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Sent to a friend I am a 39 year old married woman. I got married 3 years ago to a wonderful man who I love very much. My husband is the epitimy of what a husband should be; a provider, caregiver, etc. One problem-I am not sexually attracted to him. We do make love on occassion, but we are just not comaptible in our actions. I have talked to him and I have tried many different things but I think it must be me! But here is the REAL confession! Before I met my husband, I dated another man who is married and is a Pastor of a church. I have since moved to another state and I still talk to him daily. I think of him all of the time and he confesses his love for me. We have phone sex often. Also, whenever I travel alone I spend as much time with him as I can. We rent hotel rooms and have rendevous! Every waking day I try not to talk or even think about this man, afterall, he is married and so am I. Plus, he is a Pastor! God forgive me! I really think I love him! He doesn\'t know that I am married and says that one day he wants to marry me. My husband is a very sweet man and I don\'t want to hurt him by him ever finding out about this. I love the way that me and the other guy spend time together and make love to one another. I want to get out of this triangle but I feel compelled each day to keep it going just another day! Help!Rating:0.00
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- this is deep sister as u must do alittle soul searching... we both know what u are doing is wrong and to top it off both men happen to be pastors... u say thy hubby is everything to u, yet thy actions are showing differently... do know that others shall give u advice and truly absorb what they have to say... in all feel free to email me as i will try my best to help u: MrAfrica@SecretConfessionz.com
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- YOU SAY YOUR HUBBY IS EVERYTHING TO YOU, BUT IF HE WAS YOU WOULD NOT BE SEEING THIS OTHER MAN. SOMETIME THESE CONFESSIONS ARE JUST A WAY TO GET THINGS OFF OF YOUR CHEST. I THINK THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE DOING, BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS WRONG,BUT YOU REPEATEDLY RATIONLIZE YOUR IMMORAL BEHAVIOR. YOU ALSO NAME DROP THAT THE OTHER MAN YOU ARE SEEING IS A PASTOR-BIG DEAL - IT WOULDN'T MATTER IF HE WAS A GARBAGE MAN--IT IS JUST STRAIGHT UP WRONG. THIS ROAD THAT YOU HAVE DECIDED TO TRAVEL IS FULL OF POT HOLES, BUT YOU HAVE PACKED YOUR BAGS AND ARE READY TO TRAVEL. YOUR DESTINATION IS HELL. ARE YOU THERE YET? YOU BET YOU ARE. DO THE RIGHT THING, IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO TURN FROM YOUR WICKED WAYS. YOU AND YOUR PASTOR LOVER ARE BOTH JUST ANOTHER COUPLE CHEATING, BUT YOU ARE REALLY CHEATING YOURSELVES. THINK ABOUT IT. YOU ARE FOOLISH TO THINK THAT IT WOULD MATTER OR NOT THAT YOU ARE MARRIED, THE PASTOR HAS NO INTENTIONS OF MARRYING YOU! BELIEVE THAT IF YOU DON'T BELEIVE ANYTHING ELSE. AMEN.
- aint nothing good coming from NONE of this mess u in and CONTRIBUTING TO...... u need to stop while u are ahead
he married, u married, he's a pastor......dayum
all i can do is pray 4 you and maybe u should the same and ask 4 some serious guidance out of this "triangle"...... in my opinion is a square... you and your hubby, him and his wife.... i just hope no kids are in the middle of this ~ peace - I'm concerned about the people he ministers. I guess he preaches do as I preach, not as I do. From what I've read all you two have in common is SEX, LYING, CHEATING and sitting in Church fronting as saints. How can you trust each other? Love doesn't exist ANYWHERE in this equation. Only LUST, because LUST don't give a damn, LOVE does. Stop being NASTY and do what YOU KNOW IS RIGHT. Sound advice, forget about confessing, pray to be delivered from lust and ask God for forgiveness
- don't talk to this pastor. if you love your husband, then leave the pastor alone and seek counseling for your sexual issues. don't risk your marriage for a married pastor who is obviously no role model.