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Sent to a friend I'm still in love with my ex, and I think I always will be. I truly believe that he is my soul-mate. I have never connected with someone like I did with him. The problem is that he is now in a situation with a baby. I can't let go... My heart still craves him. No one has come close to erasing him from my thoughts. And I feel like I'm the one for him. Will I ever heal from this endless heartbreak? Because I don't want to feel like I can never have love again...Rating:2.00
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- If he is your soulmate, you'd be his wife, not someone he uses and abuses. I say he used and abused you because he stepped outside of your relationship and had a child by another woman. Sister, find a hobby, learn to love yourself and work on building a relationship with God.
- It's true. If he was your soul mate, you guys would be together and he wouldn't have a baby with someone else. Love is an action, not a feeling. Love is an intentional way of behaving. Feelings ebb and flow, they come and go but love says, "I choose to love you even when you're undeserving." That's what it means to love someone through the good times and the bad times - the good times are a breeze. It's when someone hurts you or makes you mad that love is evident.
- I know what you are going through. I am going through the same things forreal. We have been friends for 8 years and I still love him too. He's my ex also. So I know what you going through.
- LETS JUST SAY THAT FOR EACH BABY AND SITUATION THAT HE HAS----HE BASICALLY IS SENTENCED TO 18 YEARS TO LIFE. WOULD YOU BE ABLE TO LET GO THEN? IT NOT A MATTER OF YOU LETTING GO, BECAUSE YOU CAN'T HOLD ON TO SOMETHING THAT YOU DON'T HAVE. YOU ARE ASKING FOR HEARTBREAK AND I AM SURE THAT THERE ARE MORE BABIES AND SITUATIONS IN THIS MAN'S FUTURE ,IF HE HAS NOT LEARNED FROM HIS PRESENT SITUATION. YOU WILL HEAL AND YOU WILL LOVE AGAIN IF AND ONLY IF YOU CHOOSE TO. SO CHOOSE TO HEAL AND LOVE AGAIN. AS FOR YOUR EX- GUY , THAT WAS A CHOICE ALREADY MADE BY HIM. THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER ANYONE IS TO SIMPLY LIVE WELL. TREAT YOURSELF DON'T CHEAT YOURSELF.
Sister,
Once you begin to focus on YOU and where you NEED to be, you will begin to heal, but in that healing will come the hurt of knowing that for now you have to let that man go so that he can do what he needs to do about his child.
I don't know if his being away from you and in the situation with the baby is temporary or if it is indeed a breakup, but whatever it is, YOU have to go on like he is no longer there or available to you.
Love hurts and it will take time to get over, but it can be done and if you keep busy and NOT sit up and hold "Pity Parties" for yourself, you'll be over him a lot sooner than you believe.
There is someone out there who can make you happy, but you have convinced yourself that there isn't so any decent prospects aren't going to look good to you right now because you've already told your heart and mind that they don't exist.
~ SL ~- John 18 (18-25)
Sorrow Will Turn Into Joy
That is what I have to read myself everyday... The same exact situation. I ask myself all the time...How did I get here? Some say that I chose to be in this situation. But who would choose for someone not to love them? Who would chose to have all this love for someone and not get it in return? He told me she was having his baby.. The first thing I said to myself was that..."She took my life". She took the life I THOUGHT was meant for me. The healing processes is a long one. I am still going through that. Just the though of the whole situation hurts. But everyone always tells me God has something better for me. I believe it too...I just honestly wish these feelings for him would go away. I pray on my knees..but for some reason they are still here...
DC - Its John 16 (18-25)
DC *sorry about that