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Sent to a friend i'm thinking of calling off my wedding. i'm so overwhelmed and don't think i can do it. everyone feels the need to interject their opinions on what i should or shouldn't do, and fiance is no help. i am at my absolute wits end.Rating:0.00
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- IF YOU ARE HAVING SUCH A HARD TIME GETTING THROUGH A WEDDING THEN YOU CAN FORGET ABOUT A MARRIAGE. WHERE IS THE LOVE? DO YOU NOT LOVE THE MAN THAT YOU ARE MARRYING? WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE, YOU GO THROUGH HELL AND HIGH WATER TO BE WITH THAT PERSON AND YOU EVEN GO THROUGH A WEDDING. IT WOULD SEEM THAT YOU HAVE NOT MATURED ENOUGH TO HANDLE STRESS OR TO ASSERT YOURSELF. EVERYONE HAS OPINIONS, BUT IN THIS CASE THE ONLY TWO OPINIONS THAT MATTER ARE YOURS AND THE GUY THAT YOU ARE MARRYING. WHAT IS SO HARD ABOUT THIS. GIRL, STEP BACK AND TAKE A DEEP BREATH. DO YOU WANT TO BE MARRIED OR DO YOU JUST WANT TO BE A BRIDE?
- it is obvious you shouldn't be married if other's opinions can seperate the love you have for your fiance. This one should be blamed on you because you are letting this happen
- Planning a wedding can be an overwhelming task, but it should be more fun for you than it is overwhelming. You need to seek out the real reason(s) why 'overwhelming' is at the forefront. Not saying that you do, but you may have some fears or concerns in the back of your mind that you are not admitting to yourself. Our subconscious mind has a way of affecting us on a very conscious level without us realizing why our behaviors or attitudes are in turmoil until we figure out what's really bothering us. So what's really bothering you? I encourage you not to move forward with a marriage if you are not overjoyed to marry this person because time and the committment itself will not dispell your doubts or eliminate the issues. Also, there is a difference between letting others make your decisions and taking peoples' advice. Make the distinction. The people closest to us always believe that the 'way they would do it' is the way you should do it. You will always have people in your life who have your best interest at heart, but no one can decide what's BEST FOR YOU, but you. This is your wedding and your marriage (potentially). At the end of the day, you own it, not those around you. Make a decision about what YOU want to do. Everyone else doesn't have to like it. It's not their life.