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Sent to a friend I've been dating this guy for about a year now. We're just dating nothing serious, although I would like for it to be. I really don't how to come to him and tell him how I feel. I'm a little old fashioned I always let the guy take the lead. Although, we act as if we're in a serious relationship, but nothing has been confirmed, and I don't want to assume anything you feel me. I mean I don't know what to do. I mean part of me want to let it go, and the other half says hang in there. I don't know what to do. Help me......... I am so damn confused right now, I hate feeling this way.Rating:1.00
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- I am lost. What do you mean by you act like your in a serious relationship? Are you having sex? At any rate, ask him what his intentions are OR continue to waste your time and life wondering what you mean to someone. Currently, my guess - nothing, it doesn't take a man that long to let a woman know she's his woman or he sincerely cares about her!
- BABY YOU SAY YOU OLD FASHIONED, BUT YOU HAVE DEFINITELY LET THIS MAN TAKE THE LEAD. AND HE HAS SIMPLY LED YOU ON. I AM SURE THAT HE CAN SENSE THAT YOU WANT SOMETHING MORE FROM THIS RELATIONSHIP AND HE HAS CHOSEN NOT THE REASSURE YOU THAT THERE IS A FUTURE FOR THE TWO OF YOU. YOU SAY THAT YOU ARE CONFUSED, BUT YOU ARE REALLY NOT! IF YOU WERE SO CONFUSED YOU WOULD NOT HAVE THE PRESENCE OF MIND TO KNOW THAT SOMETHING IS DEFINITELY NOT RIGHT HERE. SO NOW IS YOUR TIME TO TAKE THE LEAD AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE RUDE, JUST FIRM. SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY. LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, AND WHY YOU FEEL THE WAY YOU DO. ALSO LET HIM KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND IF YOU DOESN'T WANT THE SAME THINGS YOU WANT, THEN YOU MUST GO YOUR SEPARATE WAYS. YOU SEE IT'S LIKE SHOPPING- YOU DON'T GET MAD BECAUSE SEARS DOESN'T HAVE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. YOU JUST GO ON TO J.C. PENNEY'S AND FIND WHAT YOU WANT. HAPPY SHOPPING!!!!!1
- STOP IT WITH THE FUCKING CAPLOCKS.
you need to look deep inside yourself girl, and think...it always helps to talk to the guy directly. I mean, if hes a good guy, he will understand you. Also, talking to your mother is a help. If not, talk to a teacher of somesort. anyone who has more experience than you should be able to help. :) Stay strong, and do what your heart tells you, not your mind. - I was n the same situation a few months ago. Give his ass an ultimatum, if still one year later he isn't "ready" then you must go. Cuz you'll always be that girl that he knows will settle for whatever he gives you. Be strong mama