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Sent to a friend i really don't like my best friend. she never has something usefull to talk about, she's always talking about other people's life or complaining about how she doesn't have any other friends. it's really annoying but i feel really sorry for her because if i just stop talking to her, she won't have anyone else. it just pisses me off the fact she doesn't even try to get new friends and how she never accepts the truth. i just can't tell her that the problem she doesn't have friends is all on her because she would be pissed off at me and then i'd feel guilty. i don't know what to do, i don't want to talk to her anymore but i just can't do that to her because that would kill her.but then i have to hear all the crap she has to say about other people's life because she doesn't have a life and i hate that.
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- A FRIENDSHIP IS LIKE ANY OTHER RELATIONSHIP IT IS NOT UPLIFTING AND MOTIVATING TO YOU, IT IS A WASTE OF TIME. SHE WILL FIND ANOTHER FRIEND, AND ANOTHER FRIEND, SHE JUST WON'T BE ABLE TO KEEP A FRIEND. MOVE ON LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE MISERABLE. PEOPLE LIKE YOUR FRIEND WILL SUCK THE LIFE AND JOY OUT OF YOU AND MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY BECAUSE YOU GET TIRED OF DEALING WITH THEM. DON'T COMPLAIN MAKE A CHANGE!!!!!
- Tell her just flat out tell her. If she is crushed it's her own fault for not taking the advice of someone who cares. Tough love is the hardest to give. Tell her that healthy relationships have balance. Set healthy boudries for yourself. Everybody needs to vent once in a while but not all the time. That is abuisive. If being with her leaves you feeling drained. If having her in your life is worith it to you tell her the truth and try to work it out otherwise move on.