT I HAVE SAID HELP YOU IN SOME SMALL WAY.
- WITH REGARDS TO THE PREVIOUS COMMENTS ABOUT JUST DO YOU. THAT IS NEW AGE BULLSHIT. WHEN YOU DO YOU, IT SOMETIMES DOES OTHERS IN. SURE YOU SAY YOUR FAMILY WILL LOVE YOU REGARDLESS TO THE FACT THAT YOU ARE GAY, BUT BE REAL YOUR FAMILY ARE JUST A COLLECTION OF HUMAN BEINGS. THEY WILL STILL LOVE, BUT THEY DARN SURE WON'T LOOK AT YOU THE SAME. WHAT IF YOU FOUND OUT YOUR MOM OR DAD WAS GAY? WOULDN'T YOU LOOK AT THEM DIFFERENTLY, BUT STILL LOVE THEM. PUT YOURSELF IN THEIR SHOES, BEFORE YOU DO YOU. DO YOU REALLY KNOW YOU. I GATHER FROM YOUR STATEMENTS THAT U ARE VERY CONFUSED. TO DO YOU--YOU HAVE TO KNOW YOU!!!!! NO ONE CAN FUNCTION IN CONFUSION!!!! STILL SPEECHLESS.
- For anyone who is telling you that your family and friends will look at you differently....thats crap. I wouldnt even blink if any of my friends or family said they were gay. it is not New Age crap. It is who you are. And the only ppl that will treat you differently are closed minded idiots. The only one who can judge us is God. And he is not prejudiced.
- Repent from this foolishness-don't let the world sell you a ticket to hell. Because something is accepted does not make it right...same sex relationships are wrong sweetie!!
Be more concerned about your schoolwork....maybe your spelling and grammar would not be so horrible. - your parents will love you no matter what. if you want to be with a girl then you go for it. its your life nobody elses.
- Don't make any rash decisions until you make ur mind up. Questions about ur sexuality is a big deal... Don't get ur parents all excited when you're not even sure. What r u bi curious? Bisexual? All I can say is figure it out before you tell ur parents anything. Trust me, I've been there ma. Good luck
- STOP LICKIN AND LET SOMEBODY START STICKIN....
- Your parents are going to be disappointed either way, but you have to tell them and give them the opportunity to get used to the idea that another of their daughters will be bringing home a female and professing her love for her.
It's a hurtful thing, but it's a little better when they have enough time to prepare for it. You will have to face it one way or another and the sooner, the better.
~ SL ~ - black/female,age 20:I know exactly how you feel, becuz i just recently came out to my mother, or should i say she found out.And u don't have to worry about what people have to say about u, cuz only you can make yourself happy and the only person who can judge you is God. Life is short and you should't have to make yourself unhappy, to make everyone else happy. do you, their your parents and their gonna love you regardless. Good luck ma.
- look for god.........he can help you im sure you should not be with one of the same sex.it is SIN one of the beggest sins
- ok u should tell them if u feel like it cuz i mean they ur parent im sure they would understand u they love u so it should not matter to u at all if they didn't do nothin to ur sister maybe they won't do nothing to u then so u shouldn't care good luck anywayz!!!!!!
- well that has happend to me this week...you just need to keep it sercret because my frnd isnt even my frnd anymore...when she found out she just started hating me...dont tell her...unless you kno for sure that she wont mind...
- Dam repent__wat a big sin_no offence but its disgusting
- everyone keeps saying repent, gay people should have the same rights as everyone else, how is love wrong? I mean come on... maybe its the fact that i dont see eye to eye with your religions, or maybe its the fact that i'm gay myself... Don't tell her she needs to repent though... cause sure as hell no i wouldn't. I have nothing to repent about, loving someone is not a sin... and girl, i think you should just tell your parents and just talk with them... if they know your sister is and still act the same then they will be more prepared for when you come out.
- My friend, you are a lesbian. There is absolutely nothing wrong, filthy, or shameful about you, though people will tell you all of those things. It sounds like you haven't yet come out. It's not easy, I won't hide that, but you should do it anyway. I can't tell you how wonderful it feels to know that the people you love the most are comfortable with who you are and it sounds like you already know that your parents will be accepting. Gay couples can have children too, usually through adoption, artificial insemination, a sperm donor, or a surrogate. If you or your sister want children, your parents don't have to worry about grandkids. If you don't want to tell your parents immediately, I suggest telling your close friends and certainly your sister. Being a lesbian or bisexual isn't the easiest thing in the world to deal with, but you seem remarkably well-adjusted. I also suggest that you find a local LGBT youth group. Most people feel like they don't need mentoring, but sitting down and talking to people who know how you feel is a wonderful thing.
As far as this girl is concerned, go for it if she digs you too.
Congratulations on your self-awareness. I hope that your life is every bit as beautiful as a life ought to be. Best of luck with everything.