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Sent to a friend[7981] In Love with a Married Man
I'm feeling so lost and helpless at the moment and I carry such a heavy heart. I'm in a situation that I never would have believed if you were to ask me this today. I met a wonderful man who told me from the being of our friendship that he was happily married and who dearly loved his wife. I always just thought how lucky she really was to have such a lovely man as part of her life. As time has past we became very close. We first met online, chatted most days and then we moved onto telephone calls, Skype and other social networks. After knowing him for a year online we both decided the time had came to meet face to face in real life. Boy was that ever a hard decision because we knew we already loved eachother. When the time came to meet him I never had any hesitations leaving my hometown in Scotland to fly for more than 9 hours to travel to the US. Meeting him for the first time is something I will never forget. I instantly knew there were going to much trouble and danger ahead for us both. I simply love him from the bottom of my heart. We are just so right together and yet it feels somehow wrong. In the early days we always joked about me being his Mistress and I was content with that life but now after meeting him for a second time, I can't but help to want more. He is now talking about leaving his wife of 25 years. I feel so bad and my heart is just broken apart. Please help me.Rating:0.00
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- I'm in a similar situation. I'm married and have fell inlove with a married woman. We were close friends and go to church together. Also I'm friends with her husband which really makes things worse. Neither of us are really happy in our marriage. We are in a big circle of friends and if this was to come out alot of people would be hurt. I know the pain you are feeling. At least if he gets a divorce then maybe yall will have a chance to be happy together. I my self do not understand how something so right can be so wrong.
- It feels right to you, however those involved (the married spouses and families) expecting the commitment of those they married to be with them and no other, at least that is the promise that was made at the time of their marriage. Hurting these people who have done nothing to deserve getting hurt because they have done nothing wrong is what makes it wrong in so many ways.
Don't get me wrong I understand your situation and I do not envy you in the least, this is s rough situation to be in and to be in love with more than one person just tears away at soo many people. It hurts but for some reason you cannot seem to give them up either..
Not sure what advice I can give you at this point, just wanted to answer why it is wrong when it feels right. Be careful and be wise.
God Bless