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Sent to a friend So here it is... I've been having this year long mental/verbal love affair with someone that I recently found out I'm not attracted to any more. When we first met HE was cute to me, and now he's disappointing. Sadly, he's in love and I'm just disgusted with him on all levels: Physically, SEXUALLY, Emotionally, and Mentally. He's taken a BIG leap by revealing his feelings for me and now I don't want him. What should I do?Rating:1.67
Comments
- You should be woman enough to stop misleading this man - very dangerous game sweetheart!
This doesn't make any sense, after one year you decide you aren't into him? Have you met someone else? SLept with another? Is this an online romance? Does he lack convo skills? - tell him the truth
- Well it's obvious that he lack convo skills (per say) if she says he's lacking mentally... duh. Stop trying to be a smart ass and take your time and read... Anyway who, Disinterested, Be real with that man just as well as yourself and tell him how you seriously feel. This love shit isn't a game and it's not a joke take it from someone who know. Just be honest with him, and things will be a whole better for you, not so him because he's going to be hurt. But hey, it is, what it is.... Holla
- TELL THAT MAN THE TRUTH AND HOPE THAT HE IS NOT A STALKER. STAYING WITH HIM, YOU WILL ONLY BE CHEATING YOURSELF. WHEN A RELATIONSHIP ENDS, IT USUALLY AFFECTS TWO PEOPLE BECAUSE OF THE PERSPECTIVE OF ONE PERSON. THE ONE PERSON BEING YOU. AND WHEN YOU SAY IT'S NOT YOU IT'S ME REALLY MEAN IT . NIKE IT OUT. JUST DO IT!!!!!!
If you owe him nothing else, you DO owe him honesty.
Just let him know and move on from there. It will reveal itself in the worst of ways and at the worst time if you don't.
I say you both deserve a better "end" than that. We can't help falling out of love anymore than we can falling in love, but we can help how we let someone down easy.
~SL~