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Sent to a friend I am a 22 year old female and i have have a boyfriend of 4 years.we are very close and plan to marry within the next few years after we get out of school.Ive always noticed womens bodies since maybe middle school but never had any sexual feelings, it was more like wondering what they looked like naked.but now i am actually feeling strong sexual urges towards women.i tell my boyfriend everything and it used to be ok with him when i would look at females, but the more i talk about it he gets weirded out by it. for example...ill spot a women with a nice butt and be like dang look at her, and he'll will agree, then later he'll be like stop doing that it makes him feel weird.My question is...im bi-curious....i want to try out a female before i marry, but im scared that i may like it and want to continue, my boyfriend considers this to be cheating and would require a breakup if i want to experiment with females and wont take me back if i breakup with him.but i dont want to end up cheating later on either....what do i do???
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- do not get married until you have settled that "urge." either go to counseling to work it out or break it off with him until you're sure what you want. do not get married without being secure in yourself first, otherwise you setting yourself up for failure.
- ONCE AGAIN YOU HAVE ASKED A QUESTION THAT YOU ALREADY HAVE THE ANSWERS TO. YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT YOU ARE, YOU ARE JUST CONFUSED BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU ARE. YOU KNOW THAT YOU SHOULD NOT BE GETTING MARRIED IN THIS STATE OF CONFUSTION THAT YOU FIND YOURSELF IN. I AM SURE IT WILL BE A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE YOU TRY BEING WITH A WOMAN. I CAN'T SAY WAIT DON'T DO THAT, BECAUSE EVENTUALLY YOU WILL. USUALLY WHEN YOU HAVE THE U-R-G-E TO DO SOMTHING . IT IS USUALLY THE URGE TO DO SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE DONE BEFORE. IT'S LIKE YOU WOULDN'T SUDDENLY HAVE THE URGE TO EAT CHOCOLATE, IF YOU HAVE NEVER TRIED IT!!! SPARE THE GUY IN YOUR LIFE THE PAIN, BECAUSE HE IS BOUND TO FIND YOU OUT, WAY BEFORE YOU FIND YOURSELF. BECAUSE RIGHT NOW YOU ARE LOST. HAPPY HUNTING IN FINDING YOURSELF. HINT ---SELF IS USUALLY LOCATED NEXT TO TRUTH!!!!!!
- I don't know how religious you are, but you need to pray about that and ask to have those urges removed. I've been there myself, had a guy I was dating for 3 years and was bi curious and once I had my first sexual experience I couldn't stop. I ended up living my life as a lesbian for 3 years of my life and just recently started dealing with dudes again. Once you go that way there its hard to stay away. Even now I'm still struggling, my advice is fight those urges!!! Stay with ur man.
- you're bi-curious..you should try it out..it's fun
- you should try it out with a woman and if you end up liking girls better than tell the guy that you want to be really close friends instead
- you have to tell him that you need to try out a girl for your own good and if you end up liking girls more then be close friends with him
- You're not bicurious, thats a made up word. You are bisexual, accept it.