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Sent to a friend I am a Christian, Im not talking about one who only goes to church in sunday morning, I mean Im there sunday school,sunday morning ,sunday evening, weds night etc., I study at home daily as well as with my children and I strive to do right but I havent been able to stop haveing affairs. I like good sex and I love the attention and my husband is not giving me either. Im afraid all the time and I feel so hipicriticul but when those 8 or 9 months go by without any real affection all that goes out the window.SCARED OF DEATH...Rating:3.00
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- THE SONG GOES WE FALL DOWN BUT WE GET UP. EVIDENTLY YOU HAVE DECIDED TO STAY DOWN AND FURTHER MORE YOUR ACTIVIES ARE ON THE DOWN LOW SO YOU THINK. YOU SAY THAT YOU ARE SCARED OF DEATH, BUT THAT'S NOT TRUE, BECAUSE FROM YOUR ACTIONS YOU ARE STARING AT DEATH AND OFFERING HIM A DOUBLE DARE. HOW DO YOU FIND THE TIME TO CHEAT? IT IS BETTER TO BE OBEDIENT, THEN IT IS TO SACRIFICE. YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO SACRIFICE YOUR SOUL, PEACE OF MIND AND YOUR MARRIAGE FOR FEW MOMENTS OF PLEASURE. IT SEEMS WE ALWAYS FIND FAULT WITH OUR MATE WHEN WE HAVE SOMEONE ELSE TO COMPARE THEM TO. IF YOU CAN FIND THE TIME TO CHEAT ON YOUR HUSBAND, THEN YOU CAN FIND THE TIME TO GIVE YOUR HUSBAND SOME LOVE AND ATTENTION. WHEN YOU GIVE IT COMES BACK TO YOU. BUT WHEN YOU COMPARE SOMEONE TO SOMEONE ELSE AND TELL THEM ALL THE TIME WHAT THEY ARE NOT DOING, THEN THEY SAY WHY BOTHER. DON'T JUST GO TO CHURCH ALL THE TIME TO HEAR THE WORD, YOU HAVE TO ALSO LIVE THE WORD.
- well sister you have to look at self... ask the question, why do i continue to have affairs? are you truly happy with thy hubby and all? there is more to this, as feel free to email me if you truly would like to get to the bottom of this matter: MrAfrica@SecretConfessionZ.com
hopefully more people will try to assist you... ( Admin ) - First of all change the title of this confession, then ask yourself "who am I". If your anwser is a child of God, then you can stop these affair," I can do all things through Christ who strenghten me". Then ask you husband what is it that you need to do to get his attention back. You are human and you are not a virgin, so yes you need help. See God also will make a way to escape 1 John 1:9. If there is no hope for the marriage then get out of it. God will send you a man after his own heart, Read 1 Cor 7, It will give you guidelines on marriage.
See it not what people call you that makes you who you are, but what you anwser too. People will always use others to hide behind when they have problem themselves. The bible say" none is rightous, but Christ and All have sinned and came short of the glory of God. You are not a sinful christian, you are a christian that sinned. Just trust God, He will change you if this is what you truly want. I know He change me. I am a saved man that God is still working on. My prayers goes out to you. If you need to you can also email me greenrod66@yahoo.com. May God Bless you and keep you!!!
You feel trapped by the lifetyle that you are trying to lead and you have affairs as a way to escape it. You may love your husband, but you aren't as understanding of what YOU should try to do to light that flame again and get him interested in a long and fulfilling sex life with you, his wife.
Your sins will find you out and if you can afford to risk all that you have, keep at it, but if you truly want to be free from it, you need to call on Him and make it a point to refuse anymore affairs or inappropriate dealings with men.
~SL~
- honey you are not cheating on your husband ,but on yourself. every knee shall bow and every tongue shall confess. i am not here to judge but to tell you i wish peace of mind and happiness for you. until you can find that within yourself the devil shall continue to destroy all prospects for happiness that you seek.
- u need some prayer and u need to go to God and ask 4 guidance and repent!!!!!!!!!
we all are human and subject to human error, if you know the Lord u should know the proper steps to get your behind out this mess..... but the question is do u really wanna stop what u are doing? its one thing to stop becuz u feel guilty but that does not necessarily mean u WANT to stop~ then u speak of getting no affection from your hubby so that is an area that u AND him need to work on, go to your church leader or another person who help u two thru that situation, maybe its something that your hubby is lacking and only way you two gone get to bottom of it is that you two COMMUNICATION and get help together ~ good luck - interesting how some judge, "let he who is without sin cast the first stone", right and wrong sometimes for me seem blured too. God doesn't condem people, but lifts us up, take one day at a time, chose today what you will do and where you will go, my advice, work on your marriage, talk to your husband, and never, ever tell him about the affairs, it may make you feel better by getting it off your chest so to speak but it will ruin him. You dont' make yourself feel better by making someone else feel worse.
- IT'S OBVIOUS THE PEOPLE WRITING THE COMMENTS ARE NOT GOD, BUT THESE COMMENTATORS SHOULD NOT ENCOURAGE YOU TO LIE. IF YOUR HUSBAND ASKS YOU ABOUT THE AFFAIRS, YOU SHOULD TELL THE TRUTH. BECAUSE THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT EVENTUALLY. A MUDDY GLASS OF WATER, LEFT SITTING EVENTUALLY WILL BECOME CRYSTAL CLEAR.
TIME WILL REVEAL THE TRUTH. MYSTERIES DO UNFOLD. - This Is Very Deep. I believe you need to take a step back and evauate yourself. Whats wrong with with this picture? The energy you are using to have these affairs, try and use it to heal you and your marriage. Have an affair with your husband. What desire you are having to make you go outside your marriage try to Incorporate them within your own. You become the aggressor, you ignite the spark bring him back to your "Covenant" the promise that you both made to one another, because TRUST if you continue this it's going to blow up in your face a people are going to get hurt especially you. You are in my prayers.
Sincerely Jamleesh.