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Sent to a friend[6821] Found out a big secret...
i came home from uni at easter to see my parents as a suprise and got a massive shock and now i dont know how to feel.the first thing i saw when i walked in the door was my mum wearing nothing but knee high boots, bent over the sofa having sex with the dad of a girl i went to school with!
i was just stood there in shock and they saw me and started to panic. at first i thought my mum was cheating on my dad, but then my dad and the guys wife came downstairs, also mostly naked.
turns out my parents are swingers and meet with other couples to swap partners.
i just really dont know how to feel about the whole thing. they explained things and i talked to them about it but i just feel so shocked and a little hurt.
i need to vent to people about how i feel but dont want any of my friends knowing :(
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- Though you may be upset about what they choose to do in their lives, you must realize that they are adults. You can't judge them. You know they still love you. Do you still love them. You have your life to live, based on what you saw, what will you do in your life different? Discouraged or encouraged?
- Just be happy that they kept you seperated from that lifestyle as a child. Having a liberated sexual life doesn't mean they are bad parents.
- I support both in what they have said.Your parents are adults .Love your parents
Having a liberated sexual life can be quite a asset.
I have a sexual healthy relationship with a older woman as a young male .I really appreciate her .I helped put her shattered life together after her second marriage ended.As for myself I feel really comfortable in life.
We shower together,enjoy each others warmth in bed durning our lovemaking and I really love female contact.
I am two years younger than her youngest daughter.
We keep it all a secret to protect all we know.
In your case please do the same - Very careless of your parents, they could have gone to a hotel or something. Didn't they know you supposed to be home that day ? I don't think I can accept their life style if I were you. You would never understand that even you try to. I would lose respect for them immediately.
- That is a big shocker !!! I don't know what to feel if I found my parents in that situation. What did they explain to you ? I would hide my faces from you for a while if I were them.
- You should feel upset. You are their child. They should have included you in the fun. Then the girl you went to school with could have been the girl you had sex with. Good luck!
- Wow.... I would be very disgusted. I can never imagine seeing my parents naked, and will never wish to.
Though I'd like to swing with some couples... - Forget all the things, try to stable your self. God do things for some right. I think god want you to learn something and make you so strong emotionally. Never think what happened? just think now what hv to do and jst do it. Think about yourself what you feel good? don't worry, everything will be fine. Smile and accept all things.
Don't take any bad decision. Convert your life bad scenes to good. its all about what you think, so just think positive if you didn't like all this, then stay away from this.
Just take little ex. suppose you don't like choclate it doesn't mean that you upset b'coz you don't like choclate. just you accept it.
Just like that accept the bad things but never effect from them and don't be panic. try understand your self.
I have only one question for you " If you think this is bad and you can't accept , what more you can do?? gonna die? or leave your parents?" Tell me what? no its not, you have to live with your parents. So don't do anything wrong just accepts this and live life happy. - I have to say that I disagree totally with your parents behaviour but you have your life to live. If you also disagree, id say let them know and leave it at that. You were shocked to see what they were up to which is a good thing. We may not like the things that people do but have no control over it, live your life with truth, morals and good principals and you will be fine.
- Fuck man, get over it. Your parents are swingers and if you're half the man your dad is use it to get it on. They're taking control of their lives and you fucked up by turning up early... where's the decency in that??
And who the fuck is god squad??? How blasphemous is it to preach the lord's love in a place like this??? Heelllooooooo... time/place...