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Sent to a friend My husband is a Pastor and he is cheating. I would love so bad to leave him where he stands..but I don't want to embarrass my children, and honestly myself. I look at him and I want to kill him. Everyone thinks we have this perfect life, so not true. Not to mention how the congregation would feel if this came out. I hate deceiving people....but I don't know what to do.Rating:0.00
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- You can't worry about what others will think. You already say you have thoughts of killing him. That is not good for you or your children in the end. Make the move. Have you talked to him about his infidelities? Think about yourself and the children. Staying with him can be more detrimental in the long run than cutting your losses and moving on. The congregation will get over it. Seek counseling for yourself and your children and God will do the rest. Peace and blessings to you.
- IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT YOUR HUSBAND IS A PASTOR. HE TOOK THE SAME VOWS IN THE MARRIAGE AS ANY OTHER MAN. THE RULES DO NOT CHANGE BECAUSE OF YOUR HUSBAND'S OCCUPATION. IT DOESN'T MATTER IF HE IS THE PREACHER OR THE PRESIDENT, HE IS WRONG AND YOU ARE HURTING. YOU ASK THE QUESTION WHAT SHOULD YOU DO? YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER, YOU JUST SEEM TO BE WORRIED ABOUT THE CONGREGATION. GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF THE CONGREGATION AND YOU. BUT PLEASE BASE YOUR ACTIONS ON WHAT YOU KNOW FOR YOURSELF AND NOT WHAT YOU SUSPECT OR HAVE HEARD. WHEN YOU KNOW THE FACTS FOR WHAT THEY ARE THEN YOU CAN O-P-P! ORGANIZE, PRAY AND PREPARE AND NOT NECCESSARILY IN THAT ORDER. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
- WOW! SOME MAN OF GOD...NOTICE i SAID "MAN" WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES. BUT THIS ONE NEEDS TO BE FIXED NOW BEFORE IT IS EXPOSED AND THE WHOLE FAMILY IS DISGRACED.
- pray pray and get some counseling...and talk to him about it if u have not... i agree as above in long run u may end up doing more damage to yourself and family if u stay and put up with this mess.... i say seek counseling first and go from there.... hopefully he will be will to attend also ~ GOOD LUCK
- first, and forsmost, i know that you have prayed prayed, and prayed again, but i say unto u sister, keep praying. but u have to be careful what u pray for.. but you know i know that u may feel that, ur lieing to the church, kids, and everybody else for keeping the secret. but God has already taken care of it,,, whatever u do in the dark shall come to light.. but please please, dont u cheat, because he cheated on u, u keep on beliving in God, its going to work out.... i love u, and i wish you the best shamekia... michigan
- black/ female age 20:Excuse me miss, but i think you should leave his ass, cause you don't want your children witnessing a cheating husband, and you have to protect yourself as well. And don't worry about the church, their not the one's who's gonna make you happy, you are. and besides it's the church he'll have to explain his actions to, so he'll look more like an ass. Preaching about the good word, but can't live up to it, God got something in store for him. Keep ya head up and focus on you and your children. good luck.....
- I just dont think he would be as considerate as yourself. He would probably divorced you so fast it would make you head spin! And then go on to marry someone younger, more beautiful to suit hes current desires. You must to what you feel in your heart is best for you and the kids. There's no easy way out am afraid. Godspeed!!
- OUT HIM AT CHURCH
- "OUT HIM AT CHURCH"
That's funny!!!! I don't agree but it's funny.
You are a pastors wife...surely you know the Lord well enough that you can seek Him. At this time you should be seeking God. I can only imagine how difficult it must be to be a pastors wife. I watch my first lady and I don't envy her at all. I used to, but not any more. God bless you! - I never thought I would be in this position but i am a woman who cheated with a pastor of another church. What makes it so bad is that I am saved and I knew better. I have been celibate for 10 yrs and was saving myself for my future husband. Recently I came in contact with a man from high school who was my first love and a very good friend since childhood. It seemed innocent at first and then we began professing feelings that we never got over. However he is married and I should'nt have agreed to meet him anywhere but i did. We went out to dinner with some old friends and as the night progressed it was only the 2 of us. I ended up sleeping with this man and I feel so terrible. I never thought I would do something like that. I know i am in trouble with God. He kept trying to communicate but I don't answer his calls or respond to his emails. He has a church, a wife and a child. I have asked GOD's forgiveness but I think I need to talk to my pastor. How do I do this?